I have a cousin who is much older than me and he has a son my age that likes to be around me. My cousin has a program so that he can see my facebook account, which is my privacy. I know for a fact he goes through my facebook account because he knows what I have in it (nothing bad). His reason for doing so is to see if I am a bad influence on his son. Is what he is doing haram?
I dont like the fact that he is going through my privacy to see what type of person I am....
^^lol thats impossible, but now i have another question..
is it haram that he is looking thru his sons privacy to know what his son is doing? even though his son does not like it?.....does it matter if he tells his son that he is looking thru it or not?
Oh no brother, that is completely different. Not only is he allowed, but he is obligated, to monitor and observe his son's behaviour. It is not haram for him to observe and monitor his son with or without the son's knowledge, it is not spying. The son is answerable to his parents and required to inform them of anything the parents want to know and to be obedient to them even if he reaches adulthood.
God knows best.
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Iblis's eternal destination in the Hellfire is due to Arrogance, not Disbelief.
Even the non believers are calling for parents to spy on their children for their own safety so what does that say about what Muslims parents should do to protect their children?
Truly ignorant are those who think its wrong and when you parents you will then realise why it is essential in this day and age!
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