if she had reverted after the nikkah then yes you have to seek the islamic divorce. its an obligation on every muslim woman that she has to wait 3months before she can get married again. the divorce must be done according to the law of Allah swt. Allah knows best because you might want to take her back during these 3months. however i am not a scholar so maybe its best if you get a second opinion from imaam as every scholar differs and thats the problem but i would seek the islamic divorce its best.
I am wondering if this is markislam. Whowever it is, he does not wish to remain married to his wife, now he has converted to Islam. by glo(add to rasema's reputation)
There is a very good reason why he doesn't want to remain with his wife. He has not converted to Islam out of capriciousness nor to piss his wife off.
People seek anonymous accounts for a few good reasons ..
if this is Mark we should respect why he chose to go under anon, further, we really need not probe further into information that he didn't wish to part with, rather answer only as pertains to his question insha'Allah..
I think it is a major deterrent to why some posters are hesitant to post here .. this ultimate delivery of a harangue and probing into other people's business seeking to offer 'our opinion' rather than a scholarly opinion or ultimately what most really seek which is a consolation!
a couple of reminders from this very section insha'Allah
Abou Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his neighbor. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his guest."� [Sahih Al-Bukhari and Sahih Al Muslim]
Text without context is pretext If your opponent is of choleric temperament, seek to irritate him
just my opinion but if you didn't get an Islamic contract for marriage then you can't by the same token seek a divorce Islamically.. However, you can get a civil divorce citing irreconcilable differences. I do worry for the fate of the children, but if your wife is belligerent and abusive toward you or your religion then in all likelihood you can use those against her in court to gain custody of your children-- if you don't wish for them to live influenced by her execration which she is very likely to pass to the children as a form or revenge-- for now I'd really keep very cool and watch everything you say because if this is both your intent and as far as children are concerned then I don't see any good reason why she wouldn't go after you with every ammo in the book...
she is a mother first and last and I hope that the issue can be resolved to both your liking..
and Allah swt knows best
Text without context is pretext If your opponent is of choleric temperament, seek to irritate him
People seek anonymous accounts for a few good reasons ..
if this is Mark we should respect why he chose to go under anon, further, we really need not probe further into information that he didn't wish to part with, rather answer only as pertains to his question insha'Allah..
I think it is a major deterrent to why some posters are hesitant to post here .. this ultimate delivery of a harangue and probing into other people's business seeking to offer 'our opinion' rather than a scholarly opinion or ultimately what most really seek which is a consolation!
a couple of reminders from this very section insha'Allah
Abou Hurayrah relates that Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) said: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak a good word or remain silent. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his neighbor. And whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should show hospitality to his guest."� [Sahih Al-Bukhari and Sahih Al Muslim]
100000% agree!
Jazaki Allah khair for reminding!
Anonymous brother, May Allah help you through your hardship. I strongly recommend you to ask a scholar or ask in one of the reliable websites like:
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