Did I wrong him?

Assalaam alaikum, brothers and sisters in islam,

Am gonna try to summurise my story, sorry if its very long.

I was previously engaged to a brother in islam but from different culture. I believe difference in culture is not the problem, it depends on the individual. but the engagement broke up.So many problems happened during this period of engagement.This brother was extremely jealous, that he would start spying on me. He would question me if i had ever slept with a man before, and this really upset me, coz i have always respected myself, but he didnt care.He would force me to stay awake and chat with him, and whenver i tell him, am tired i need to sleep he would get upset.once i told him that it is haraam for us to chat and he got really angry with me and said i was looking for excuses. He would demand that as soon as i come back from work i login in the computer and chat with him. I had no time for other things in my life.if i make a mistake of which sometimes i dont even know that its a mistake, he would shout at me and hang up the phone on my face.on the day of our engagement, Allah blessed him with a job in the town am living.
He joined the job after one month. He got angry with me and started shouting and stopped talking to me coz i never went to visit him,and my family never called him since he came to my country and it was over one week. I told him i go to work from 8 to 6, what time will i visit him, and also we are not married yet, that we should be that close. he started shouting and cursing my family that they disrespected him.He would always complain about his job, that its a low class job and pays less. to be honest it was a good job, and the pay thats the normal pay for every starter.Since i earn more than him, i agreed to pay the rent for our home and will help him in so many things at home, and promised him i wouldnt demand anything from him, all I need is love, care and peace in the house and a partner to guide me in my deen. He would complain alot about my dad, my family, and our "weired culture". He even refused me a wedding, then my mum requested for a small wedding just a gathering and my family will bear all the cost. According to our tradition, we dont have mixed weddings, we consider it as haram and shameful. He agreed to that. later he changed his mind and said no, he has to bring his male friends to the wedding. My parents tried to speak to him to explain to him but he never listened and he said if its not mixed, then no wedding and was shouting at my father. My dad was upset and he said my daughter, if this man is talking to me like this today, and stubborn like this now before marriage, i dought he will treat you any better. My heart is heavy about this thing, please listen to me your father,dont go ahead with this wedding.I listened to my dad and we callled of the engagement. This guy now blames my dad for breaking our wedding, and he cursed him and even called him a "gay" excuse my language. So many problems happened between us that i dont want to mention here as i dont want to bore you with it. I felt sad, but then i said alhamdulillah whatever Allah wills, will happen and maybe this was kheir for me. one month latter Allah blessed me with Umrah, and I performed Umrah with my parents alhamdulillah. My question is my dear brothers and sisters in islam, did i wrong this guy? did my dad do the right thing?please advise me, as i want to put this thing behind me and close the chapter.