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    Salam,

    I have a question I would like to ask about relationships before marriage. I am currently still in school and I have a lot more years left in education so marriage is not even a possibility for several reasons at this time.

    I'll get straight to the point. I met a girl a few months ago and got to know her slowly over time and now she is studying at my school (sixth form). We both like each other and went into a relationship. She isn't very religious, and I don't blame her because her parents should have taught her and set out a right example about Islam. I am slowly changing her into being a good Muslim without coming off as I'm forcing her too, so everything is her choice. When we went into the relationship I would touch her and hug but I was learning more about Islam and made a decision to not touch females, unless I really have too.

    She agreed with it and understood why I done it, so I'm doing everything I can to keep it "halal" and not sin. I know for a fact I wont commit zina because I simply wont be alone with her in a private place where it makes it possible and I don't want to as well.

    We really want a future together but I just want to find out if what I'm doing is acceptable. We are in a relationship buts it's more of an intentional one, if that makes sense? We basically have the intention to get married and be together but leave out the physical aspect of it for now, if that makes sense.

    So is what I'm doing allowed.
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    ^ bro your completely right.

    If a man looks into my eyes, and I dont know him, I DEFINITLY feel some tension - heat - angst - etc
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