i came across a girl profile on FaceBook and i was completely stunned. she is niqaabi sister and she is exactly what i am looking for. i message her but she is not replying either to my message or friend request. i am serious for her and i asked her to let me know if she is available and not engaged so that i can send proposal through proper channel. she lives near to my city but i dunno her family and their address. she is not replying neither she blocked me as i requested her that if she think its not possible or she is not willing, she can block me.
i am upset what i should do. i like her bcz she is practicing and she belong to same school of thought as me but she is not replying. please if someone can suggest what can i do in this situation.
thanks.
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she is niqaabi sister and she is exactly what i am looking for. i message her but she is not replying either to my message or friend request.
You came to do and feel all that just by seeing the niqab? What if she's a gremlin underneath? (I don't mean this in a rude way)
Bro, if you want to marry then you can't go around looking for a wife on FaceBook. You're saying she's perfect for you because she wears niqab? Bro you haven't seen her yet!
If you want to marry her then get to know her by meeting her at her home with her parents – not by adding and harrasing her on FB.
Ask a sister in your family or a sister or wife of a brother you know to contact her – as long as it's a sister and not you. At this moment she's probably freaked out to get a message by a random man who's insisting to marry her.
Last edited by 'Abd-al Latif; 12-18-2012 at 10:04 PM.
And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.” [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]
You say that your heart is always controlled by your mind, but the opposite seems true! lol
'The course of true love never did run smooth'.....
Dont worry akhee - insha Allah, He blesses you with marriage to a pious and loving woman - who is far better than the one that has currently captured your heart (or mind :P).
Are there any single sisters in their 20s here? : )
(never mind.....or I may get myself into trouble with the mods :P )
Dont you know - niqaabi's are very beautiful women.....which is why they have to keep their faces covered up :P
Nope, I don't know. If I did know then that would be a problem...
And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.” [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]
I forgot to mention that it's possible that she could be engaged or married already. If this is the case then it's probably why her brother also won't add you.
And verily for everything that a slave loses there is a substitute, but the one who loses Allah will never find anything to replace Him.” [Related by Ibn al-Qayyim in ad-Dâ' wad-Dawâ Fasl 49]
u r rite bro. what upset me is not a closed door. i m not a fussy person and i openly ask her if she is engaged or not interested, she can simple block me or refuse me. but she is not replying even she didn't refuse my friend request and its pending. y is she not making me clear...
if you want to complain, complain to Allah that why did He put the decision to choose or discard in women's hand and not men's. Other than that, I'd tell you to roughen up, if you want to go down this alley of having a woman in your life, toughen up boy, you gonna have some rough times. Better be prepared for it.
start looking at rejections as "their loss, tu nahein tau aur sahee (i am not in shortage) etc " and not as " I am ugly, I suck, I cant get women." You will be at peace.
Last edited by CosmicPathos; 12-18-2012 at 11:58 PM.
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Ask a sister in your family or a sister or wife of a brother you know to contact her – as long as it's a sister and not you. At this moment she's probably freaked out to get a message by a random man who's insisting to marry her.
nah. she's enjoying the attention. But at the same time, who wants to have a needy miserable guy in her life? That's the reason.
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There is no better warning than from women who have put many Sasquatch-like men in limbo. Take heed my brother.
so spoke the experienced one!!
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abdullahi yes she is not only in world but she is perfect for me in the sense we have much same.
therein lies your folly. Woman and perfect? No human is perfect. Women are bit more less perfect, you are always left to crave for more.
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thats what i am saying, no1 is perfect but someone can be perfect for u in the sense that u have same ideologies.
That is BORING. Not perfect. lol. bro what you've been smoking? If you want same ideology, marry your image in the mirror.
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the brother is already hurt cuz we are being judgmental of her. man this is love. You are in some deep waters here. bollywood style ishq to a face without identity hidden behind a niqab. lol
whaty if she has a mustache man behind that niqab???
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awwww .... cute... but i feel for you man. she will crush and crumble you. Dont be too "soft" for her. Bring this "soft" sided love of yours to bro-mance, your guy friends will appreciate it. Not to romance.
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That is BORING. Not perfect. lol. bro what you've been smoking? If you want same ideology, marry your image in the mirror.
bro do u think its work if a wife is strong follower of shiaism and husband is Sunni. so thats what i am saying she blv on same way as me.
Anyway PLZZZZ no more comments about her if u cant give some suggestion. i blv that developing felling about any non mahram b4 marriage is haram but i am saying it bcz i don't like to underestimate or judge any good muslim.
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bro. listen to your self-esteem. Listen to that little man within you.
She ignored your msg to her. Not once, but many times. Do you really want to marry such a woman? At least love yourself a bit more than you love her.
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