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    how to nullify a forced marriage.the person who married me by force threatens me that if i marry anyother guy he can give serious harm to me.in such case how i disclose over him about marriage nullification.is it possible to marry secretly with any other guy because i donot accept this nikah.

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    Morally speaking, any marriage you were forced into is null and void, and you are within your rights to marry anyone you want.
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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    Sister I think you should ask a trustworthy local imam/scholar whilst explaining your situation in detail.

    is it possible to marry secretly with any other guy because i donot accept this nikah.
    To my understanding, a secret marriage would not be valid (and I would advise against it in your present circumstance anyway).

    Your first priority should be to remove yourself from the forced marriage situation.
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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible




    when Imam / Kazi asked if u agree to marry this person and u said yes , if he gave u a part of Mahr , if u have 2 witnesses , then marriage is valid . U can't take another person as ur hubby secretly . U have to end ur relationship with ur present husband , pass ur Iddat time . Only then u can marry again.

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    Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible




    u may ask a Mufti .



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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible



    format_quote Originally Posted by help seeker View Post
    the person who married me by force threatens me that if i marry anyother guy he can give serious harm to me..

    did u tell ur parents ? Also inform Police if u are under threat like this.
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    Christ will never be proud to reject to be a slave to God .....holy Quran, chapter Women , 4: 172

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    yes i knoe i have the right to remarry but can i do it secretly without informing that person who diid nikah forcefully to me

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    Your first priority should be to remove yourself from the forced marriage situation.

    yes i want to do this first but i dont know the procedure

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    thanks for the information

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    Under what jurisdiction do you live? If you were forcibly married, maybe you could apply for police protection against the guy who did it to you?
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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    "forcibly married" ... that could mean anything.

    The OP has not divulged any information on this thread regarding the specifics of such a marriage - and you are all only going by what she said regarding her marriage being forced. It seems to me that this woman is in love with another man outside of her marriage and is seeking to have her wanting to marry him justified, by claiming that her current marriage is a farce. She has provided no evidence nor has she provided a break down of her story - which I will add will be very 1 dimensional because you haven't heard her family side nor her husband side - and you all have sought to give her advice regarding her marriage being null and void. PLEASE DO NOT DO THAT!!!

    She should seek the expert opinion of a Mufti who can question her about the specifics of her current marriage and advise her properly after investigating her situation - something none of you are qualified to do here.

    Remember, if you advise this sister wrongly, you'll be held responsible for her acting on that advice. Just saying.

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar View Post
    Remember, if you advise this sister wrongly, you'll be held responsible for her acting on that advice. Just saying.
    i diidn't mentioned the whole situation here but infact the person who married me forcefully is double of my age,i always considered him as my big brother and can't think of such relation,its embarrsing.i just want marry a person in which my will is considered.i am bearing all this with patience but after all i am human,i don't know who can solve my problem,where to go,how to proceed.i know i am innocent and i am sure Muftis will support me but i don't know in which institute i must go so that i become able to live a life of my choice.

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar View Post
    "forcibly married" ... that could mean anything.

    The OP has not divulged any information on this thread regarding the specifics of such a marriage - and you are all only going by what she said regarding her marriage being forced. It seems to me that this woman is in love with another man outside of her marriage and is seeking to have her wanting to marry him justified, by claiming that her current marriage is a farce. She has provided no evidence nor has she provided a break down of her story - which I will add will be very 1 dimensional because you haven't heard her family side nor her husband side - and you all have sought to give her advice regarding her marriage being null and void. PLEASE DO NOT DO THAT!!!

    She should seek the expert opinion of a Mufti who can question her about the specifics of her current marriage and advise her properly after investigating her situation - something none of you are qualified to do here.

    Remember, if you advise this sister wrongly, you'll be held responsible for her acting on that advice. Just saying.

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    Do you have any scriptural basis for that assertion? Just wondering.

    If someone asks for advice for a particular situation, of course I'm going to assume that the person is telling the truth about the situation. If the advice is unwise because it was given based on false information, then the fault lies with the one providing the false information, not the one providing the advice. And any harm done from following such advice on the follower, not me.
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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    format_quote Originally Posted by help seeker View Post
    how to nullify a forced marriage.the person who married me by force threatens me that if i marry anyother guy he can give serious harm to me.in such case how i disclose over him about marriage nullification.is it possible to marry secretly with any other guy because i donot accept this nikah.
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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    format_quote Originally Posted by Futuwwa View Post
    If someone asks for advice for a particular situation, of course I'm going to assume that the person is telling the truth about the situation. If the advice is unwise because it was given based on false information, then the fault lies with the one providing the false information, not the one providing the advice. And any harm done from following such advice on the follower, not me.
    yes you are right.i am just here to know what could be done and what not because i have very little knowledge about this issue and any other person definitely have some knowledge to show me right path.islam allow me to marry by my will,if a person just for his pleasure captures me then its totally injustice.he is double of my age and i always considered him as my brother but he is not willing to understand.now i just want that i could know islamic way of becoming independent.this forum helped me in this way that a sister over here gave me the information about an experienced person who can listen to my whole problem and guide me what to do.i am thankful to all who are advising me.i am in trouble and want some solution.please don't take it negatively.

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    format_quote Originally Posted by Futuwwa View Post
    Do you have any scriptural basis for that assertion? Just wondering.

    If someone asks for advice for a particular situation, of course I'm going to assume that the person is telling the truth about the situation. If the advice is unwise because it was given based on false information, then the fault lies with the one providing the false information, not the one providing the advice. And any harm done from following such advice on the follower, not me.
    You want me to do your homework for you? I dont have the time... netiher does the OP, since she's posting on a forum - and neither do you since you are replying.

    I thought common sense would have sufficed. But nope... you want daleel. You can find it. If you really want to. So can the sister. But HAS SHE EVEN TRIED GOING TO HER LOCAL MASJID TO SEEK ADVICE? NO... she ran here instead, a forum where she might find people who will stroke her sensitivities instead, sheesh.

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar View Post
    But HAS SHE EVEN TRIED GOING TO HER LOCAL MASJID TO SEEK ADVICE? NO... she ran here instead,
    brother you can't know the circumstances of any person.if it was possible for me then i definitely visited there.why are you not understanding that i just want to know who can solve my problem,i want to know its procedure.i can't go door to door and ask for help.through this forum i am able to get a solution which will be islamic and best for me.

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar View Post
    a forum where she might find people who will stroke her sensitivities instead, sheesh.
    honestly speaking right now you are the only person who is opposing me and also forcing others not to guide me or share any thing which could help me.please don't be so harsh.if i was of that negative type mind then there was no need of getting advise.i want to go on right path that's why i am here.i want an ISLAMIC SOLUTION OF MY PROBLEM.and one of my sister over here gave very helpful information to me,i have put my whole problem in front of the experienced person,i hope they will give me reply soon.if this forum is not for helping others then what's the purpose of such forums?

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible

    Sister, with ll due respect, if you had gone to your local masjid to seek advice - you'd not be here asking us!

    And for real, we aint the "goto" people. Not for things like this! this is a discussion forum, not a shariah council.

    This is though: http://www.islamic-sharia.org/2.html no need to thank me, thank shaikh Google instead

    You claim that your basis for feeling this marriage is forced is because the man is twice your age... is that a bad thing for you? it wasn't for the mother of the believers, Hadhrat Aisha RA... food for thought.

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    Re: can i secretly nullify forced marriage and marry another guy?is it permissible



    I think this thread has served its purpose. Let's please try to reply in a good manner with each other . Sister help seeker, there is some good advice given earlier about seeking help from qualified people. That would be best.

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