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    She has major anger issues and takes them out on me, in my other post some of you mentioned getting her to see a psychologist and today I brought the topic up and she flipped. She said there is nothing wrong with her and that if she is angry or upset it's because I have done something to make her so. If I don't like it when she is upset then don't upset her... I tried to explain that she gets upset and angry over the slightest wrong thing I say and she was having none of it. I suggested that we both go, to see if we can both improve (letting her know that it's not just her) even though it is lol... but I thought if I told her I feel 50% responsible then it would be more fair in her eyes.

    She told me if I bring up this subject again I will be sleeping on the sofa for the next week

    I asked her what it is I do that makes her angry and she said when I argue back with her, so I said am I not allowed to voice my opinion or disagree with you and she said no I am not allowed.... this is madness. 90% of the time she is like a kitten then 10% of the time she is like a lioness. What can I say or do to make her give me a fair chance? Honestly it's like I am a child who is answering to his mother!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jakob View Post
    I can learn to live with it alhamdulillah I'll be patient with her.
    My friend. Unfortunately this is the worst mistake you can do at the moment. It has nothing to do with you being a revert. She has a psychological problem and needs a professional help. You are a soft tampered person think that you can deal with it but you cant stand it forever. Every one has limits. It will get worse if you dont take action and eventually you yourself will want to divorce when the things get impossible to endure.
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    Re: Problem with my wife

    Yikes! Maybe try some counselling- or even speak to her family, try snd reach out to her- i kmow it can be hard but you gotta try. Or maybe yall just need some space- maybe try giving her some space and see how she is?

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    Re: Problem with my wife

    Quote Originally Posted by Jakob View Post
    She told me if I bring up this subject again I will be sleeping on the sofa for the next week
    That's where you went wrong.
    Nothing personal, but maybe get some testosteron injections from your local doctor to solve the problem?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 00001001 View Post
    That's where you went wrong.
    Nothing personal, but maybe get some testosteron injections from your local doctor to solve the problem?
    Are you implying he's weak because he's scared of his wife? Dude if i was in his situation id probs be rhe same...

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    Quote Originally Posted by 00001001 View Post
    That's where you went wrong.
    Nothing personal, but maybe get some testosteron injections from your local doctor to solve the problem?
    More like he needs some testicular fortitude.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinnamonrolls1 View Post
    Are you implying he's weak because he's scared of his wife? Dude if i was in his situation id probs be rhe same...

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    Yes. While a man has to be kind to his wife, this does not entail to be some child that gets sent to the corner. OP actually agrees with me:
    Honestly it's like I am a child who is answering to his mother!
    BTW OP, you say that she only flips out 10% of the time. Does this happen with interval (like once a month) or just randomly?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Misbah-Abd View Post
    More like he needs some testicular fortitude.
    lol. I was kind of implying that.

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