I am 29 years old male, got married around a year and a half, i have one kid. Living in Saudi Arabia.
Now back to the problem.
I am from a very noble family, and we have a very good image in the village. Back in around 2006, a boy attached to me, he is around 8 years older than me He is from a bad family, his father and brothers all have bad image, always fighting with others and they have no social life. This boy is also in the same category and even worse than his brothers and father. But at first I didn't realized the situation. I never wanted to attach with him, but he always forced me. I always had a fear if I say something he will beat me and it will be a shame in my village.
So till now 10 years have passed and I am still with him, I am managing but its very very difficult for me to live with him. He loves me because of my good looks and always forcing me to stay with him. Although he takes care of me alot, but he is very very bad in habits. I am so much frustrated from him that if I want to kill him, but the problem is Islam forbids it.
I want to get rid of him as soon as possible, but I don't find a way. I wanted to give him slow poison but again its forbidden in Islam.
Please suggest me anything that I can do legally to get rid of him.
I can't involve police in this matter, Saudi police will make a lot of troubles as we are expats.
They will not treat you any differently brother, you can even contact the religious police (haia) or your employer, and inshallah they will help you. Don't let this continue.
I think , yes . We all are serious here . When he threatens u , forcing u , at least try to record his voice - if u can't make the video . Keep his recorded voice as a proof against him .
He is not a Saudi citizen and he is so brave to threat u and u don't have courage to record his voice ? That's silly . U can do it over phone .
Bro, everyone has given you valuable advice, I suggest you act upon it as soon as possible inshaAllah.
You don't deserve this, your wife doesn't deserve this, your child doesn't deserve this. That person is the one who deserves to be punished for threatening and blackmailing you.
You are worth much more then what this man is doing, you have value and dignity. Consult with elders or the authorities - this would so negatively impact yourself and your family.
1) You have no witnesses
2) You have no evidence
3) You accusing him wthout any of the above is going to result in the following:
A) You're gonna look like a liar who is accusing his longest and best friend of being an homosexual who is making advances towards you
B) Gonna get 70 lashes for not providing articles 1) and 2)
Just imagine. If I take any action and it doesn't solve the problem, he will create a lot of troubles for me and my family. I want someone to kill him. I am ready to pay the amount if someone agrees but the problem is, my religion doesn't permit it. am I right?
I'd like to think that that is said in anger and total frustration. Killing is, well what to say? Wrong.
Use the nobility to seek advice from authorities and ask them what helps to build the case. Tell them you are sick and tired of this person even being in the country. Generosity towards them might even help your matter along.
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