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    Help help help, my life is in trouble. (OP)


    Assalam o Alekum

    I am 29 years old male, got married around a year and a half, i have one kid. Living in Saudi Arabia.

    Now back to the problem.

    I am from a very noble family, and we have a very good image in the village. Back in around 2006, a boy attached to me, he is around 8 years older than me
    He is from a bad family, his father and brothers all have bad image, always fighting with others and they have no social life. This boy is also in the same category and even worse than his brothers and father. But at first I didn't realized the situation. I never wanted to attach with him, but he always forced me. I always had a fear if I say something he will beat me and it will be a shame in my village.

    So till now 10 years have passed and I am still with him, I am managing but its very very difficult for me to live with him. He loves me because of my good looks and always forcing me to stay with him. Although he takes care of me alot, but he is very very bad in habits. I am so much frustrated from him that if I want to kill him, but the problem is Islam forbids it.

    I want to get rid of him as soon as possible, but I don't find a way. I wanted to give him slow poison but again its forbidden in Islam.

    Please suggest me anything that I can do legally to get rid of him.

    Jazak Allah

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    format_quote Originally Posted by sc100mr1 View Post
    Thank u sis,
    Its getting more and more annoying from me, and I fear someday i will kill him for sure.
    Asalamualykum,

    You MUST do something brother.

    Have you considered the advice from our brothers & sisters on this thread?

    What is a realistic action that you can take?

    If you kill your fellow Muslim i am sure you are aware it is like you have killed the WHOLE of mankind!! Subhan Allah! Think about the consequences. You will live your whole life in guilt. Do you really want this for yourself & family? Don't be tempted or fooled by the shaytaan.
    Help help help, my life is in trouble.

    Pain and hardships allow you to grow spiritually Alhamdulilah so smile when a so called calamity befalls upon you.
    Alhamdulilah Allah swt is the greatest.
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    Re: Help help help, my life is in trouble.

    Do not kill him

    Stand your ground and reject his advances outright, and if he tries to harm you physically, do not be afraid to defend yourself. If you truly perceive him as a threat to your safety, get the police involved, I'm sure that if he's trying to get sexual activity from you under coercion the penalty will double with addition of charges for sex crimes.
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    Re: Help help help, my life is in trouble.

    Get really fit and build up, and then stand up to him in confrontation.

    He will not take a chance.
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    Re: Help help help, my life is in trouble.

    Bloody heck, another hasbara - he would prefer to kill him (a thing which is very tough to even contemplate let alone do) rather than film the guy... you members need to understand HOW HASBARA OPERATE....

    >>>I suspect this post will go missing within minutes,

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