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    My dad is refusing for me to do ghusl before Fajr because I'll start coughing (I've been sick lately). So I miss Fajr and I'm stressed a lot now. I feel like I'm being forced to not do this but I feel like I'm not... Advice for this?
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    Re: I need serious help here

    Quote Originally Posted by Aaqib View Post
    My dad is refusing for me to do ghusl before Fajr because I'll start coughing (I've been sick lately). So I miss Fajr and I'm stressed a lot now. I feel like I'm being forced to not do this but I feel like I'm not... Advice for this?
    Bro

    Do you mean you need to bath ie compulsory ghusl for taharah ? (ie wet dreams and so on ?)

    If you ask clearly than it will be easy to answer for us.
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    Re: I need serious help here

    Quote Originally Posted by Aaqib View Post
    My dad is refusing for me to do ghusl before Fajr because I'll start coughing (I've been sick lately). So I miss Fajr and I'm stressed a lot now. I feel like I'm being forced to not do this but I feel like I'm not... Advice for this?
    There's no excuse to miss fajr when you're able to do it. Explain to your father kindly that Allah is more important than your cough, otherwise just take a shower anyways. You can dry yourself off well and the shower can be short. However, if you are indeed very, very sick then you can make wudhu and clean as many parts as you can with water and make tayammun until you get better inshallah.

    Read these: https://islamqa.info/en/101816 and https://islamqa.info/en/67614
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    Someone asked Hassan Al Basri: "What is the secret of your piety?"
    He replied: I understood 4 things:


    I understood that my rizq cannot be taken by anyone, so my heart became content.
    I understood that no one can do my actions (worship) for me, so I started doing them myself.
    I understood that Allah is watching me, so I became ashamed to do wrong.
    I understood that death is waiting for me, so I started to prepare for my meeting with Allah.

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    Re: I need serious help here

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    Bro @HuzaifaibnAdam

    I know, brother Huzaifah's name doesnt get 'mentioned'. ..

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    Re: I need serious help here

    Quote Originally Posted by talibilm View Post
    Bro

    Do you mean you need to bath ie compulsory ghusl for taharah ? (ie wet dreams and so on ?)

    If you ask clearly than it will be easy to answer for us.
    Compulsory

    Alhamdullilah we've resolved it. I have a chance of pneumonia now and water will make me get even more worse, so I can do tayammum which my dad is ok with.
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    Re: I need serious help here

    Quote Originally Posted by Aaqib View Post
    Compulsory

    Alhamdullilah we've resolved it. I have a chance of pneumonia now and water will make me get even more worse, so I can do tayammum which my dad is ok with.


    NobleQuran 5:6

    '' O you who have believed, when you rise to [perform] prayer, wash your faces and your forearms to the elbows and wipe over your heads and wash your feet to the ankles. And if you are in a state of janabah, then purify yourselves. But if you are ill or on a journey or one of you comes from the place of relieving himself or you have contacted women and do not find water, then seek clean earth and wipe over your faces and hands with it. Allah does not intend to make difficulty for you, but He intends to purify you and complete His favor upon youthat you may be grateful.
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    Re: I need serious help here

    Quote Originally Posted by Aaqib View Post
    Compulsory

    Alhamdullilah we've resolved it. I have a chance of pneumonia now and water will make me get even more worse, so I can do tayammum which my dad is ok with.
    So, are you still thinking that your dad force you to not perform salah subuh?.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ardianto View Post
    So, are you still thinking that your dad force you to not perform salah subuh?.

    I'm in the process of repenting
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