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    Sorry i have been missing for so long this is the only chance i have to post my husband is sleeping right now
    he stopped me from praying he and the minster confused me and are making me be christian but i love Allah
    i cant look after myself in fact my mental health is worse my husband has no idea i post here
    i cant get away from him i cant leave i love him but he says Islam is destroying our marriage
    av not prayed for a long time he is with me 24/7 i have no one else to take care of me
    am going to hell
    unsure when i will be able to post again
    sorry this dont make much sense am on a lot of medication at the moment

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    Re: sorry

    What can I say?

    May Allah give you strength and hidayah and a way out for you. May the end be jannah.

    Tell him you cannot leave islam.


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    Re: sorry

    Quote Originally Posted by _E_ View Post
    Sorry i have been missing for so long this is the only chance i have to post my husband is sleeping right now
    he stopped me from praying he and the minster confused me and are making me be christian but i love Allah
    i cant look after myself in fact my mental health is worse my husband has no idea i post here
    i cant get away from him i cant leave i love him but he says Islam is destroying our marriage
    av not prayed for a long time he is with me 24/7 i have no one else to take care of me
    am going to hell
    unsure when i will be able to post again
    sorry this dont make much sense am on a lot of medication at the moment
    Islam is more important than this family life where you're not free to follow Islam.
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    Allah (swt) knows best

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    Re: sorry

    just told him that ...he kicking off...

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    Ask your question at this website :
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    You will get your answer from a professional who specializes in things like this a scholar in Islam who studies Islam this is for big questions like this for small questions you can come to us
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    Re: sorry

    Quote Originally Posted by _E_ View Post
    Sorry i have been missing for so long this is the only chance i have to post my husband is sleeping right now
    he stopped me from praying he and the minster confused me and are making me be christian but i love Allah
    i cant look after myself in fact my mental health is worse my husband has no idea i post here
    i cant get away from him i cant leave i love him but he says Islam is destroying our marriage
    av not prayed for a long time he is with me 24/7 i have no one else to take care of me
    am going to hell
    unsure when i will be able to post again
    sorry this dont make much sense am on a lot of medication at the moment


    My sister Jazakallahu Khayran for taking the risk to post here. Yor situations seems very serious indeed. May I ask what has caused your husband to want to convert to Christianity and force it upon you? What has caused him to act like this towards you?

    If you have tried everything you can to make him see sense and he has in fact converted to Christianity, then he has clearly apostated and your marriage to him is null and void. Also if he is that adament for you to also convert forcibly then you must make arrangements to leave at once.

    Do you have family you can go to? Or any close friends? Have you discussed this with them or anyone else? Do you have any local Masjid's near you that you can contact for emergency help? If not then you can also contact the Police has he or anyone else has no right to treat you like this.

    Also it seems like he will not see any sense and in fact if you rebel then he may physically harm you. So my sister you must contact family, close friends, your local Masjid's and if all else fails then the local Police.

    Please keep us informed sister.

    May Allah ease your affairs and aid you in your time of need. Ameen
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    Re: sorry


    almost made the worse mistake due to family


    i should have added this post to here sorry for any confusion ...dont know why i didnt post on this one
    am a revert my husband tried to be muslim at first but then he changed his mind saying that islam is too restrictive

    struggle with my husband and Islam

    sorry for some reason it now shown the one struggle husband islam
    for some reason it will not link it
    Last edited by _E_; 06-20-2017 at 06:33 AM.
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    Re: sorry

    Quote Originally Posted by _E_ View Post

    almost made the worse mistake due to family


    i should have added this post to here sorry for any confusion ...dont know why i didnt post on this one
    am a revert my husband tried to be muslim at first but then he changed his mind saying that islam is too restrictive

    struggle with my husband and Islam

    sorry for some reason it now shown the one struggle husband islam
    for some reason it will not link it
    If your husband is not a Muslim the marriage is invalidated and also if you did not get a nikah (the Islamic marriage) then your marriage is not valid and counts as zina (sex before marriage) so I think you should go back to your family or have your husband convert and get a nikah with him
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    Re: sorry

    Yes the sister E is revert and because of her mental state her family has taken advantage over it and is using it to control her, because she has no where else to go, no other support at all.

    She knows that her marriage is not valid but has no other option to leave as there is no support and place to go.

    Making a move is a big step and she needs guidance and support.
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    Why doesn't she check out a masjid and if hey take her in and find her a husband she'd be all good
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    Yes if she does that it will be good for her.

    Right now she is being forced to do things against her will.

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    And I think that he should know that in order to be Muslim you don't need to follow all the rules he can be a non practicing Muslim if he wanys

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    Thing is they are against Islam, not even allowing her to be Muslim, its like that.

    So they force her to go church which she doesnt want to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Umm Abed View Post
    Thing is they are against Islam, not even allowing her to be Muslim, its like that.

    So they force her to go church which she doesnt want to.
    But she said earlier that he tried to become muslims but he thought it was tooo strict

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bobbyflay23 View Post
    But she said earlier that he tried to become muslims but he thought it was tooo strict
    It might just be an excuse he using to get her out of Islam. And this was a long time ago. He stops her from praying too.

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    But whatever she is going through, Allah knows, He is Just and will treat everyone accordingly and with justice.
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    Re: sorry



    As long as in your heart, you do not intent to commit Kufr by converting to christianity. And since you are forced, it won't be valid. You can NOT leave Islam. Ps. your marriage is invalid since he is christian.

    But try to seek help from a masjid. May Allah help you and get you out of this oppressive situation.

    Seek out a masjid, and try to explain the situation there. THis is dhulm what he is doing, and may Allah guide him towards Islam, or destroy him. Ameen.
    Last edited by Serinity; 06-20-2017 at 09:53 AM.
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    Meaning of Shirk according to The Qur'an
    " Worshipping anyone or anything besides Allah " or " distributing anything exclusive to Allah, to anyone or anything else "

    Meaning of Tawheed according to The Qur'an
    Worshipping none but Allah. Affirming whatever is exclusive to Him, Him alone.

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    This link is a Sortve similar situation check it out could help allot also tell him allah is the same God as the Christians so your still worshipping his god you just don't worship jesus besides him and that you still believe in the Bible you just believe man changed it and that the Quran is the replacement for it


    https://islamqa.info/en/172446
    Last edited by Bobbyflay23; 06-20-2017 at 10:40 AM.

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    Re: sorry

    Quote Originally Posted by _E_ View Post

    almost made the worse mistake due to family


    i should have added this post to here sorry for any confusion ...dont know why i didnt post on this one
    am a revert my husband tried to be muslim at first but then he changed his mind saying that islam is too restrictive

    struggle with my husband and Islam

    sorry for some reason it now shown the one struggle husband islam
    for some reason it will not link it




    My sister you have tried your best with your husband but he has made it clear he will not revert to Islam and that he wants to remain as he is. Therefore you have no choice but to leave him as the longer you leave it the harder it will get. There is support available all over the Uk. It does depend on where your from but there are many Muslim Women Support groups particularly concerned with domestic violence and if they knew your case then I am sure they will be more than willing to help you. Also local Masjids have many contacts that will be able to help you. But you have to instigate initial contact and then take it from there. As a last resort even council will be willing to help if you told them your situation.

    I know it is a huge step and you are in fear of how you will cope, survive and of the repercussions etc but if you make the necessary effort and put all of your trust and faith in Allah then that will be sufficient for you. Do not let the shaythan and your nafs (desires) tell you otherwise or to put you in constant fear.

    Ask of Allah for help and beg and cry unto him during the next few days and nights and he will never turn you away for he listens closely to those who call upon him in need especially those who cry unto him in desperation just as the Mother tends quickly to its baby when it is in need.

    May Allah ease your affairs and give you a way out that is best for you. Ameen
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