Salams all
Iv become super worried because iv become so lazy in terms of praying etc. I feel so lazy to make wudu and pray etc like i cant be bothered(astaghfirallah) and i know its wrong but i just cant seem to kill the habit. Please can i get some advice or some hadiths or ayat warning those who dont pray or something. Im viewing salat as a chore- i hate to say it, but argh its true and im scared il be like this for ages.
Please advise me brothers and sisters, and may He bless you and reward you for all that you do.
Thank you.
Sorry guys- i know im talking about this a lot and being super annoying
Don't be too hard on yourself. Just keep doing your best each time
When you don't have the problem, offer more salah after obligatory. If there is any lacking in your obligatory salah, Allah will take from the non obligatory
Make dua ask Allah to make it easy for you and to clear up your confusion InshaaAllah
Watch what you eat/drink it may be the reason
Jabir bin 'Abdullah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said:'A slave (of Allah) shall not believe until he believes in Al-Qadar, its good and its bad, such that he knows that what struck him would not have missed him, and that what missed him would not have struck him." (Jami 'at Tirmidhi)
Don't be too hard on yourself. Just keep doing your best each time
When you don't have the problem, offer more salah after obligatory. If there is any lacking in your obligatory salah, Allah will take from the non obligatory
Make dua ask Allah to make it easy for you and to clear up your confusion InshaaAllah
Watch what you eat/drink it may be the reason
Yeah. Iv had chronic constipation my whole life( sorry for tmi) and i think tge medicine im taking at the moment seems to be contributing.
Im on the edge now honestly. I have a combination of waswas and actual "issues". These issues arent present for every salat and i dont fulfill all the criteria of being madhur so i really dont know what to do anymore. I prayed duhr twice and gave up. Pretty sure i broke wudu in the 2nd time. My issue is i cant even tell the difference sometimes now if i actually passed anything or it was just my imagination/ a sensation that wasnt gas being passed. I dont know what to do im terrified of being punished by God even tho i know God's merciful. I dont know how many times to repeat my salah etc because i dont fall into the category of madhur. Im losing time because im constantly doing wudu and now im just stuck. Im stuck between praying and doing wudu again like 4-5 times or just leaving it. Sometimes i feel like i passed gas mid prayer so i stop and go do wudu again but i dont know if it was gas or waswas when im done. So i pray again and i break wudu or whstever. Redo wudu and pray again , same thing happens. I get burnt out and full of guilt and my iman is at an all time low. I dont know how to overcome this, a therapist here would put me down for ocd but its more powerful than that. Im sorry for this rant but its too much for me. Please keep me in your duas brothers and sisters.
Im on the edge now honestly. I have a combination of waswas and actual "issues". These issues arent present for every salat and i dont fulfill all the criteria of being madhur so i really dont know what to do anymore. I prayed duhr twice and gave up. Pretty sure i broke wudu in the 2nd time. My issue is i cant even tell the difference sometimes now if i actually passed anything or it was just my imagination/ a sensation that wasnt gas being passed. I dont know what to do im terrified of being punished by God even tho i know God's merciful. I dont know how many times to repeat my salah etc because i dont fall into the category of madhur. Im losing time because im constantly doing wudu and now im just stuck. Im stuck between praying and doing wudu again like 4-5 times or just leaving it. Sometimes i feel like i passed gas mid prayer so i stop and go do wudu again but i dont know if it was gas or waswas when im done. So i pray again and i break wudu or whstever. Redo wudu and pray again , same thing happens. I get burnt out and full of guilt and my iman is at an all time low. I dont know how to overcome this, a therapist here would put me down for ocd but its more powerful than that. Im sorry for this rant but its too much for me. Please keep me in your duas brothers and sisters.
Either sound or smell would constitute if you broke your wudu. Leave the doubtful matters alone.
"When a person sees the road as too long, he weakens in his walk." - Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyyah
Yeah but i feel stuff too. And im also taking medicine so imsure whether to redo my salah or not if you understand my point?
I gave you the link to read. Please read to ease your mind of this. Islam doesn't make things unbearable. People with medical conditions have exceptions:
Continuous wind and breaking wudoo’ - islamqa.info
I have a problem of almost continuous releasing of gas.i want to know whether i need to refresh ablution for fajir prayers after offering my tahajud prayers-and...
Im on the edge now honestly. I have a combination of waswas and actual "issues". These issues arent present for every salat and i dont fulfill all the criteria of being madhur so i really dont know what to do anymore. I prayed duhr twice and gave up. Pretty sure i broke wudu in the 2nd time. My issue is i cant even tell the difference sometimes now if i actually passed anything or it was just my imagination/ a sensation that wasnt gas being passed. I dont know what to do im terrified of being punished by God even tho i know God's merciful. I dont know how many times to repeat my salah etc because i dont fall into the category of madhur. Im losing time because im constantly doing wudu and now im just stuck. Im stuck between praying and doing wudu again like 4-5 times or just leaving it. Sometimes i feel like i passed gas mid prayer so i stop and go do wudu again but i dont know if it was gas or waswas when im done. So i pray again and i break wudu or whstever. Redo wudu and pray again , same thing happens. I get burnt out and full of guilt and my iman is at an all time low. I dont know how to overcome this, a therapist here would put me down for ocd but its more powerful than that. Im sorry for this rant but its too much for me. Please keep me in your duas brothers and sisters.
Im gonna try and email an imam, i saw this book which is basically on how to get rid of waswas, seems to work based off of testemonials.Gonna see if i can get it inshallah.
I gave you the link to read. Please read to ease your mind of this. Islam doesn't make things unbearable. People with medical conditions have exceptions:
Continuous wind and breaking wudoo’ - islamqa.info
I have a problem of almost continuous releasing of gas.i want to know whether i need to refresh ablution for fajir prayers after offering my tahajud prayers-and...
Thank you for this! Just seen it now, this was very helpful!
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