a lot of people suffer insanity these days, somebody put chains on you.. and made themselves comfortable in your mistakes.
its not what you get that you have to worry about.
..its what your getting that you have to worry about.
its not a test its a learning experience.
if you lose your head at the slightest thing then you have only yourself to blame.
if you cant even understand what people are saying to you then how can you formulate an answer?
and what is that answer?
its very easy to be made to look stupid.
there are people in the world that would pat you on your back at this point..
and take your wallet from your pocket.
if you have the right answers and the right questions then things are different.
...thinking about it wont change anything.
punching yourself in the face wont make things easier for you.
if i could chop the hand off thieves then maybe things would be easier for you..
but if its a world of thieves your worried about then chop off imaginary hands yourself.
to be fair in the end, allah swt raises and lowers as he wills.. if you can live with what people are putting forward for tomorrow then call them friends.
i talked to my uncle today and he said.. like he always does.. hey what ever happened to that degree you were doing?
he knows full well that i ended up flunking.. as i tell him everytime.
but this time i told him its been 12 years since that happened.
..and he didnt flinch.
now i have to talk to a car dealer tomorrow, hes been fudging the numbers as he gives them to me.
took me a weekend to realise.
...what i wouldnt do to be faster lol.
but to be faster for the hereafter is better.
im really getting sick of this place and i worry that my hands are suffering because of it.
id say im insane but i cant believe how blatant things are.
Disclaimer: I am not a scholar, nor am I 100% qualified to answer questions like this.
However, I feel like I should say that it is my opinion that your schizophrenia/insanity is a trial from Allah (SWT), so if you are able to overcome, or at least prevail, through such an awful headspace, Isha Allah, you will be granted Jannah. Jannah is very different compared to this Dunya, so Insha Allah, you will not have to deal with your schizophrenia/insanity in Jannah.
@Desert
Assalam O Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuh Sister,
Just a reminder for myself and others so that we can all benefit:
'A'isha reported:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said: There is no trouble that comes to a believer except that it obliterates from his sins, even if it is the pricking of a thorn
حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو الطَّاهِرِ، أَخْبَرَنَا ابْنُ وَهْبٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي مَالِكُ بْنُ أَنَسٍ، وَيُونُسُ بْنُ يَزِيدَ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ بْنِ الزُّبَيْرِ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ " مَا مِنْ مُصِيبَةٍ يُصَابُ بِهَا الْمُسْلِمُ إِلاَّ كُفِّرَ بِهَا عَنْهُ حَتَّى الشَّوْكَةِ يُشَاكُهَا " .
Reference: Sahih Muslim 2572 e
In-book reference: Book 45, Hadith 63
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Book 32, Hadith 6239 https://sunnah.com/muslim/45/63
Be patient and keep your trust in Allah Subhanahu Wa Taala.
At the same time, check with doctors. Also see if you can try cupping?
Narrated Ibn `Abbas: The Prophet (ﷺ) was cupped on his head for an ailment he was suffering from while he was in a state of Ihram. at a water place called Lahl Jamal. Ibn `Abbas further said: Allah s Apostle was cupped on his head for unilateral headache while he was in a state of Ihram .
حَدَّثَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي عَدِيٍّ، عَنْ هِشَامٍ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، احْتَجَمَ النَّبِيُّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فِي رَأْسِهِ وَهْوَ مُحْرِمٌ مِنْ وَجَعٍ كَانَ بِهِ بِمَاءٍ يُقَالُ لَهُ لَحْىُ جَمَلٍ. وَقَالَ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ سَوَاءٍ أَخْبَرَنَا هِشَامٌ، عَنْ عِكْرِمَةَ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم احْتَجَمَ وَهْوَ مُحْرِمٌ فِي رَأْسِهِ مِنْ شَقِيقَةٍ كَانَتْ بِهِ.
Reference: Sahih al-Bukhari 5700, 5701
In-book reference: Book 76, Hadith 21
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 71, Hadith 602 http://sunnah.com/bukhari/76/21
Narrated Anas:
that he was asked about the wages of the one who cups others. He said, 'Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) was cupped by `Abd Taiba, to whom he gave two Sa of food and interceded for him with his masters who consequently reduced what they used to charge him daily. Then the Prophet (ﷺ) s said, "The best medicines you may treat yourselves with are cupping and sea incense.' He added, "You should not torture your children by treating tonsillitis by pressing the tonsils or the palate with the finger, but use incense."
حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ مُقَاتِلٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ، أَخْبَرَنَا حُمَيْدٌ الطَّوِيلُ، عَنْ أَنَسٍ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ أَنَّهُ سُئِلَ عَنْ أَجْرِ الْحَجَّامِ، فَقَالَ احْتَجَمَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم حَجَمَهُ أَبُو طَيْبَةَ، وَأَعْطَاهُ صَاعَيْنِ مِنْ طَعَامٍ، وَكَلَّمَ مَوَالِيَهُ فَخَفَّفُوا عَنْهُ، وَقَالَ " إِنَّ أَمْثَلَ مَا تَدَاوَيْتُمْ بِهِ الْحِجَامَةُ وَالْقُسْطُ الْبَحْرِيُّ ". وَقَالَ " لاَ تُعَذِّبُوا صِبْيَانَكُمْ بِالْغَمْزِ مِنَ الْعُذْرَةِ، وَعَلَيْكُمْ بِالْقُسْطِ ".
Reference: Sahih al-Bukhari 5696
In-book reference: Book 76, Hadith 18
USC-MSA web (English) reference: Vol. 7, Book 71, Hadith 599 http://sunnah.com/bukhari/76/18
More on Hijjamah/cupping in the video link below:
And the one below is specifically a testimonial from someone who used to have very severe headaches for more than 10 years.
Anyways do your research and consult with professionals. I truly hope you find cure soon inshallah.
Ma’aSalam
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