Salam I am going through very hard time from past 6 years. My parents have been passed away 7 years ago. In 2014 my husband was working in a multinational company due to some reason he resign from his job and bring back to us to our home country and started miss behaving with me and kids when I asked my father in law he said his job is no more and he don't want to finance you and your two daughters it's good for you to move to ur brother house that is my parents house.
But after the death of my parents my brother was not comfortable to accept me and my two kids. He put gun on my head and told me to leave the house.
I went to my elder sister house and asked her if my brother is not willing to support me he should sell the parents house and give me my share so I can take my kids responsibility.
They became my enemy instead of helping me my sister and bro created a lot problems. From past 6 years I m my life is hell and my kids are not happy they r lacking each and everything there atmosphere is changed country and we are facing poverty my life is not save and I don't know how to help my kids with their education and other necessary things in life.
I don't know how to ask Allah to help me I prayed from heart and soul but in vain plz tell me what should I do I m loosing faith
Salam I am going through very hard time from past 6 years. My parents have been passed away 7 years ago. In 2014 my husband was working in a multinational company due to some reason he resign from his job and bring back to us to our home country and started miss behaving with me and kids when I asked my father in law he said his job is no more and he don't want to finance you and your two daughters it's good for you to move to ur brother house that is my parents house.
But after the death of my parents my brother was not comfortable to accept me and my two kids. He put gun on my head and told me to leave the house.
I went to my elder sister house and asked her if my brother is not willing to support me he should sell the parents house and give me my share so I can take my kids responsibility.
They became my enemy instead of helping me my sister and bro created a lot problems. From past 6 years I m my life is hell and my kids are not happy they r lacking each and everything there atmosphere is changed country and we are facing poverty my life is not save and I don't know how to help my kids with their education and other necessary things in life.
I don't know how to ask Allah to help me I prayed from heart and soul but in vain plz tell me what should I do I m loosing faith
Assalam o alaikum rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu sister
May Allah help you.
Life is test. We are all tested. Believers are prisoner in this world while it is paradise for disbelievers.
Allah says in Quran Surah Baqarah verse 155
And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient
The good tidings refers to Paradise. Here Allah is saying that believers who are patient for His sake will get paradise in sha Allah
Prophets peace be upon them faced so much trials they all stood patient. Noah peace be upon him kept preaching the message for 950 years. Job peace be upon him lost all of his worldly possessions and even family but stood patient and thankful. Allah gave them back. Moses peace be upon him was hurt by children of Israel yet still patient.
Our last Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him lost two people he peace be upon him loved very much. Hazrat khadjia and Abu talib. But still patient and not even say why this is happening to me?
These are lessons. World is not meant to be luxury.
So please sister dont despair Allah mercy and always keep hope and trust and be optimistic. May Allah bless you and grant you strength. He never do injustice to His slaves. His justice is Perfect. So keep believing in that.
wa'alaykumussalaam
If there is legal aid in your area, maybe there is an option for you to get help with low fee or even free, to get what is rightfully yours.
It's your parents' house, you should be able to live there, or if the house is sold, you should get a share of the proceed.
Whatever happens, maintain regular salat, dua, adhkar, reading Qur'an, fasting Ramadan - all the acts of worship.
Allah is the only One true to His promise. It's humans who have abandoned you, not Allah. So don't give up yet.
Jabir bin 'Abdullah narrated that the Messenger of Allah (s.a.w) said:'A slave (of Allah) shall not believe until he believes in Al-Qadar, its good and its bad, such that he knows that what struck him would not have missed him, and that what missed him would not have struck him." (Jami 'at Tirmidhi)
sister dont despair Allah mercy and always keep hope and trust and be optimistic. May Allah bless you and grant you strength. He never do injustice to His slaves. His justice is Perfect. So keep believing in that.Allah is the only One true to His promise. It's humans who have abandoned you, not Allah.
I'm so sorry about your situation. I will make Dua for you.
Don't give up or lose faith in Allah swt, please.
Allah swt has three responses to Dua. 1) Allah swt accepts the Dua 2) Allah swt will accept it, but not yet. 3) Allah swt will give you something better.
Abu Sa’id al-Khudri reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “There is no Muslim who supplicates to Allah without sin or cutting family ties in it but that Allah will give him one of three answers: he will hasten fulfillment of his supplication, he will store it for him in the Hereafter, or he will divert an evil from him similar to it."
I honestly can't imagine what you're going through. It may feel like Allah swt isn't answering you but trust me, Allah swt will help you. Allah swt does not burden a soul greater than it can bare, so everything you're going through now, it's because Allah swt KNOWS you can deal with it. Take this trial as a blessing, rather than a punishment. Allah swt tests those who he loves. Even if it was a punishment, it's still from Allah swt, therefore there's good in it. Allah swt punishes us in this dunya so that our punishment in the Akhirah will lessen. Please just continue making Dua and don't lose faith or give up. Allah swt is the only solution to your problem. Sit down and make sincere dua, and don't stop doing this until your problem is cured. When it is cured, thank Allah swt every single day. Don't become hasty.
Just hold on, I know you're going through a difficult time, but the outcome will be amazing in sha Allah. Stay strong and be there for your kids.
Salam...............plz tell me what should I do I m loosing faith
Wa Alaikumus Salam Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh,
Do you know the power of Dua? Dua is the weapon of a believer!
And your Lord says, "Call upon Me, I will respond to you." Quran (40:60)
Sincerely recommend "one thing for you" - recommend reading this beautiful supplication (Dua) as soon as possible.
This is an authentic Dua recited by Prophet Yunus (AS) in the belly of the fish, when he was in distress. If any Muslim supplicates in these words, his supplication will be accepted/responded to.
Arabic to English Translation: Laaa i-la-ha il-laaa anta sub-hanaka inni kun-tu minaz-zalimeen.
Meaning: There is no God but You, Glorified be You! Truly, I have been of the wrongdoers
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