Salam Alakium brothers and sisters i have a problem, since i started practising islam my teacher who is jewish started to hate me, he is sooo spitefuk he hid my work, discourages me, calls and parents and lies to them, is extremely 2 faced two me this is making me sad. Me and my friend and the only 2 muslim girls in his class and since we started covering and everything this hateful relationship started! Is horrible i dont know what to do Me and my friend want to do a lower course to get the grade quicker and Inshllah leave! The other teacher is not much better! I cant talk to nobody! This is depressing me i always tell myself that I want to leave it to Allah swt and I will. He failed all my work and in my heart i know is wrong because i did everything i was required too and i am not a stupid person, He is soo spiteful.
What should i do?
Salam
Im sorry for the comment. Dont take any notice of me. But i had a similar situation a few years back in primary school before i went abroad. I took the case all the way to the board of governors and eventually they forced the teacher to quit!!
Wassalam
Salam Alekum well thanks everyone may Allah swt bless u things are getting better the year is ending and i am so going to a different college for my last year. Thanks anyways
Sister Allah is Al-Rahmaan, show ur patience which well increase ur good deeds and washout ur sins and on the day of judgement Allah will give the best judgement inur favour as he is Allmighty Allah (he is watching every thing) u know Allah's 99 names
more then 60 to 70 names are soft
so just pray to Allah as Brother Sabilillah post u have seen the power of Dua
Always Ask Help to Allah as he knows whats happening
May Allah solve all ur problems
Dear sister. This is my advice. 1. Is that you can just be paitent and ignore him. As Allah says:
"O ye who beleive, seek help with patient perseverance and prayer; surely Allah is with the patient." (2.153).
Also, a hadith states: Amazing is the believer, for whatever Allah decrees for him, it is better for him!. If he is tested with bounty, he is grateful for it, and this is better for him. And if he is afflicted with a hardship, he is paitent with it, and this is better for him (Muslim, 4: 2292, or ibn katheer. abridged. vol 1 p442)
Also for all you know the reason why he is doing this, is to annoy you and make you angry and frustrated. So, personally i think that by ignoring him, he may become angry himself.
2. Here is an excerpt from ibn katheer's tafseer of ayah 148, Sura An Nisaa,' titiled 'The permission to utter evil in public, for the one who was wronged.'
"Allah does not like that the evil should be uttered in pblic, except by him who has been wronged."(4:148)
Abdul-Karim bin Malik Al-Jazi said about this ayah, "when a man curses you, you could curse him in retalitation, but if he lies about you, you may not lie about him."
It continues. And indeed whoever takes revenge after he has suffered wrong, for such there is no way (of blame) agianst them. (im not sure which ayah this sura is from, it actually dosn't mention, the verse number is only mentioned, it is 41. Also, i'm not sure is it is the whole of the ayah, or half of it )
Abu dawood recorded that Abu Harayrah, (radiallahu anhu) said that the Messenger of Allah (salallahu aleyhi wa salam): "Whatever words are uttered by those who curse each other, thn he who satretd it will carry the burden thereof, unless the one who was wronged transgressors the limit. (At-tabari: or tafseer ibn katheer, abridged. Vol 3 pgs 15, 16)
My point is, and inshallah i have understood this right, if your teavher says something which emarasses you, just say the same back, only about him.
And one last thing:
"and those who annoy beleiving men and women undeservingly,"
means, they attribute to them things of which they are innocent which they do not know and do not do.
"they bear the crime of slander and palin sin." (33: 58).
This is the most seroius slander, to tell or transmit things about the beleiveing men and women that they have not done, in order to bring shame upoun them and accuse them of short comings.
amoung these to whom this applies are those who disbeleive in Laah and His Messengers....
(tafseer ibn katheer. abridged. vol 8 p43.
Just remember the troubles you go thought in this dunya because you were Muslim will be recompensated by Allah, who is the most just, on the Day of Judgement.
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