i have de bad habit of talkin to the opposite gender on msn a lot!
and the talking becomes a bit unappropiate and certain things are said is like i am addicted to it now. please help what can i do to stop this?
lol, thats assuming its a brother. But I agree, just block and delete, and don't add anymore. If you're forced to add, keep it serious, and they'll have to respect that, and they won't really go further. You set the standard on how you want to be treated.
"...You are my Walî in this world and in the Hereafter. Cause me to die as a Muslim, and join me with the righteous." [Surah Yusuf 101]
change your password into a reall long hard to remember password, something like 'ugpuguoigio45sff5154s45s45sdvdssss8968sdty98' then copy n paste it to confirm password change. You'll forget your password next time you sign on.
I had the same problem but I stopped by putting it through my head that I had better things to do....It worked somehow..I just never gave myslef the chance to sign on
format_quote Originally Posted by Anonymous Tester
i have de bad habit of talkin to the opposite gender on msn a lot!
and the talking becomes a bit unappropiate and certain things are said is like i am addicted to it now. please help what can i do to stop this?
It's good that you've been able to identify the problem. Next step, would be to sort it out. This would require some good old fashioned will power. You don't HAVE to add somebody of the opposite sex, and you don't HAVE to talk inappropriately. Start from today and take it day by day. If you can't do it all in one go, then take it slowly, cutting down any inappropriate conversations to sensible ones. Continue to further build up your Iman; when you consciously sin and you don't want to really face the consequences, you won't want to sin anymore.
format_quote Originally Posted by Anonymous Tester
i have de bad habit of talkin to the opposite gender on msn a lot!
and the talking becomes a bit unappropiate and certain things are said is like i am addicted to it now. please help what can i do to stop this?
its hard blocking n deleting, people might get insulted or think that you got sumfn against them....
change your account. And don't add anyone of opposite gender. And only add people of your gender who you trust won't try putting you into square one.
If you get caught out... there's a way out, till then, make sure you don't.
Someone said to the Prophet, "Pray to God against the idolaters and curse them." The Prophet replied, "I have been sent to show mercy and have not been sent to curse." (Muslim)
There's different time of the day when your feeling really inclined to better for yourself and other times when the Shaytaan's got you by the .....
I guess when you posted this you were feeling high on your Iman and really ready to change. When you feel like this again advantage of the situation quickly and efficiently.
Don't think twice, go to your computer and uninstall MSN! I'm telling you, It will work. If you need an extra boost, try picturing the Shaytaan in your head screaming and banging his head against the wall.
After this you will feel either reallllllllllllllllly high, or realllllllllllllllly low.
But at least you've saved yourself and Inshallah on the day of reckoning you will be buzzing!!!
Trust me. If It's worked on me it will it will work on you too!
I've done enough stuff when I get a rush of sufi attack: Cut TV cables, thrown away inappropriate materials, snapped music CD's the lot!
Yes I regretted it afterwards, but at least when I felt like committing the sin I had no resources!
nah why dont u just explain to them why u dont wanna chat 2 them? dats da easiest option why should u delete msn juz cuz of a few guyz? xplain 2 them yeah, if that doesnt work and dey act all clingy and swer etc den block and delete dem anyways cuz dey weirdos
Make another account and block + delete the opposite gender people from your earlier account.
If you block and delete and keep the ad, you still got the urge to unblock and chat. But if you got a new account with all the people you need in your new one - then you don't keep checking to see what the person you blocked is upto (like if they online or not.)
What dangerous said is is clever too, cuz that way even if you want to talk to the people again, you can't because you don't know your pass or secret answer. So you gota stick to your new one.
Make another account and block + delete the opposite gender people from your earlier account.
If you block and delete and keep the ad, you still got the urge to unblock and chat. But if you got a new account with all the people you need in your new one - then you don't keep checking to see what the person you blocked is upto (like if they online or not.)
What dangerous said is is clever too, cuz that way even if you want to talk to the people again, you can't because you don't know your pass or secret answer. So you gota stick to your new one.
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That works wonders. You can't chat with someone who isn't on your list!
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