It's so hard to believe that my grandfather recovered from the 1 week old heart surgery and now he's no longer in this world. Now my grandmother's in the hospital. I don't think she can handle this. May Allah make it easy on her and give us all sabr. Please make dua'. (As u can see, im not not doin a good job with the dua)
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Sorry to hear sis, May Allah grant your grandad junnat al firdaws.
I remember similar things happned with my uncle, they were recovering aswell then out of the blue their condition went worse. Nothing but time will slowly ease y our pain, times will be hard for a while....may Alllah give you sabr.
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Innaa lillaahi wa inna alayhi raji'oon.. may Allaah have mercy on them and the ummah, and may He grant us all His Mercy in this life and the next. ameen.
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Think of it the positive way, for example your grandfather died as a Muslim right. That's it, subhanAllah think about it, we are not to die except as Muslims, and he was allowed that, SubhanAllah!!
The path is long but I hope we meet,
After the grave and the Day, in paradise in bliss upon a reclined seat.
A traveler traveling - travelled from shirk to tawheed,
If I'm remembered for anything - let it be the Mercy I seek.
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Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon!
Kuffars say "he is in a better place now", for us that actually is true inshallah. we should take this as reminder that nothing in this duniya is to stay and our time will come soon as well and let that reminder help us strive to be better muslims and make deen our priority.
Best thing you can do for him is be a righteous child. It is one of the sadaqa jar'iyyah that benefits those that have left this duniya. More good Mulsim you are, the more reward he gets. Show your love this way inshallah
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Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilayhi Raj''oon
May Allah swt grant him the highest stage of Jannah..Ameen..May Allah swt grant your grandmother a speedy recovery and grant your family Sabr...Ameen thumma ameen
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Awww sis so sorry to hear that. May he rest in peace. I hope your grandmother is ok. I recently had the same thing happen, so if you need to talk you know how to find me!!!!!
"The only thing neccesary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing." - E. Burke
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Jazak Allah and ameen to all ur dua's...the hard part is that i constantly have tears in my eyes and its so hard to control it since my mom still doesnt know that her father died...and she repeatedly prays nafl and makes dua that may Allah let them live longer....that really breaks my heart...seeing my tears will make her suspicious...my grandma was the one who told us not to tell since my mom's really gonna break down...^^know how u feel sarah and thatnx for being there...once again Jazak Allah for the dua's...
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Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'oon!
Sorry to here that. Two years ago my grandfather passed away when i was away and i could not see him before he was buried. Inshallah i offer dua for him everyday. Your story made me think to that time Time does heal the pain. My grandma (although sometimes she does not show it) cries everyday however she is getting much better
However on the plus side i know the promise of Allah in that the believers will be looked after so from this point of view i know he is fine
It is not my place to say when you should inform your mother but i would do it asap because the sooner she comes to terms with it the sooner the healing process can begin.
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^^im not even gonna interfere in the part about telling her. I'm goign through a hard time already and i can't bear to see her going through a tougher time.....and i'm not supposed to say anything so im just gonna keep quiet...she's been prayin for 2 1/2 hours straight...i just wish she was the type to understand that everyone has to go someday...she let's her pain take over her mind...
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sis i am soo sorry subxanallah may Allah swt make the grave a good place for him and grant him jannah fardus isha allah
ameen(to all the previous dua).
*hugs*
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sis i am soo sorry subxanallah may Allah swt make the grave a good place for him and grant him jannah fardus isha allah
ameen(to all the previous dua).
*hugs*
try not to be sorry for the qadr of Allah !
inshaAllah the sis will be allright, Allah knows best, his in control, inshaAllah jannah awaits the sis and her family
Ameen to all the beautiful dua's
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My tears testify that i have a heart
yet i feel me and shaytan never part
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It's so hard to believe that my grandfather recovered from the 1 week old heart surgery and now he's no longer in this world. Now my grandmother's in the hospital. I don't think she can handle this. May Allah make it easy on her and give us all sabr. Please make dua'. (As u can see, im not not doin a good job with the dua)
Inna Lillahi Wa Inna Ilaihi Raji'oon.
Salamialikum.
Awwwwwwww sowieeee Ina lillahi wa ina ilai raji'oon.
My poor bbz . I fell for you! indeed it is a very hard thing loosing a loved one. Don't worry am ALWAYS here for you no matter what. Chin up and remember the good times inshallah. I know it will be hard and a very tuff time for your family and your self including your nan but this is down to Allah Subhanwtallah. We return back to him so inshallah lets have sabr and just keep on performing dua'ah.
Do dua'ah we meet our love ones in janah-ul-Furdus inshallah
Afghani am ALWAYS here for you so please don't cry because i told you before if you be hurt i feel the pain aswel thats how much we are attached together!. Subhnallah, nowadays sooo many people dying over soo many issues but its the will of Allah subhwnatallah. One day we will be in the same situation and position that your nan is. So lets all be prepared and just ask for forgivness from Allah subhwnatallah and make dua'ah to Allah subhwnatallah that he the almighty forgives your nan for anything bad he has done in past and lead him to Janah inshallah.
Am all yours sis. So please don't cry am always here for you. Walahi i am always here for you. You may think these are only words and Snowy is sat other end of the world compared to me but NO! am in your heart and so are you so lets just do dua'ah, best thing ever is dua'ah inshallah.
By the way one way or another your mom will find out so inshallah it will be a very hard time when she finds out but luck after her please inshallah. Take it easy just relax and just do dua'ah as i have mentioned enough times inshallah.
Smile Afghani you don't suit crying please.
Ma'assalama
Yourz snowy XX (((hugz)))
you know where i am when you need me even for the littlest thing i am all ears
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It's so hard to believe that my grandfather recovered from the 1 week old heart surgery and now he's no longer in this world.
in that the believers will be looked after so from this point of view i know he is fine
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