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FatimaAsSideqah
02-05-2008, 11:53 PM
As Salaam Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu

60 Ways to Keep Your Wife's Love - Guaranteed

By: Ahmad Shehab

1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don't threaten her with divorce
2. Give sincere salaams
3. Treat her gently - like a fragile vessel
4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere
5. Be generous with her
6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart
7. Avoid anger, keep wudu at all times :thumbs_up
8. Look good and smell great for your wife :thumbs_up
9. Don't be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken
10. Be a good listener
11. Yes for flattery, No for arguing
12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear:thumbs_up
13. A pleasant surprise
14. Preserve and guard the tongue
15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings
16. Give sincere compliments
17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family
18. Speak of the topic of her interest
19. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is:mmokay:
20. Give each other gifts
21. Get rid of routine, surprise her
22. Have a good opinion of each other
23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don't nitpick
24. Add a drop of patience, increase during pregnancy, menses
25. Expect and respect her jealously:omg:
26. Be humble
27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers
28. Help at home, with housework
29. Help her love your relatives, but don't try to force her
30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you
31. Remember your wife in dua:thumbs_up
32. Leave the past for Allah subhanahu wa ta ala, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
33. Don't act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family
34. Take shaytaan as your enemy, not your wife
35. Put food in your wife's mouth
36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect
37. Show her your smile
38. Don't ignore the small things, deal with them before they become big
39. Avoid being harsh-hearted
40. Respect and show that you appreciate her thinking
41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills
42. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within halal boundaries
43. Help her take care of the children:thumbs_up
44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments
45. Sit down and eat meals together
46. Let her know that you will be traveling or returning from travel, give her sufficient notice
47. Don't leave home in anger
48. Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home
49. Encourage each other in ibaadat
50. Respect and Fulfill her rights upon you
51. Live with her in kindness, goodness, fairness in good and bad times
52. Kiss your wife, foreplay, "Don't jump on her like a bull":omg:
53. Keep disputes between the two of you, don't take it outside
54. Show care for her health and well-being
55. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself
56. Share your happiness and sadness with her
57. Have mercy for her weaknesses
58. Be a firm support for her to lean on
59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal
60. Have a good intention for her


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Allah Hafiz
Sister Fatima
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Cabdullahi
02-05-2008, 11:57 PM
52. Kiss your wife, foreplay, "Don't jump on her like a bull" hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha hahha
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جوري
02-06-2008, 12:01 AM
Talking about 'disputes outside' I saw a man positvely berate his wife in a drug store a few weeks ago, hurling insults in loudest voice using the most vile of words, she looked on the verge of tears.. I really wanted to stick out my foot so he'd trip on it as walked into my isle..

it hurt me by proxy, I can't imagine how she must have been feeling, she just followed him, taking it..

Sob7an Allah..
Hard to imagine staying in a marriage like that.. they were slightly elderly...
hmmm

:w:
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FatimaAsSideqah
02-06-2008, 12:04 AM
To Brothers of Islam.

No offence! :thumbs_up

Sister Fatima
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Cabdullahi
02-06-2008, 12:05 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by RighteousLady
To Brothers of Islam.

No offence! :thumbs_up

Sister Fatima
sista wha u mean by that?
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FatimaAsSideqah
02-06-2008, 12:09 AM
I mean I'd hope my first post is alright with you? This is now our (sisters)' turn to need to getting attention from their husbands.
:D
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arabianprincess
02-06-2008, 03:41 AM
loooooooool
this wat im talkin about
i hope men should learn from this...
peace
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Cabdullahi
02-06-2008, 10:30 AM
AAHHH 60 is TOO MANY :grumbling

5 ways to keep your husband happy

1 .Don't talk so much

2 .food always on the table not even a second late

3 .when hes back from work massage hes feet

4 .watch football/soccer matches with him without looking Disinterested

5.DO NOT!! talk about hes embarrasing issues what ever they are,infront of him when others are around
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Ummu Sufyaan
02-06-2008, 10:35 AM
:sl:
I havnt read this :-[ but if they're arent there already, id like to add:

dont compare her cooking to your mothers!!! :mad: :X

oh, and take her to vist her family. Piece of advice: brothers, you didnt pluck her from a tree. You took her from her family, so to speak. Do good by her, and dont 'forbid' her from her family. it'll probably help your relationship too.

1 .Don't talk so much
Listen to her. she needs someone to hear her out.

2 .food always on the table not even a second late
okay, this one just made me mad. dont like her job, do it yourself.

4 .watch football/soccer matches with him without looking Disinterested
do 'her things' with out looking disinterested.

5.DO NOT!! talk about hes embarrasing issues what ever they are,infront of him when others are around
I agree. same applies

:sl:
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Ebtisweetsam
02-06-2008, 12:27 PM
Mashallah, great interesting topic, these are a few of my favourites down here:

1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don't threaten her with divorce
2. Give sincere salaams
3. Treat her gently - like a fragile vessel
4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere
5. Be generous with her
6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart
7. Avoid anger, keep wudu at all times :thumbs_up
8. Look good and smell great for your wife :thumbs_up
9. Don't be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken
10. Be a good listener
11. Yes for flattery, No for arguing
12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear:thumbs_up
13. A pleasant surprise
14. Preserve and guard the tongue
15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings
16. Give sincere compliments
17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family
18. Speak of the topic of her interest
19. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is:mmokay:
20. Give each other gifts
21. Get rid of routine, surprise her
22. Have a good opinion of each other
23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don't nitpick
24. Add a drop of patience, increase during pregnancy, menses
25. Expect and respect her jealously:omg:
26. Be humble
27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers
28. Help at home, with housework
29. Help her love your relatives, but don't try to force her
30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you
31. Remember your wife in dua:thumbs_up
32. Leave the past for Allah subhanahu wa ta ala, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.
33. Don't act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family
34. Take shaytaan as your enemy, not your wife
35. Put food in your wife's mouth
36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect
37. Show her your smile
38. Don't ignore the small things, deal with them before they become big
39. Avoid being harsh-hearted
40. Respect and show that you appreciate her thinking
41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills
42. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within halal boundaries
43. Help her take care of the children:thumbs_up
44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments
45. Sit down and eat meals together
46. Let her know that you will be traveling or returning from travel, give her sufficient notice
47. Don't leave home in anger
48. Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home
49. Encourage each other in ibaadat
50. Respect and Fulfill her rights upon you
51. Live with her in kindness, goodness, fairness in good and bad times
52. Kiss your wife, foreplay, "Don't jump on her like a bull":omg:
53. Keep disputes between the two of you, don't take it outside
54. Show care for her health and well-being
55. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself
56. Share your happiness and sadness with her
57. Have mercy for her weaknesses
58. Be a firm support for her to lean on
59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal
60. Have a good intention for her[/B]
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