format_quote Originally Posted by
Abi786
im not sure i can really help as i have started to think like that myself. My personal view is due to what i have been through - i basically dont trust men (apart from my father), i think all men (and yes i know its not all of them) but majority of them are bad - basically i have lost hope in them - i look around and can only see all the bad they do in the world, within our religion and feel whats the point - i will just save myself the heartache.
as for children - i know every woman will one day have that longing for a child - so i think if i get to that stage i will just adopt a little orphan girl (as a woman can't adopt a boy).
you need to find out the reason behind your friends opinion on men before you can help find a solution.
I really fear for the ummah countless sisters and brothers on this forum being stubborn and saying im not gonna marry, the men say "ohh the women nag too much" and the females say we cant trust them ,they cant keep they stuff zipped' if every one takes on this mentality the ummah will decline and therefore we will be open an almost invite an attack by the west to abolish islam
so ppz get real not everyman is horrible and not every women is bad either
whatever u have experienced the real test is if u would bounce back and carry on with what islam teaches u and not to sit in a corner and say 'oh what am i gonna do' 'im not that beautiful' 'i got rejected once is it gonna happen again'
i am sure there are many sisters out there who are happily married laughing at u and saying whats wrong with them.