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[anonymous]

salam alakum,

I am a new muslim, just took my shahadah 2 weeks ago... alhamdullilah.

Now i know this may sound a bit funny to you, but i wanted to know what Islam says about Anal sex. I have committed a lot of major sins before in my life, i have fornicated many times as well which includes anal sex, i don't even know if allah will forgive all this, i pray five times every day and ask allah to forgive me and Insh allah i will continue to do this.

Wa alakim salam

[sur]

salam alakum,

I am a new muslim, just took my shahadah 2 weeks ago... alhamdullilah.

Now i know this may sound a bit funny to you, but i wanted to know what Islam says about Anal sex. I have committed a lot of major sins before in my life, i have fornicated many times as well which includes anal sex, i don't even know if allah will forgive all this, i pray five times every day and ask allah to forgive me and Insh allah i will continue to do this.

Wa alakim salam

Oral & Anal X r NOT allowed.

Qur'aan uses word "TILTH" which is a place where one sow the seed & a Produce grows out. This word implies vagina where seed is sown & a crop(baby) is produced. Neither mouth nor anus/rectum can work as "TILTH". So following verse allows vaginal sex from front or back.

[Q:2:223] Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand(this recommends foreplay); and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.




Also there r Ahadees that prohibit Anal X:-
Abu Dawood:5:2157:-
Narated By AbuHurayrah : The Prophet (pbuh) said: He who has intercourse with his wife through her anus is accursed.

Abu-Dawood:23:3895:-
Narated By Abu Hurairah : The Prophet (pbuh) said: If anyone resorts to a diviner and believes in what he says (according) to the version of Musa), or has intercourse with his wife (according to the agreed version) when she is menstruating, or has intercourse with his wife through her anus, he has nothing to do with what has been sent down to Muhammad (pbuh) - according to the version of Musaddad.

[FatimaAsSideqah]

As Salaam Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu

Anal Sex and Oral Sex is prohibited in Islam.

Almighty Allah says in the Qur'an: "Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth (have sexual relations with your wives in any manner as long as it is in the vagina and not in the anus), when or how you will, and send (good deeds, or ask Allah to bestow upon you pious offspring) for your own selves beforehand. And fear Allah, and know that you are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give good tidings to the believers (O Muhammad)." (Al-Baqarah: 223)

All Muslim jurists agree that anal sex is haram (prohibited), based on the hadith of the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): "Do not have anal sex with women." (Reported by Ahmad, At-Tirmidhi, An-Nasa'i, and Ibn Majah.)

Khuzaymah Ibn Thabit (may Allah be pleased with him) also reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah is not too shy to tell you the truth: Do not have sex with your wives in the anus." (Reported by Ahmad, 5/213.)

Ibn `Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated: "The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Allah will not look at a man who has anal sex with his wife." (Reported by Ibn Abi Shaybah, 3/529, and At-Tirmidhi classified it as an authentic hadith, 1165)

Further, it is reported that the Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) referred to such an act as "minor sodomy". (Reported by Ahmad and An-Nasa'i)

If one does have anal sex with his wife, he has committed a grave sin, which requires repentance. He should regret and feel contrite for committing such a sin. Allah Almighty destroyed a whole nation who were accustomed to this evil habit.

Allah Hafiz
Sister Fatima

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Answers above.

In regards to repentance, if it is true and from the heart, then Allaah will forgive u Inshaa Allaah

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[Vedad]

Wa Aleykum Salam wa rahmatullah

As posted above, anal sex is forbidden, but jsut to show yiyu that there are other opinions concerning oral sex:

Question: I read on your website that oral sex is permissible. How can this be the case when it can lead to injesting impurities? A man's and woman's genitals are impure. Common sense should tell us that this act is inherently shameful and unlawful. Just because something is not mentioned does not mean that you go out and do it.

Answered by Sheikh `Abd al-Wahhâb al-Turayrî, former professor at al-Imâm University in Riyadh

Oral sex is lawful for both the husband and wife. It can be understood from the Prophet’s (peace be upon him) saying: “Approach from the front or the back, but avoid anal sex and sex during menstruation.”

This is clear evidence that the prohibited sexual acts are anal intercourse and intercourse with a woman during menstruation and post natal-bleeding. Everything else between a husband and a wife is permissible.

The possibility of the existence of impurity does not stand as a sufficient evidence for forbidding it. If a person thinks the intake of impurity is imminent, he must take action to avoid it.

The female genitals are not impure as long as they are free from ordinary impurities.

A feeling of guilt cannot stand as evidence for the unlawfulness of something. The evidence can only be derived from what is in Allah’s Book or the Prophet’s Sunnah (peace be upon him). There is no evidence whatsoever from these two sources forbidding this practice. Therefore, as things are basically lawful unless evidence to the contrary exists, then this practice is lawful.

Some people may dislike a practice for their own personal reasons, but we cannot say that it is an unlawful practice in Islam.

http://islamtoday.com/show_detail_se...main_cat_id=33

[aadil77]

salam alakum,

I am a new muslim, just took my shahadah 2 weeks ago... alhamdullilah.

Now i know this may sound a bit funny to you, but i wanted to know what Islam says about Anal sex. I have committed a lot of major sins before in my life, i have fornicated many times as well which includes anal sex, i don't even know if allah will forgive all this, i pray five times every day and ask allah to forgive me and Insh allah i will continue to do this.

Wa alakim salam

lucky for you all your sins are wiped clean when you become muslim, so nowworrys

[sur]

Wa Aleykum Salam wa rahmatullah

As posted above, anal sex is forbidden, but jsut to show yiyu that there are other opinions concerning oral sex:

Question: I read on your website that oral sex is permissible. How can this be the case when it can lead to injesting impurities? A man's and woman's genitals are impure. Common sense should tell us that this act is inherently shameful and unlawful. Just because something is not mentioned does not mean that you go out and do it.

Answered by Sheikh `Abd al-Wahhâb al-Turayrî, former professor at al-Imâm University in Riyadh

Oral sex is lawful for both the husband and wife. It can be understood from the Prophet’s (peace be upon him) saying: “Approach from the front or the back, but avoid anal sex and sex during menstruation.”

I beg to disagree & repeat what I said before:-

BOTH Oral & Anal X are NOT allowed.

Qur'aan uses word "TILTH" which is a place where one sow the seed & a Produce grows out. This word implies vagina where seed is sown & a crop(baby) is produced. Neither mouth nor anus/rectum can work as "TILTH". So following verse allows vaginal sex from front or back.

[Q:2:223] Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand(this recommends foreplay); and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.


So use of word "TILTH" is indirect way of saying. & this word excludes both oral & anal sex since no crop grows by sowing seed in either mouth or in rectum. So they r NOT "TILTH".


This is proved by Sahih Muslim 8:3363-4 & Abu-Dawood:5:2159 see below.

Oral sex is lawful for both the husband and wife. It can be understood from the Prophet’s (peace be upon him) saying: “Approach from the front or the back, but avoid anal sex and sex during menstruation.”

From front does NOT mean oral. This verse clearified concern that ppl had about having Vaginal sex with fronts facing or with back of spouse facing husband ; as evident by following Ahadees.:-


Sahih Bukhari:60:51:-
Narated By Jabir : Jews used to say: "If one has sexual intercourse with his wife from the back, then she will deliver a squint-eyed child." So this Verse was revealed:
"Your wives are a tilth unto you; so go to your tilth when or how you will." (2.223)



Sahih Muslim:8:3363:-
Jabir (Allah be pleased with him) declared that the Jews used to say: When a man has intercourse with his wife through the vagina but being on her back, the child will have squint, so the verse came down: "Your wives are your tilth; go then unto your tilth as you may desire"(ii. 223)


Sahih Muslim:8:2264:-
Jabir (b. Abdullah) (Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Jews used to say that when one comes to one's wife through the vagina, but being on her back, and she becomes pregnant, the child has a squint. So the verse came down: "Your wives are your tilth; go then unto your tilth, as you may desire."



Abu Dawood:5:2159:-
Narated By Abdullah Ibn Abbas : Ibn Umar misunderstood (the Qur'anic verse, "So come to your tilth however you will")--may Allah forgive him. The fact is that this clan of the Ansar, who were idolaters, lived in the company of the Jews who were the people of the Book. They (the Ansar) accepted their superiority over themselves in respect of knowledge, and they followed most of their actions. The people of the Book (i.e. the Jews) used to have intercourse with their women on one side alone (i.e. lying on their backs). This was the most concealing position for (the vagina of) the women. This clan of the Ansar adopted this practice from them. But this tribe of the Quraysh used to uncover their women completely, and seek pleasure with them from in front and behind and laying them on their backs.

When the muhajirun (the immigrants) came to Medina, a man married a woman of the Ansar. He began to do the same kind of action with her, but she disliked it, and said to him: We were approached on one side (i.e. lying on the back); do it so, otherwise keep away from me. This matter of theirs spread widely, and it reached the Apostle of Allah (pbuh).

So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Qur'anic verse: "Your wives are a tilth to you, so come to your tilth however you will," i.e. from in front, from behind or lying on the back. But this verse meant the place of the delivery of the child, i.e. the vagina.

The female genitals are not impure as long as they are free from ordinary impurities.

But there r orginisms e.g., herpes of two types. Type-1 that MOSTLY affect mouth & type-2 that affect genitals, But type-1 can also affect genitals so by indulging in oral sex u make oral herpes transfer to genitals & genital herpes is a painful disease.


Similarly gonorrhea which primarily affects genitals & females can be SILENT carriers of it while males r NOT silent carriers. By oral sex if it gets into eyes of male it can cause serious disease that can cause blindness.


There r anaerobic organisms in our mouth, that can lead to serious UTIs(urinary tract infections) & prostate infections(Prostatitis).

[FatimaAsSideqah]

As Salaam Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu

^ very good point! 100% agreed.

Give you some of reps.

May Allah Ta'ala rewards on you!

[جوري]

[B]



But there r orginisms e.g., herpes of two types. Type-1 that MOSTLY affect mouth & type-2 that affect genitals, But type-1 can also affect genitals so by indulging in oral sex u make oral herpes transfer to genitals & genital herpes is a painful disease.


Similarly gonorrhea which primarily affects genitals & females can be SILENT carriers of it while males r NOT silent carriers. By oral sex if it gets into eyes of male it can cause serious disease that can cause blindness.


There r anaerobic organisms in our mouth, that can lead to serious UTIs(urinary tract infections) & prostate infections(Prostatitis).

Are you saying that women alone carry herpes and intend to deceive their husbands by feigning virginity? or that Muslim women are prone to chlamydia and gonorrhea under normal physiological conditions? do I understand you correctly that chalmydia causes blindness through oral sex and not as previously taught through vertical transmission to the fetus through the birth canal? or that they are lethal diseases that lead to the demise of poor unsuspecting men and can't be treated by a single-dose injection of ceftriaxone and chlamydia with a single dose of azithromycin? More importantly are you saying that Muslim women are promiscuous prior to marriage?
considering that all you afore mention are sexually transmitted diseases some of which are in fact reportable by law to the CDC, and we know that Islam prohibits pre-marital sex!!

simple conclusion when a virgin is married and shortly thereafter contracts any of what you mention, it must have been through her husband--

Do women usually want to engage in sexual activities during a urinary tract infection or are they sick with fever, burning on urination, and malaise? also considering that Sexual intercourse is a common cause of urinary tract infections (surely you've heard of honey moon cystitis)? urinary tract infection that can occur as a result of irritation and bruising from frequent and prolonged sexual intercourse, which the husband most assuredly contributes 100% to?

are you prohibiting oral sex with the authority of a scholar? when there is no clear evidence for it and those scholars that have given their opinion..

here

[Name of Questioner
Akhir - Belgium

Title
Islam's Stance on Oral Sex

Question
Respected scholars of Islam, As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatu Allah wa Barakatuh. I have a question that perplexes my mind, and I want you to clarify. What is the Islamic stance on oral sex between the husband and his wife? Jazakum Allah khayran.

Date
19/May/2004

Name of Counsellor
Group of Muftis

Topic
Intimate relations



Answer


Wa`alykum As-Salaamu Warahmatullahi Wabarakaatuh.

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear questioner, thank you so much for your concerns about your religion and Allah’s teachings even in what concerns your sexual life with your wife.

As regards your question, it is to be noted, first of all, that all acts that aim at satisfying and pleasing the spouses are allowable so long as two things are avoided, that is anal sex and having sex with a wife while she is still in her menstruation. Thus, it is permissible for a husband and a wife to practice cunnilingus and fellatio. Following we’d cite the opinions of some well-known Muslim scholars in this regard:

The eminent Muslim scholar, Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qaradawi states:

“I was asked about oral sex in America and Europe when I began to travel to these countries in the early 70s. We are not used to be asked these questions in our Muslim countries. Those Western people are accustomed to stripping naked during sexual intercourse. These are communities of nakedness, and from the licentiousness of the woman that she wears nothing to screen her body in her daily life.

So, they are in need of more excitements during copulation. However, men in our Muslim societies see nothing in the Muslim woman that can excite them on the basis of her wearing either Hijab (veil) or Niqab (face cover). But concerning whether being in complete nakedness during practicing copulation is lawful or not, the Prophet of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, is reported to have said, "Guard your private parts except from your wife or your slaves."

Muslim jurists are of the opinion that it is lawful for the husband to perform cunnilingus on his wife, or a wife to perform the similar act for her husband (fellatio) and there is no wrong in doing so. But if sucking leads to releasing semen, then it is Makruh (blameworthy), but there is no decisive evidence (to forbid it).

These parts are not dirty like anus, but it is ordinarily disgusting to man. But there is no decisive evidence to make it unlawful, especially if the wife agrees with it or achieves orgasm by practicing it. Allah, Exalted and Glorified be He, says: "And who guard their modesty, save from their wives or the slaves, that I heir right hands possess, for then they are not blameworthy, but Who so craveth beyond that, such are transgressors.” (Al-Mu'minun: 5-7)”

In the light of this, scholars maintain that the husband is allowed to enjoy his wife through any means of enjoyment except anal sex, for that is strictly forbidden.

Dr. Ali Jum`ah, professor of the Principles of Islamic Jurisprudence at Al-Azhar Univ., says further that licking, sucking and kissing spouse's sexual organs are all allowed, as long as it gives a person sexual gratification that will keep him away from Haram (unlawful) or starring at opposite sex (marriageable). But every Muslim must keep in mind that sexual intercourse is just a lust and passion that must be satisfied in a lawful way; it's not to be perceived as necessary as foods and drinks, as it's the case in the Western perverted ideology.

Shedding more light on this, Dr. Sabri `Abdul Ra’ouf, professor of Islamic Comparative Jurisprudence, at Al-Azhar Univ, says that it's allowed for the married couple to enjoy each other as long as what they do does not run counter to the teachings of Islam or violate the public norms. He also gives support to the view of Sheikh Al-Qaradawi that oral sex or kissing private parts of the spouse is something viewed disgusting to Muslims, but if the aim is just kissing (without having constant indulgence in it) it's not sinful to do that, but people of high morality normally keep away from that, as not to give in to imitating non-Muslims.”

In conclusion, it has become clear now that oral sex is not prohibited, but it is not the normal choice for committed Muslims and Muslimahs. That's, despite that oral sex is not Haram, it is completely disgusting and does not conform to the pure taste and decency of a Muslim personality.


Here, it should be noted that one of the main objectives of Shari`ah is to safeguard the life of people and keep them healthy. Based on this, if it is scientifically proven that oral sex or such practices cause mouth cancer or form a danger on the health of a person who practices it, then it becomes totally prohibited.


You can also read:

http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/S...=1119503543892
seem to be at a point of vacillation?

I believe this matter should be left to the discretion of the married Muslim couple to adjudicate whether this is in concert with proper intimate relations or not!

I wouldn't have written anything at all, except, I feel mentioning sexually transmitted diseases and somehow attributing them to Muslim women is a touch misogynistic, the person who stands to suffer most from STD's are women themselves, ending with PID or the neonates through the birthing process... a man becoming blind through oral sex can indeed happen by a long stretch of the imagination!

Even if you meant to implicate men as it does take two to tango. One should hope for the best of manners out of Muslims? If they are promiscuous prior to marriage, I don't see why they would abstain during marriage from acts which scholars are divided on?!
I think there is a better route to validate a point rather than implicating women as carriers of sexually transmitted diseases, considering the women you are implicating here are Muslim... and I believe you've missed the most important point of all.. Any STD contracted will be contracted just the same if not more through regular intercourse . pls do think about that! --


and Allah SWT knows best

:w:

[youngsister]

:sl:

Are you saying that women alone carry herpes and intend to deceive their husbands by feigning virginity? or that Muslim women are prone to chlamydia and gonorrhea under normal physiological conditions? do I understand you correctly that chalmydia causes blindness through oral sex and not as previously taught through vertical transmission to the fetus through the birth canal? or that they are lethal diseases that lead to the demise of poor unsuspecting men and can't be treated by a single-dose injection of ceftriaxone and chlamydia with a single dose of azithromycin? More importantly are you saying that Muslim women are promiscuous prior to marriage?
considering that all you afore mention are sexually transmitted diseases some of which are in fact reportable by law to the CDC, and we know that Islam prohibits pre-marital sex!!

simple conclusion when a virgin is married and shortly thereafter contracts any of what you mention, it must have been through her husband--

Do women usually want to engage in sexual activities during a urinary tract infection or are they sick with fever, burning on urination, and malaise? also considering that Sexual intercourse is a common cause of urinary tract infections (surely you've heard of honey moon cystitis)? urinary tract infection that can occur as a result of irritation and bruising from frequent and prolonged sexual intercourse, which the husband most assuredly contributes 100% to?

are you prohibiting oral sex with the authority of a scholar? when there is no clear evidence for it and those scholars that have given their opinion..

:sl: Agreed i didnt get this whole STD thing.., if you both pure before marriage i am sure this shouldnt be a problem.