format_quote Originally Posted by
Vedad
Wa Aleykum Salam wa rahmatullah
As posted above, anal sex is forbidden, but jsut to show yiyu that there are other opinions concerning oral sex:
Question: I read on your website that oral sex is permissible. How can this be the case when it can lead to injesting impurities? A man's and woman's genitals are impure. Common sense should tell us that this act is inherently shameful and unlawful. Just because something is not mentioned does not mean that you go out and do it.
Answered by Sheikh `Abd al-Wahhâb al-Turayrî, former professor at al-Imâm University in Riyadh
Oral sex is lawful for both the husband and wife. It can be understood from the Prophet’s (peace be upon him) saying: “Approach from the front or the back, but avoid anal sex and sex during menstruation.”
I beg to disagree & repeat what I said before:-
BOTH Oral & Anal X are
NOT allowed.
Qur'aan uses word
"TILTH" which is a place where one
sow the seed & a Produce grows out. This word implies vagina where seed is sown & a crop(baby) is produced.
Neither mouth nor anus/rectum can work as "TILTH". So following verse allows vaginal sex from front or back.
[Q:2:223] Your wives are as a
tilth unto you; so approach your
tilth when or how ye will; but do some good act for your souls beforehand
(this recommends foreplay); and fear God. And know that ye are to meet Him (in the Hereafter), and give (these) good tidings to those who believe.
So use of word "
TILTH" is indirect way of saying. & this word excludes
both oral & anal sex since no crop grows by sowing seed in either mouth or in rectum. So they r
NOT "TILTH".
This is proved by Sahih Muslim 8:3363-4 & Abu-Dawood:5:2159 see below.
Oral sex is lawful for both the husband and wife. It can be understood from the Prophet’s (peace be upon him) saying: “Approach from the front or the back, but avoid anal sex and sex during menstruation.”
From
front does NOT mean oral. This verse clearified concern that ppl had about having Vaginal sex with fronts facing or with back of spouse facing husband ; as evident by following Ahadees.:-
Sahih Bukhari:60:51:-
Narated By Jabir : Jews used to say: "If one has sexual
intercourse with his wife from the back, then she will deliver a squint-eyed child."
So this Verse was revealed:
"Your wives are a tilth unto you; so go to your tilth when or how you will." (2.223)
Sahih Muslim:8:3363:-
Jabir (Allah be pleased with him) declared that the Jews used to say: When a man has int
ercourse with his wife through the vagina but being on her back, the child will have squint,
so the verse came down: "Your wives are your tilth; go then unto your tilth as you may desire"(ii. 223)
Sahih Muslim:8:2264:-
Jabir (b. Abdullah) (Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Jews used to say that when
one comes to one's wife through the vagina, but being on her back, and she becomes pregnant, the child has a squint.
So the verse came down: "Your wives are your tilth; go then unto your tilth, as you may desire."
Abu Dawood:5:2159:-
Narated By Abdullah Ibn Abbas : Ibn Umar misunderstood (the Qur'anic verse, "So come to your tilth however you will")--may Allah forgive him. The fact is that this clan of the Ansar, who were idolaters, lived in the company of the Jews who were the people of the Book. They (the Ansar) accepted their superiority over themselves in respect of knowledge, and they followed most of their actions. The people of the Book (i.e. the Jews) used to have intercourse with their women on one side alone (i.e. lying on their backs). This was the most concealing position for (the vagina of) the women. This clan of the Ansar adopted this practice from them. But this tribe of the Quraysh used to uncover their women completely, and seek pleasure with them from in front and behind and laying them on their backs.
When the muhajirun (the immigrants) came to Medina, a man married a woman of the Ansar. He began to do the same kind of action with her, but she disliked it, and said to him: We were approached on one side (i.e. lying on the back); do it so, otherwise keep away from me. This matter of theirs spread widely, and it reached the Apostle of Allah (pbuh).
So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Qur'anic verse: "Your wives are a tilth to you, so come to your tilth however you will," i.e. from in front, from behind or lying on the back.
But this verse meant the place of the delivery of the child, i.e. the vagina.
The female genitals are
not impure as long as they are free from ordinary impurities.
But there r orginisms e.g., herpes of two types. Type-1 that MOSTLY affect mouth & type-2 that affect genitals, But type-1 can also affect genitals so by indulging in oral sex u make oral herpes transfer to genitals & genital herpes is a painful disease.
Similarly
gonorrhea which primarily affects genitals & females can be
SILENT carriers of it while
males r NOT silent carriers. By oral sex if it gets into eyes of male it can cause serious disease that can cause
blindness.
There r anaerobic organisms in our mouth, that can lead to
serious UTIs(urinary tract infections) & prostate infections(Prostatitis).