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AnonymousGender
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salam wa 3lykom
my first question.
1- if u know one of your friends is doing something wrong and you have tried to convince them its wrong but they dont listen.
should you tell on them to there parent n get them busted ( cuz thats the only way to let em stop) . because i heard ) من ستر علي مسلما ستر لله عليه في لدينا الاخره )
and if i dont say . but i still know would i get a sin. n if her parents find out , they will ask me why didnt i say anything. what should i respond.! since we r close friends :exhausted..
if i was you i would try help the friend stop as best as i can and then tell parents, not suppose to keep bad company anyway. Help the friend... be patient with him/her. if they dont listen then do what you think is best for them (might mean a huge fight and argument tho but im sure your willing to go through that right?)
2- should a muslim live in fear all there life. because i started to feel like that n i cant sleep n i keep thinking about death. n that will make u to not enjoy life..hmmm isnt that the reason we shouldnt enjoy life hmm now im confused.
A muslim should keep balance, we should always fear sinning but we should also keep hope (for mercy jannah etc). A beautiful example by a great imaam would be, fear and hope are like two birds of a wing, if only one wing is flapping the bird will fall. And also to despair Allahs mercy is a huge sin, so please always keep hope in Allah ! he is ar-rahmaan (most merciful) but he is also great in his chastisement!
3- 3- when i try to repent i hear some kinda voice in me telling me that like im just doing it for the sake of lying to my self.or like anything i wanna do .. like any good deeds im tryin to do for ex pryin.. i cant pry next to no BODY cuz i i get these thought like im tryin to pry prefect next to ppl just to show off... i was thinkin maybe its the shytan but then THE thoughts DOESNT go !away... im tired...
thts normal just keep praying, even if people are around, do your part. Dont worry about that shaytaan. Before you pray seek refuge in Allaah, if you still ge tthese nagging whispers then spit to your left three times and seek refuge in Allaah.