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truemuslim
10-16-2008, 02:51 PM
:sl:

found this...pretty kwl innit?

1. Make her feel secure and sakinah - don’t threaten her with divorce

2. Give sincere salaams

3. Treat her gently - like a fragile vessel

4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere

5. Be generous with her

6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart

7. Avoid anger, keep wudu at all times

8. Look good and smell great for your wife

9. Don’t be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken

10. Be a good listener

11. Yes for flattery, No for arguing

12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear

13. Utilize pleasant surprises

14. Preserve and guard the tongue

15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings

16. Give sincere compliments

17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family

18. Speak about topics that interest her

19. Express to her relatives, how wonderful she is

20. Give each other gifts

21. Get rid of routine, surprise her

22. Have a good opinion of each other

23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don’t nitpick

24. Add a drop of patience, increase drops during pregnancy, menses

25. Expect and respect her jealously

26. Be humble

27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers

28. Help at home and with housework

29. Help her love your relatives, but don’t try to force her

30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you

31. Remember your wife in dua

32. Leave the past for Allah subhanahu wa ta ala, don’t dwell on, dig into, or bring it up.

33. Don’t act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family

34. Take shaytaan as your enemy, not your wife

35. Put food in your wife’s mouth

36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect

37. Show her your smile

38. Don’t ignore the small things, deal with them before they become big

39. Avoid being harsh-hearted

40. Respect and show that you appreciate her thinking

41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills

42. Respect that she might not be in mood for intimacy, stay within halal boundaries

43. Help her take care of the children

44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments

45. Sit down and eat meals together

46. Let her know that you will be traveling or returning from travel, give her sufficient notice

47. Don’t leave home in anger

48. Maintain the secrecy and privacy of the home

49. Encourage each other in ibaadat

50. Respect and fulfill her rights upon you

51. Live with her in kindness, goodness, fairness in good and bad times

52. Kiss your wife, foreplay,
“Don’t jump on her like a bull”

53. Keep disputes between the two of you, don’t take it outside

54. Show care for her health and well-being

55. Remember you are not always right or perfect yourself

56. Share your happiness and sadness with her

57. Have mercy for her weaknesses

58. Be a firm support for her to lean on

59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal

60. Have a good intention for her


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Re.TiReD
10-16-2008, 06:53 PM
Aww some of these are cute. JazakAllah khayr
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truemuslim
10-16-2008, 06:57 PM
^ lol yeh , :p
wa iyakki
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The Khan
10-16-2008, 06:59 PM
:w:

Jazakallah Khair Okhee. I shall keep it stored in my email as a reminder when I get married, which probably won't happen for at least a few years. :-)
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Güven
10-16-2008, 07:04 PM
lol some of them were quite funny but it looks soo easy :-\

JazakAllahu Khair :D

:w:
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kwolney01
10-16-2008, 07:08 PM
Very nice sister!!!

Thanks for posting this!!
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bewildred
10-16-2008, 07:14 PM
61- When you're arguing, if you're wrong, do apologize humbly. If you're right, just keep quiet.
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SixTen
10-16-2008, 07:20 PM
Originally Posted by bewildred
61- When you're arguing, if you're wrong, do apologize humbly. If you're right, just keep quiet.
^o) No no no, you can't take away bragging rights from a man :-P
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Najm
10-16-2008, 07:31 PM
AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah WaBarkatuhu

Heres the video....

60 ways to keep your wife's love GUARANTEED...

Part 1

Part 2

May Allah make us the ideal man, for our wives. Ameen:-[

FiAmaaniAllah
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IbnAbdulHakim
10-16-2008, 07:34 PM
to honestly implement the advice this wife needs to be one ReaLLY AMAZING WIFE or you'll be lying whilst trying to fulfill them,

for example

telling cousins/relatives shes amazing when she does nothing
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BNDGR
10-16-2008, 07:35 PM
Asalam alaikum Sis,
JazakAllah for this great post... I think some men really need to be reminded sometimes. Hey brothers, don't get mad, we sisters need reminding too.
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Najm
10-16-2008, 07:45 PM
Originally Posted by truemuslim
:sl:

12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear

13. Utilize pleasant surprises

20. Give each other gifts

21. Get rid of routine, surprise her

27. Sacrifice your happiness for hers

30. Let her know that she is the ideal wife for you

31. Remember your wife in dua

36. Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect

37. Show her your smile

41. Help her to find and build her inner strengths and skills

44. Give her gifts with your tongue, be an artist with your compliments

AsSalamOAlaikum WaRehmatuAllah Waarkatuhu

Wow, i think all 60 are kool!!! But these are my fav, especially number 36, where the wife is referred to as "Precious Pearl" SubhaanAllah!!!

FiSabilillah
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Güven
10-16-2008, 07:47 PM
Originally Posted by IbnAbdulHakim
to honestly implement the advice this wife needs to be one ReaLLY AMAZING WIFE or you'll be lying whilst trying to fulfill them,

for example

telling cousins/relatives shes amazing when she does nothing

^ I agree on this :D
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Ibn Abi Ahmed
10-16-2008, 07:53 PM
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Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, names she loves to hear
This is a beautiful one. The Messenger (sallalahu alayhi wa sallam) used to call A'isha r.a., out of his love for her, 'A-ish. :statisfie
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Faseeha
10-16-2008, 07:54 PM
I wonder if a man out there exists who would practise all 60 of them ^o)
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Adiva
10-16-2008, 07:56 PM
Masha Allah..I'l be emailing this to my husband
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bewildred
10-16-2008, 07:58 PM
Well, sister, a man like that exists. He just performs each of the 60 mentionned above act during a whole life. I mean one every two years,lol.
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Re.TiReD
10-16-2008, 08:00 PM
:salamext:

http://www.kalamullah.com/Books/Love..._Reference.pdf

from:

http://www.kalamullah.com/family.html

Have a browse insha'Allah.
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Faseeha
10-16-2008, 08:00 PM
lol, so true
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Zahida
10-16-2008, 08:03 PM
:sl: LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Specially the bit about sacrificing your own needs for your wifes!!!!!!!!!! LOL:bump1::w:
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Ansariyah
10-16-2008, 08:04 PM
Originally Posted by Proudly_Muslim
I wonder if a man out there exists who would practise all 60 of them ^o)
My Father!
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Zahida
10-16-2008, 08:12 PM
:sl: You are so lucky to have a perfect father as such????????:w::)
Originally Posted by Yanoorah
My Father!
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chacha_jalebi
10-16-2008, 08:26 PM
Originally Posted by Proudly_Muslim
I wonder if a man out there exists who would practise all 60 of them ^o)
:D

im gona be usin these tips soon :embarrass
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Snowflake
10-16-2008, 08:26 PM
mashaAllah. May all brothers implement these principles in their marriage(s). Ameen.


I don't know why I found these so funny. I think I have my funny goggles on!

59. Accept her as is, she is a package deal - meaning the package might expand in time

7. Avoid anger, keep wudu at all times - he won't be around to be angry if he's trying to keep wudhu at all times

14. Preserve and guard the tongue - ah! this is not to be misinterpreted but it might explain the lack of communication!


21. Get rid of routine, surprise her - no it doesn't mean sneak behind her and shout BOO!

23. Have good manners, overlook small things, don’t nitpick - unless the small things are nits!

:laugh:

and please do forgive my rare moment of silliness!
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Zahida
10-16-2008, 08:39 PM
:slHmmmmmmmmmm if he does will he please PLEASE please identify himself!!!!!!!!!:sl:

Good luck with these tips chacha but no adding any extra tips of your own allowed!!!!1 Mubarak ho Allah Bless you and your intended with his Rehmat Ameen.:D
Originally Posted by chacha_jalebi
:D

im gona be usin these tips soon :embarrass
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Uthman
10-16-2008, 08:44 PM
Thanks for this. I'll try to remember and act upon them when I get married someday InshaaAllah. That's Osman for you. Always planning ahead! :D

JazakAllah Khayr.
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Cabdullahi
10-17-2008, 02:36 PM
Reading the 60 things makes me feel a bit uneasy
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Sahabiyaat
10-17-2008, 02:39 PM
akhee!

you just sed a wife shud do everything! lol, you are so inconsistent!!
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Nájlá
10-17-2008, 02:39 PM
lol some of these have actually made me laugh.
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Güven
10-17-2008, 02:40 PM
I would be happy if its only 60 :hmm:

:w:
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Sahabiyaat
10-17-2008, 02:45 PM
somebody must have rubbed out the 3 zeros at the end :D
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Güven
10-17-2008, 02:47 PM
^60000?!

thats..normal :hmm:
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sirajstc
10-17-2008, 02:49 PM
wow great
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Yanal
10-17-2008, 02:49 PM
that would be
Me in 13 more years
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IbnAbdulHakim
10-17-2008, 02:51 PM
Originally Posted by Islamic Bro
that would be
Me in 13 more years
you wish!

i have no idea why i said that
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Nájlá
10-17-2008, 02:54 PM
us fishters can just keep dreaming
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truemuslim
10-17-2008, 02:55 PM
Originally Posted by Islamic Bro
that would be
Me in 13 more years

Inshallah

see im the nice one :p
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