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piXie
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Brother, I would advise you to read and study the Tafseer of Surah Yusuf (A.S). Let him be your inspiration.
Did you think this was me? :-[ Well.. it isn't! Sorry to disappoint you my ickle super person,
At Akhi, Alhamdhulillah that Allaah has granted you good looks right?! Realise this is a blessing as well as a test and work with it, hardships can only make you stronger, it is impossible to run away from these trials, you've got to face them!
You shouldn't feel like you're a temptation to girlies akhi, if you lower your gaze and they lower theirs, wheres the problem?
Allaah (Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala) The exalted has said:
Tell the believeing men to lower their gaze (24:30)
The ear and the eye and the heart shall all be called to account (17:36)
He knoweth the traitor of the eyes, and that which the bossoms hide (40:19)
Lo! Ty Lord is ever watchful (89:14)
If marriage is a tiny part of the solution you're hoping for, go for it! What are you waiting for, besides every little helps, ahaha I love that Tesco woman! :-[
You can't have everything you want akhi, but think of it this way, if you've lived your paradise in this life, theres no chance you getting it in the akhirah, so live you worldly life through hardships and inshaAllaah you will ultimately be rewarded with Paradise!
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