how to get through a stubborn person

[Ummu Sufyaan]

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how do you get through a stubborn person, who the more you ask them for something you need... i mean you really need this thing, and the only way to get it is through them...but the more you ask and persist, the more they become stubborn...

what do you do :(

[Soulja Girl]

:sl:

Bribe them wiv cookies... :coolious: Does the trick... :p

:w:

[Danah]

I have a problem with this myself, because I am a stubborn person :-[

what I did with such people is keep being so persistent with them even if they increase their persistence until they gave up:thumbs_up


lol.....now I sound like a scary person to u sis, right? :skeleton:

but really this is how it works with me :X

[Tony]

maybe youre not supposed to hav the thing :sl:

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[Faith.]

Id bribe them..;D *Muhahaha*
Nah thats mean...:D
I have no idea....I usually give up...But not without a fight....:p...

[highway_trekker]

if it is a child...usually love and persistance in that love as well as getting on their side works

an adult... its harder... stubborness could be a part of the character and that is always a challenge... I think people should make him/her aware that this is not a good quality to possess as an adult. They should feel the consequence of what they do...usually that is the best remedy.

[Ummu Sufyaan]

what I did with such people is keep being so persistent with them even if they increase their persistence until they gave up:thumbs_up

but what if they get the kicks out of it, an don't take you seriously...

:sl:

Bribe them wiv cookies... :coolious: Does the trick... :p

:w:

nope that wont work :D...but if i can be patient enough, i may find that a situation may arrive where they come to ME for help, but i dont help them until they help me...:blind: :mmokay:
:D

[Re.TiReD]

Pretend you dont want it, and that if they do give it you you'd go and throw it down the nearest loo....Reverse psychology should work :p

[Ummu Sufyaan]

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lol
if i were to do that, they would be glad because then they would think that i wouldn't need that thing any more...

[Danah]

but what if they get the kicks out of it, an don't take you seriously...

lol....no dont worry, I always make them take me seriously....thats my style :thumbs_up