What do i do?

[anonymous]

:sl:

Ok here's my situation

There's this guy that I've liked for quite a long time. I've never had the courage to tell him how i feel. Anyways his family wants him to get married now and they're starting to show him girls. He's the ideal marriage partner, has all the qualities I've looked for in a man.

So what do i do now?

[crayon]

You tell your parents first of all. Then either you do the proposing, or if that's too weird for you, you tell someone to suggest to his family that you are a suitable marriage partner for him, without his family knowing it was you who came up with the idea. If they're interested they'll contact you and your family and you'll go from there.

[chacha_jalebi]

filmy or what:D

okie dokies sisterino,

if you badly madly wadly like him, get your mahram or someone, to sort you out with a marriage proposal, like you said he is lookin for girls, why dont you send out a proposal

all the best
much love:D

[nebula]

Salaamalakum

What you must do is very simple.

First of all get someone in your family to propose to his family, so that they can see you etc.

Then inshallah be patient and rely on Allah!

Dont be disheartened if you dont marry him surely Allah has someone better for you as he is the best of planners! hes all knowing!

best of luck sister :thumbs_up

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[Ummu Sufyaan]

:sl:
go to your wali and approach his family?

[BNDGR]

Asalam alaikum Sister,
Present your proposal through your family and inshaAllah things will work out how you would like. Take care sis and I hope things work out for you.