omg what have i done?

[AnonymousPoster]

:sl:

i want to hurt him so bad imsad
to think i was going to marry this person and he turns around and does all this so CLEVERLY that if i didnt have someone to tell me otherwise id think he was like a saint. ^o)^o)^o)
i cant believe it, i really cant. i dont know what to do.

[Sahabiyaat]

happens.


what did u do ?

spill it. we will not judge.

[IbnAbdulHakim]

confirm it

dont just believe hearsay

[AnonymousPoster]

It isnt hearsay, its pretty much confirmed.

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[Cabdullahi]

the question is not clear

[IbnAbdulHakim]

It isnt hearsay, its pretty much confirmed.

pretty much you say!


PRETTY MUCH EH

[Al-Zaara]

^ You know something more?

I'm totally confused. What has this man done to you, sister?

[جوري]

You know when you are young, you think every little thing that happens has happened to only you, and it is about as close as it gets to the end of the world.. and no one else that offers advise remotely close in concert with what your feelings desire has anything of substance to impart.

look at it this way (and I can only deduce from what little you've shared) -- if it doesn't kill you, it can only make you stronger!.. next time, YOU'LL find someone who is worthy and right for YOU..
emotions are irrational things, if you dwell much on what could have been, you'll never move on to what will be.. take it from someone who has wasted years wallowing in self-pity and sorrows..Let this (whatever it is) be an experience to have shaped your character and outlook for the better and move on with your life..

and Allah swt knows best

:w:

[AnonymousPoster]

^ You know something more?

I'm totally confused. What has this man done to you, sister?

He hasnt done anything to me which is why i feel so bad, atleast not directly. Hes done something to someone i know well (something bad..really bad) and whilst i wish i didnt believe it i dont have much of a choice :blind:


Fighting4Iman, well he isnt going to admit it so thats my problem

sister Skye JazakAllah Khair for that

[AnonymousPoster]

He hasnt done anything to me which is why i feel so bad, atleast not directly. Hes done something to someone i know well (something bad..really bad) and whilst i wish i didnt believe it i dont have much of a choice :blind:


Fighting4Iman, well he isnt going to admit it so thats my problem

sister Skye JazakAllah Khair for that

i meant,thats an issue with me because i dont know what to do

[IbnAbdulHakim]

im just curious


because ive been lied about before you see i know how sickening it is


what makes you so sure :ooh: ?

[AnonymousPoster]

im just curious


because ive been lied about before you see i know how sickening it is


what makes you so sure :ooh: ?

if you dont mind me asking, who lied about you and why? and the person who they lied to, how did they find out the truth?

[IbnAbdulHakim]

well people spread rumours to sow discord between me and another person

that person upon inspection found doubts that they were not true

however the rumours were so numerous and plentiful that it kept cropping up.


the truth was found out when the person found out my true nature, and saw my background more clearly