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HilalQueen411
I just need some advice, words of wisdom. But I guess my main question is do I stay or go?imsad
ukhtee...sometimes you have to remember you can't change people. You can only hope the person can change.
And sometimes we have to look into ourselves...whether our expectation is too high?
As a woman...we have to be wise and clever to get what we want. I know sometimes men love to complaint. But if you bring him a tea or give him a massage, would you think he will complaint after that. Try asking a bit favor nicely after doing a nice thing for him. But don't ask too much...before they hate us for being bossy.
Guys have stressed (from their work especially) too...and sometimes a wife tend to forget. AND Womennnnnnnn always get stressed...lol. So try to enjoy yourself and have 'me' time occassionally. You have to remember children doesn't need a supermom but they need a caring and loving mother. You have to take care, relax and learn to solve problem wisely before starting to blame others. Try to learn to ask favors from other family members and friends. Learn from them how they solve problems and manage their family. This is what marriage all about, decision making and having responsibility. You can't quit just because your hubby loves to complaint. :thankyou:
p/s:- Don't expect too much what others can give...but lets try to learn to solve thing wisely. And remember duas and salah help alot. :thankyou: Being grateful for what you have now does help too.