Forbidden love?

[senderos]

Hello people.

What are your view on cousins getting married?

I don't get to see my family alot, but lately meeting up with them I had alot of good time, especially with one of my cousins (I'm male, we're both around 20 years of age). I had alot of fun spending time with her. Then after I got home I just had this "thought" about her and me together. It's very weird for me, because she's family, and I don't really like these kind of thoughts!

Anyway, I don't think there will be something else than our cousin relationship, but what do y'all think in general :D

[Re.TiReD]

http://www.islamicboard.com/family-s...riage-hmm.html :D

[Ummu Sufyaan]

:sl:

Hello people.

What are your view on cousins getting married?

I don't get to see my family alot, but lately meeting up with them I had alot of good time, especially with one of my cousins (I'm male, we're both around 20 years of age). I had alot of fun spending time with her. Then after I got home I just had this "thought" about her and me together. It's very weird for me, because she's family, and I don't really like these kind of thoughts!

Anyway, I don't think there will be something else than our cousin relationship, but what do y'all think in general :D

if you like her, just take it to the next step inshallah...speak with her (in front of her family, etc)... dont sit and wait around for something haram to happen, because you were thinking that "shes just your cousin."

[IbnAbdulHakim]

if you feel weird about it then thats you.

its perfectly halal (to marry cousins not intermingle) and we're not even suppose to intermingle with cousins due to the fact that feelings may arise.


Assalamu Alaikum