format_quote Originally Posted by
Güven
zAk i think you forgot the top poster list :p
but in general Women.
Hah! Zing!
To the OP:
:sl:
Yep, women speak a lot more.
I can be a very chatty person at times...but you know, there is peace in silence. You will notice that those who speak more get themselves into a lot more bad and unsuitable situations. People who speak a lot are prone to saying the wrong thing and gossiping.
Just the thought of this should put us off.
Speaking and expression is a gift and a blessing. Indeed, if one has procductive (by normal standards) things to say or a lot of experience and wisdom to express, then they should speak away. But if you have nothing of any value to express, then it his highly likely that those around you are sick of you, annoyed or just don't give a crap.
I for one believe that talking is one of my hugest tests from Allah. It is such a silly thing...but I'm learning and I have changed bigtime. All my friends currently think I'm depressed or something. :P
But yes, here I go again...yap yap yap.
W/s.