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AnonymousGender
What should i do?
stay clam
be your self
have questions that you want to ask ready
*as weird as this may sound* have a "rehearsal" with your sister (if you have one) :X
look good and smell clean. really, just be yourself.
as i said be yourself. dont put on one of those phoney acts that some people do. be polite to her, her family...try conversing with her dad/brothers at some point...just imagine your meeting a new friend and treat the situation like that...
firstly know what you want in a wife/marriage becuase that is the key to finding the right spouse.
anything that you think will be important in your marriage as a couple, would be important to bring up.
try this thread..don't let it overwhelm you. you know what you want in a marriage/wife, so just pick the questions that correspond to that.
http://www.islamicboard.com/family-s...l-partner.html
p.s i am really shy and quiet person, will i have to answer all questions,
well, you cant ignore them, right?
her dad/brothers (if she has any) might ask, so be prepared.
and do i have to talk to the bride for too long.
umm i think the best way to deal with issues like this is just concentrate on what you have to do. try push your nerves to the side. if you want to be nervous, be nervous later. if you're quiet, be quite later, but
do what you have to do and try not let your nerves get the better of you.