format_quote Originally Posted by
TrueStranger
If she refuses to have sex with him. I heard there is a Hadith which says the Angels curse the wife,
yes very true she should refuse this to her husband with out a very good reason eg she is ill or on period etc It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If a man calls his wife to his bed, and she refuses to come, the angels curse her until morning comes.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3065; Muslim, 1436.
format_quote Originally Posted by
TrueStranger
but does Islam allow the husband to refuse his wife food for saying no to sex?
NO read this
Shaykh al-Islam [Ibn Taymiyah] said:
She must obey him if he asks her to come to his bed, and that is obligatory upon her. If she refuses to come to his bed, she is a defiant sinner… as Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“As to those women on whose part you see ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next) refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly, if it is useful); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance)”
[al-Nisa’ 4:34]
al-Fataawa al-Islamiyyah, 3/145, 146
So alhumdulillah for islam there is a way for everything no where does it say starve her first admonish them if that dont work then refuse to share their beds and if that dont work beat them (lightly, if it is useful) then look at this if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance)”
So ALHUMDULILLAH
format_quote Originally Posted by
TrueStranger
AS for this no need to share show etc we dont Judge islam on how muslims are we judge muslim according to islam