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cat eyes
seriously do you think any man is mad enough to take even more then one wife. one hormonal woman is enough and to satisfy his all desires for the majority of men but for some men they need more then one but it would be impossible for one man to make every woman happy so now these days woman will not enter into polygamy so easily also to mention the laws in the country changes through time also and economy especially in european countries the goverment will not give child welfare so easily to the huge amount of kids either, they will think something fishy is going on and they could make problems for you and ban it altogether.
Dear sister you are talking from a “clean” view since you are Muslim alhamdolellah.. But a woman who suffers from a cheating husband who have unlimited number of mistresses & relationships, sure would prefer the clean polygamy of Islam instead of their covering trespasses which lead to diseases, abject society, and children with unknown fathers..
If you reject the legit polygamy, it is your personal opinion and you have the right to have your opinions, but we can’t apply it to the all.. What if a woman can’t have children, and her husband loves her & don’t want to divorce her, but at the same time he loves having children! Most Muslim women in this case welcome having another wife..
one hormonal woman is enough and to satisfy his all desires for the majority of men but for some men they need more then one
Not all men are ideal, and this is VERY clear nowadays!!
OK the ones who need as you said, what should they do? In non Muslim families, the way is very easy, but VERY nasty!
but it would be impossible for one man to make every woman happy
Sis.. a woman whose husband is cheater will not be happy at all, right??
so now these days woman will not enter into polygamy so easily
No.. still there are many women nowadays agree in polygamy & enter into it.. It depends in the culture & the circumstances of each one..
I may reject polygamy as you, but as I said it’s still just a personal opinion.. We, as Muslims alhamdolellah, can think about small issues like jealousy.. But there are people living in a society with very nasty relationships (as what I quoted in my previous post here).. So when talking with people living there, we have to think before mentioning our personal opinions..
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