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anonymous
10-18-2009, 09:56 AM
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Q: If a mother breast feeds another child not her own child, How many times does she need to breast feed the child until the child becomes her own childs brother or sister?
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Brasco
10-18-2009, 10:29 AM
salam
If your mom breastfed this child for five feedings, then he became her son through breastfeeding which is called radaa’ah.
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah concerning Saalim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah: “Breastfeed him, then you will become his mahram.” Narrated by Muslim (1453).
masalam
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Proud of Islam
10-18-2009, 10:50 AM
In case of marriage, it's very dangerous and you have to ask a scholar.. The scholar knows which details he needs in order to decide..
It's a marriage sis, so sure scholars are better than asking here in a public forum..
May Allah guide you to the correctness..
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Danah
10-18-2009, 11:29 AM
It has to be five times as brother Brasco said and indicated in the Hadeeths he quoted.
This is a matter of marriage, so you have to ask your mother or his mother (the one who breastfeed both of you) how many times she exactly breastfeed the child whether you or him. Then go to a scholar and ask him, so you will be very sure of that thing
All the best
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Caller الداعي
10-18-2009, 11:36 AM
true i agree totally this is not a fatwa site . fatwas should be asked on fatwa sites
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Muslim Woman
10-18-2009, 11:36 AM
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format_quote Originally Posted by
Brasco
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to the wife of Abu Hudhayfah concerning Saalim, the freed slave of Abu Hudhayfah: “Breastfeed him, then you will become his mahram.
I am sure , this is a fake hadith . A woman can not breast feed an adult man . In the case of her own son , mothers are told to breast feed for 2 years . If needed then more 6 months.
And Allah knows Best.
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Brasco
10-18-2009, 12:36 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by
Muslim Woman
:wa:
I am sure , this is a fake hadith . A woman can not breast feed an adult man . In the case of her own son , mothers are told to breast feed for 2 years . If needed then more 6 months.
And Allah knows Best.
I know this too, but this is in muslim :S it seems strange maybe we do not understand :S
salam!!
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