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AnonymousGender
I'm not the thread starter, but what if the husband doesn't pray and beats the wife and doesn't fulfill her rights and provide for her, and she's providing for him and he's taking her money and makes her work.
and doesn't pratice the religion and oppresses his wife and they've tried seeking help from outside people like imam's but the husband just won't change his ways and doesn't even attempt to change his ways.
and whenever the wife tries to tell him to establish the religion of Islam and pray he begins getting abusive with her and angry, and sometimes hits her for telling him to pray.
Asalaamu Alaikum Wr Wb, Islam shows us the best way to conduct ourselves with our marriage partners and both the wife and husband have rights over each other which they both have an obligation to fulfill but if any of those rights are not fulfilled or if either the husband or wife is mistreated then Islam does not allow this however these issues are not for us lay people to deal with.
If a husband or wife have any issues in regards to their marriage then they should first try to solve it themselves through effective communication and if the problems persist then they should think about getting an elder of the family or community to mediate their conflicts in order to come to a resolution.
If problems still persist then they can go to a counsellor and as also get advice from a reliable and experienced scholar as this is their realm of expertise and they would provide the best nasiha(advice) in accordance with Islam.
So i would advise the sister to see a reliable and experienced scholar immediatley.
and Allah knows best.