Originally Posted by touba
Asalaamu Alaikum Wr Wb, my sister even though it was wrong for your husband to lie like that but you should never have suspicion of him until you have solid proof and evidance. Shaythan enjoys creating dissension and friction in marriages and he stays with a couple until they break up. So when a suspicion arises just repeat: "Audhu billaahi minashaythaanirajeem".
Also sister open up to your husband and tell him that you should never lie to him again as you are his wife and he should tell you everything regardless of what it is.
You should always make him feel comfortable enough to open up to you and you should also open up to him as much as you an. You should encourage a relationship where you can both share all of your feelings together.
You are each others soul partners so make him realise that he should NEVER hesitate to tell you anything. Keep the communication strong in the marriage because strong communication is crucial for a successful marriage.
Always make sure you pray your Salah at home and that you recite as much Qur'an and dhikrullah as possible so that your home has divine noor and blessings from Allah.
Also do taleem as much as you can in your house. Even if its 5 minutes. It can be on any topic in Islam. Taleem in your home for even 5 minutes will bring countless blessings into your house becauseangels enjoy coming and listening to taleem in the house. All of this will help you greatly in your marriage inshallah.
Also sister may Allah reward you abundantly for your Sabr(Patience) for understanding your husbands back problem. May Allah give him shifa and remember that Allah tests those who he wants good for and he tests those he wants closest to him. Allah Azzawajal is with those who are patient and the reward of patience is Jannah!