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islamlover_girl
01-04-2010, 12:23 AM
The following techniques to telling if someone is lying are often used by police and security experts. This knowledge is also useful for managers, employers, and for anyone to use in everyday situations where telling the truth from a lie can help prevent you from being a victim of fraud/scams and other deceptions.

Warning: Sometimes Ignorance is bliss; after gaining this knowledge, you may be hurt when it is obvious that someone is lying to you.
Signs of Deception:
Body Language of Lies:

• Physical expression will be limited and stiff, with few arm and hand movements. Hand, arm and leg movement are toward their own body the liar takes up less space.

• A person who is lying to you will avoid making eye contact.

• Hands touching their face, throat & mouth. Touching or scratching the nose or behind their ear. Not likely to touch his chest/heart with an open hand.
Emotional Gestures & Contradiction

• Timing and duration of emotional gestures and emotions are off a normal pace. The display of emotion is delayed, stays longer it would naturally, then stops suddenly.

• Timing is off between emotions gestures/expressions and words. Example: Someone says "I love it!" when receiving a gift, and then smile after making that statement, rather then at the same time the statement is made.

• Gestures/expressions don’t match the verbal statement, such as frowning when saying “I love you.”

• Expressions are limited to mouth movements when someone is faking emotions (like happy, surprised, sad, awe, )instead of the whole face. For example; when someone smiles naturally their whole face is involved: jaw/cheek movement, eyes and forehead push down, etc.

Also see our article on micro expressions & lying.

Interactions and Reactions

• A guilty person gets defensive. An innocent person will often go on the offensive.

• A liar is uncomfortable facing his questioner/accuser and may turn his head or body away.

• A liar might unconsciously place objects (book, coffee cup, etc.) between themselves and you.
Verbal Context and Content

• A liar will use your words to make answer a question. When asked, “Did you eat the last cookie?” The liar answers, “No, I did not eat the last cookie.”

•A statement with a contraction is more likely to be truthful: “ I didn't do it” instead of “I did not do it”

• Liars sometimes avoid "lying" by not making direct statements. They imply answers instead of denying something directly.

• The guilty person may speak more than natural, adding unnecessary details to convince you... they are not comfortable with silence or pauses in the conversation.

• A liar may leave out pronouns and speak in a monotonous tone. When a truthful statement is made the pronoun is emphasized as much or more than the rest of the words in a statement.

• Words may be garbled and spoken softly, and syntax and grammar may be off. In other
words, his sentences will likely be muddled rather than emphasized.

• The use of distancing language. out to wikipedia
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Never be Lied to Again



Body Language
Other signs of a lie:

• If you believe someone is lying, then change subject of a conversation quickly, a liar follows along willingly and becomes more relaxed. The guilty wants the subject changed; an innocent person may be confused by the sudden change in topics and will want to back to the previous subject.

• Using humor or sarcasm to avoid a subject.
Final Notes:

Obviously, just because someone exhibits one or more of these signs does not make them a liar. The above behaviors should be compared to a persons base (normal) behavior whenever possible.

Most lie detecting experts agree that a combination of body language and other cues must be used to make an educated guess on whether someone is telling the truth or a lie.

source http://www.blifaloo.com/info/lies.php
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Snowflake
01-04-2010, 12:33 AM
LOL ah if only I knew this before. Very interesting. I used to watch 'Lie to Me' a crime drama in which agents use micro expressions to solve crimes. What's really interesting is that I noticed criminals/suspects in real crime documentaries making the same giveaway expressions and thought, "You liar!" lol
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Allaah Knows
01-04-2010, 12:44 AM
Ah, the thought of knowing whenever someone is lying to me is depressing to say the least..I'd rather not know and save myself the headache
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abu salaahudeen
01-04-2010, 12:56 AM
o i really want to know if someone is lying to me? Mmmmmm no!

Lying is a despicable characteristic
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Sawdah
01-04-2010, 03:08 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Scents of Jannah
LOL ah if only I knew this before. Very interesting. I used to watch 'Lie to Me' a crime drama in which agents use micro expressions to solve crimes. What's really interesting is that I noticed criminals/suspects in real crime documentaries making the same giveaway expressions and thought, "You liar!" lol
I knew that if I continued to watch that show, I might just know if someone is lying to me.:exhausted
It's sad when you really know someone is lying to you...:( but then again no one likes to be lied to in the first place:hmm:
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Obi97_Abdul
01-04-2010, 09:18 PM
If there muslim u might hav 2 ask them 2 say wallahi :D then it wil be easy to tell but sometimes they say it while lying :O
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cat eyes
01-04-2010, 09:25 PM
great sis thanks for this thread now the women here will be accusing there husbands of lying LOL
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Sawdah
01-04-2010, 09:32 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Obi97_Abdul
If there muslim u might hav 2 ask them 2 say wallahi :D then it wil be easy to tell but sometimes they say it while lying :O
Sadly where I am, people say wallahi to anything and seem to forget it's real meaning:heated:
...even non-muslims say wallahi or wallah:hmm:
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Obi97_Abdul
01-05-2010, 05:48 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by seekerofjannah
Sadly where I am, people say wallahi to anything and seem to forget it's real meaning:heated:
...even non-muslims say wallahi or wallah:hmm:
True :raging:
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