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'Abd Al-Maajid
01-16-2010, 06:24 AM
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I'm a boy aged 21 and have listened to music most of the time and I feel like I cannot live without music and music flows through my blood like haemoglobin. Few days ago in this forum I posted a thread Lyrics of songs and there I realised that how severe is the Music case in Islam. Since that day I tried to abstain from listening to music. I pray regularly and recite Quran despite that about 3-4 days later I had this temptation to listen to music and I could not stop myself and started listening to music again (At least I don't listen to female voices) . Its like the world around me disappears around me when I listen to music and I listen to music when I'm stressed and I feel relieved when I listen to music.
Please help your fellow Muslim brother.imsad
Thank you.
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'Abd Al-Maajid
01-16-2010, 12:49 PM
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Please help me, How can I stop listening to music?
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sevgi
01-16-2010, 12:52 PM
Salams,

You live in Hyderabad. Thats the one place I have left on my "want to go to" places. I hear it is a very beautiful city. I wana get married there :p

Music? Maybe try listening to quran?
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zakirs
01-16-2010, 12:57 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by abdulmajid
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I'm a boy aged 21 and have listened to music most of the time and I feel like I cannot live without music and music flows through my blood like haemoglobin. Few days ago in this forum I posted a thread Lyrics of songs and there I realised that how severe is the Music case in Islam. Since that day I tried to abstain from listening to music. I pray regularly and recite Quran despite that about 3-4 days later I had this temptation to listen to music and I could not stop myself and started listening to music again (At least I don't listen to female voices) . Its like the world around me disappears around me when I listen to music and I listen to music when I'm stressed and I feel relieved when I listen to music.
Please help your fellow Muslim brother.imsad
Thank you.
Brother ,

I am from AP too .. i know what you are talking about. You cannot at an instant stop music.Thats difficult. For one make sure that when music is playing ( say a song about girls and stuff) would you like to take Allahs name in your heart ? .

It takes time to give up but start to love silence. Silence is a blessing if you live in a noisy place.Just try silence and start enjoying it I am sure u will get over it.I gave music up by enjoying silence.


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'Abd Al-Maajid
01-16-2010, 01:09 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by sevgi
Salams,

You live in Hyderabad. Thats the one place I have left on my "want to go to" places. I hear it is a very beautiful city. I wana get married there :p

Music? Maybe try listening to quran?
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Thank you, but as I already mentioned I pray and recite Quran regularly...despite that...I cant help myself.
Yes, Hyderabad is a beautiful city (I'm a proud Hyderabadi;D)...but to enjoy your trip you should travel throughout the city. And why would a girl want to marry here in Hyderabad? Also there are many jerks in the city who would die to marry a foreigner ;D.
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CosmicPathos
01-16-2010, 01:14 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by abdulmajid
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I'm a boy aged 21 and have listened to music most of the time and I feel like I cannot live without music and music flows through my blood like haemoglobin. Few days ago in this forum I posted a thread Lyrics of songs and there I realised that how severe is the Music case in Islam. Since that day I tried to abstain from listening to music. I pray regularly and recite Quran despite that about 3-4 days later I had this temptation to listen to music and I could not stop myself and started listening to music again (At least I don't listen to female voices) . Its like the world around me disappears around me when I listen to music and I listen to music when I'm stressed and I feel relieved when I listen to music.
Please help your fellow Muslim brother.imsad
Thank you.
walaikum assalam,
what kind of music you listen to? Bollywood? Bro, I have been addicted to music but it was not bollywood, it was some next doom metal stuff .... it is very hard to get rid of music addiction but its possible. Start slowly. if you listen to music for 5 hours, try reducing it to 4 hours.... Continue doing so and inshAllah hopefully one day you will start hating music ...


I know why music is haram ... its a leisure activity. It diverted my brain into iconoclastic thinking, nihilism, depression, pessimism and rebellion .... i know why it can leech to one's soul ....

may Allah help you on the quest.
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'Abd Al-Maajid
01-16-2010, 01:15 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by zakirs
Brother ,

.....I gave music up by enjoying silence.


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Thank you,
Brother, how much time does it took to you to completely abandon music (assuming you were a music addict).
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tango92
01-16-2010, 01:56 PM
my two cents

first ask yourself are you ready to be a slave to this music?

whenever you get the urge to listen to music imagine and really try to feel what the burning in hell would feel like. and remember you know that its haram now so you can no longer ask for forgiveness as you were in ignorance. and if you listen to music its a fact that punishment will come.

get rid of music little by little. i for example stopped listening to it on the bus. then after a couple of months i stopped listening to it altogether.
later i couldnt understand why i was addicted in the first place.

remember the strength to fight evil comes form Allah
may Allah help you in your struggle. help you to be sincere and increase you in taqwa.
Ameen
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Hamza Asadullah
01-16-2010, 05:11 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by abdulmajid
:sl:
I'm a boy aged 21 and have listened to music most of the time and I feel like I cannot live without music and music flows through my blood like haemoglobin. Few days ago in this forum I posted a thread Lyrics of songs and there I realised that how severe is the Music case in Islam. Since that day I tried to abstain from listening to music. I pray regularly and recite Quran despite that about 3-4 days later I had this temptation to listen to music and I could not stop myself and started listening to music again (At least I don't listen to female voices) . Its like the world around me disappears around me when I listen to music and I listen to music when I'm stressed and I feel relieved when I listen to music.
Please help your fellow Muslim brother.imsad
Thank you.
:sl: firstly you should understand why it is forbidden. When you know why Music is forbidden and the severity of listening to music then you will automatically stop listening to Music inshallah because life is so uncertain and we can all die ANY second so what was to happen if we died whilst sinning? What would happen if you died whilst listening to music?

Here is a Detailed Fatwa on Music and Singing:

Music and Singing?

The case with music and unlawful singing is the same. It has been decisively prohibited in Shariah, as the evidences mentioned further along will show. Yet there are individuals that are not ready to believe that it is Haram.

In the modern era, music has spread to such an extent that nobody is free from it. Individuals are confronted with situations where they are forced to listen to music. It is played nearly in all department stores and supermarkets. If you sit in a taxi, make a phone call or even walk down the street, you will not be saved from this evil. Young Muslims drive around in their cars with the music fully blasted. The increasing popularity of music, which is prevalent in our society, poses a great threat to the Muslims.

Music is a direct ploy of the Non-Muslims. One of the main causes for the decline of the Muslims is their involvement in useless entertainment. Today we see that Muslims are involved, and at the forefront perhaps, of many immoralities and evils. The spiritual power which once was the trait of a Muslim is nowhere to be seen. One of the main reasons for this is music and useless entertainment.

Harms and effects of music

We should be aware that nothing has been prohibited by the Almighty Creator except that which is harmful to the Muslims and the society as a whole. There are great harms and ill-effects of music.

Islam totally forbids adultery and also those things that lead to it. Allah Most High says:

“And do not come near to adultery, for it is a shameful deed and an evil, opening the road (to other evils)” (al-Isra, 32).

Islam does not only prohibit adultery and fornication, but also those things that may lead to it. This is the reason why the Qur’an orders Muslim men and Women to lower their gazes. It prohibits one from being alone with someone from the opposite sex (khalwa). Informal interaction with the opposite sex has also been made unlawful.

This is also one of the main reasons for the prohibition of music, as it effects one’s emotions, creates arousal, passion and excitement, and also leads to various physiological changes in the person. It is a psychological proven fact that two things are instrumental in arousing the human sexual desire, one being the voice of a female (for males) and the other music.

This is the reason why Allah Most High says:

“O wives of the prophet! You are not like other women, if you are god-fearing. So do not be soft in speech. Lest in whose heart is disease should be moved with desire.” (Surah al-Ahzab, v. 32).

Thus, Islam forbids listening to the female voice with lust and desire. The great Hanafi Jurist, Ibn Abidin (Allah have mercy on him) states:

“It is permissible for women to converse with non-Mahram men at the time of need (and visa versa, m). However, what is not permissible is that they stretch, soften and raise their voice in a melodious way” (Radd al-Muhtar, V.1, P. 406).

Similarly, it is also unlawful for women to listen to the voice of non-Mahram men with lust and desire. One of the great western thinkers said: “the voice is one of the quickest ways that make a woman fall in love with a man. This is the reason why many women adore singers”.

The Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) was also wary of this fact when he said to the Companion Bara ibn Malik: “O Bara! Let not the women here your voice” (Kanz al-Ummal, 7/322). The same has also been reported from the Companion Anjasha (Allah be pleased with him).

Physical Effect of Music

Experiments carried out by doctors and researchers confirm that music is such that it does not only affect the brain, but each and every organ of the body. There is a close relationship between music and bodily movements.

It is also proved that music affects one’s emotions, increases arousal in terms of alertness and excitement and also leads to various psychological changes in the person. In a psychological experiment, it was found that listening to moderate type of music increased one’s normal heart beat, whilst listening to rock music the heart beat increased even further, yet people claim that music has no effect.

In conclusion, music and the instruments used for singing are a cause for arousing the sexual desire of an individual. It could lead a person to adultery and fornication. Therefore, Islam takes the preventive measure rather than suffer the consequences. This is also one of the principles of Islamic Jurisprudence, namely ‘blocking the means’ (sadd al-dhara'i). This is based on the idea of preventing an evil before it actually materializes, and is taken from the heart of the guidance of the Qur’an and Sunnah that, “Preventing harm is given precedence even to achieving possible benefits.”

Becoming Heedless of Allah

One of the harms of music is that it distracts one from his Creator. It serves as a temporary means of pleasure and satisfaction, which makes one forget who he really is and why he was created. This is the reason why musical instruments are known in the Arabic language as ‘malaahi’ meaning instruments that prevent one from the remembrance of Allah Almighty.

Human has been created for a noble purpose. Allah Most High says:

“I have created jinn and humans only that they serve (worship) me” (Surah al-Dhariyat, 56).

Music and temporary entertainments sink the human in physical pleasures and prevent him/her from true spiritual gains. In conclusion, music has a great role to play in preventing a human from realising the purpose of creation.

Un-Islamic Values

Another harm of music is that it instills the ideologies of the Non-Muslims in the heart and mind. The messages of today’s music follow a general theme of love, fornication, drugs and freedom.

We find that the whole world is obsessed with the Kufr idea of unrestrained freedom, i.e. freedom of speech and movement, etc… This idea of freedom, “it’s my life, I’ll do what I want” is a predominant theme of music today. It is used as a means of drilling western ideologies into the hearts and minds, which are totally contrary to Islamic values and teachings.

The Difference Between Legal Wisdom and Legal Reasons

The above are just some of the harms and evil effects of music. One must remember here that these are the wisdoms for the prohibition of music and not the reason (illah). The Shariah ruling is based upon the reason, and not the wisdom. In other words if the harms for the prohibition of music is taken care of, it does not make music permissible.

An example for this is that the wisdom behind the prohibition of wine and alcohol is that it creates enmity and hatred between people and it hinders one from the remembrance of Allah. The reason, however, is that it is an intoxicating substance. Now, if one was to say that wine will be Halal for me, as I will lock myself up after drinking wine, thus no destruction will be caused. Any sane person will conclude that he is wrong, as wine is Haram whether you cause any destruction and damage to others or not. The reason being, that the cause for the prohibition of wine is that it intoxicates you, regardless of whether the wisdom is present or not.

The same is with music. If one is saved from the abovementioned harms, even then music will still remain Haram. It can not be held lawful even if one is saved from its harms. This is a well established principle in the science of Usul al-Fiqh.

Ruling on musical instruments and unlawful singing

In the light of the evidences that will be mentioned later, the following are unlawful in Shariah:

a) Musical instruments that are exclusively designed for entertainment and dancing, and create charm, pleasure and bliss on their own (even without the singing), such as the drum, violin, guitar, fiddle, flute, lute, mandolin, harmonium, piano, string, etc… are impermissible to use under any circumstance.

There is a consensus of the whole Ummah on this. Since the first century, the Companions (sahaba), their followers (tabi’een), jurists (fuqaha) and the scholars have been generally unanimous on this ruling.

b) Singing that is a cause for a sin is also unlawful with the consensus of all the scholars, such as songs that prevent one from the obligatory (fard & wajib).

c) Any singing that is accompanied by other sins, such as songs that consist of unlawful, immoral, and sexual themes, or it is sang by non-Mahram women, etc will also be unlawful. This ruling is also with the consensus of all the scholars.

Evidences

There are numerous evidences in the Qur’an and Sunnah which support this view. We will attempt to look at a few:

1) Allah Most High says:

“And there are among men, those that purchase idle tales, to mislead (men) from the path of Allah and throw ridicule. For such there will be a humiliating punishment” (Surah Luqman, V. 6).

The great Companion Abd Allah ibn Mas’ud (Allah be pleased with him) states in the explanation of the word “idle tales”:

“By Allah its meaning is music” (Sunan al-Bayhaqi, 1/223 & authenticated by al-Hakim in his Mustadrak, 2/411).

Imam Ibn Abi Shayba related with his own transmission that He (Ibn Mas’ud) said:

“I swear By Him besides whom there is no God that it refers to singing” (132/5).

The great Companion and exegete of the Qur’an, Abd Allah ibn Abbas (Allah be pleased with him) states:

“The meaning of the word is music, singing and the like” (Sunan al-Bayhaqi, 1/221& Musannaf Ibn abi Shayba, 132/5).

He also stated:

“Music and the purchase of female singers” (Musannaf Ibn Abi Shayba, 132/5).

Hasan al-Basri (Allah be pleased with him) said:

“This verse was revealed in relation to singing and musical instruments” (Tafsir ibn Kathir, 3/442)

The same explanation has also been narrated from Mujahid, Ikrima, Ibrahim Nakha’i, Mak’hul and others (Allah be pleased with them all).

The above verse of the Qur’an, along with the statements regarding its meaning is clear in the prohibition of music. It also serves as a severe warning for those who are involved in the trade of music in any way, shape or form, as Allah warned them of “Humiliating punishment”.

As for those that say, the verse refers to things that prevent one from the remembrance of Allah and not music, do not contradict the aforementioned explanation. The interpretation of the verse with “things that prevent one from the remembrance of Allah” is a more general interpretation which includes music and song, as one of the foremost things that stop you from the remembrance of Allah is music. This is the reason why the majority of the exegetes of the Qur’an have interpreted the verse with music only, or with all those acts that prevent one from the truth with music being at the forefront.

2) Allah Most High says whilst describing the attributes of the servants of the Most Compassionate (ibad al-Rahman):

“Those who witness no falsehood, and if they pass by futility, they pass by it with honourable avoidance” (Surah al-Furqan, V. 72).

Imam Abu Bakr al-Jassas relates from Sayyiduna Imam Abu Hanifah (Allah be pleased with him) that the meaning of “falsehood (zur)” is music & song, (Ahkam al-Qur’an, 3/428).

3) Allah Most High said to Shaytan:

“Lead to destruction those whom you can among them with your (seductive) voice” (Surah al-Isra, V.64).

One of the great exegete, Mujahid (Allah have mercy on him) interpreted the word “voice (sawt)” by music, singing, dancing and idle things. (Ruh al-Ma’ani, 15/111).

Imam Suyuti (Allah have mercy on him) quoted Mujahid as saying: “Voice (in this verse) is singing and flute” (al-Iklil fi istinbat al-tanzil, 1444).

Another exegete, Dahhak (Allah have mercy on him) also interpreted the word “Sawt” with flutes. (Qurtubi, al-Jami` li Ahkam al-Qur’an, 10/288).

Here also, a general interpretation can be given, as indeed some commentators of the Qur ' an have done, but this, as mentioned earlier, does not contradict the meaning given by Mujahid and Dahhak, as it is included in the more broad and general meaning.

Guidance of the Messenger of Allah
(Allah bless him & give him peace)

The are many Ahadith of the blessed Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) which prohibit music and the usage of musical instruments to the extent that some scholars have gathered approximately forty Ahadith, of which the chain of transmission of some is sound (sahih), some good (hasan) and some weak (da’if). We will only mention a few here:

1) Sayyiduna Abu Malik al-Ash’ari (Allah be pleased with him) reports that he heard the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) say: “There will appear people in my Ummah, who will hold adultery, silk, alcohol and musical instruments to be lawful” (Sahih al-Bukhari)

2) Abu Malik al-Ash’ari (Allah be pleased with him) narrates a similar type of Hadith, but a different wording. He reports that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Soon there will be people from my Ummah who will consume alcohol, they will change its name (by regarding it permissible. m), on there heads will be instruments of music and singing. Allah will make the ground swallow them up, and turn them into monkeys and swine” (Sahih Ibn Hibban & Sunan Ibn Majah, with a sound chain of narration).

In the above two narrations, the word ma`azif is used. The scholars of the Arabic language are unanimous on the fact that it refers to musical instruments (Ibn Manzur, Lisan al-Arab, V.9, P.189).

The prohibition of musical instruments is clear in the two narrations. The first Hadith (recorded in Sahih al-Bukhari) mentions that certain people from the Ummah of the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give peace) will try to justify the permissibility of using musical instruments, along with adultery, silk and alcohol, despite these things being unlawful (haram) in Shariah.

Moreover, by mentioning music with the likes of adultery and alcohol just shows how severe the sin is. The one who attempts to permit music is similar to the one who permits alcohol or adultery.

The second Hadith describes the fate of such people in that the ground will be ordered to swallow them and they will be turned into monkeys and swine (may Allah save us all). The warning is specific to those that will hold music, alcohol, silk and adultery to be permissible. It is something that should be of concern for those who try and justify any of these things.

Also, to say that music will only be unlawful if it is in combination with alcohol, adultery and silk is incorrect. If this was the case, then why is it that the exception is only for music from the four things? The same could also be said for adultery, alcohol and silk. One may then even justify that alcohol and adultery is also permissible unless if they are consumed in combination with the other things!

Thus the above two narrations of the beloved of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) are clear proof on the impermissibility of music and songs.

3) Imran ibn Husain (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “This Ummah will experience the swallowing up of some people by the earth, metamorphosis of some into animals, and being rained upon with stones”. A man from amongst the Muslims asked: “O Messenger of Allah! When will this be?” He said: “When female singers and musical instruments appear and alcohol will (commonly) be consumed” (Recorded by Imam Tirmizi, Imam Ibn Majah in their respective Sunan collections, and the wording here is of Sunan Tirmizi).

4) Sayyiduna Ali ibn Talib (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the blessed Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “When my Ummah begin doing fifteen things, they will be inflicted with tribulations, and (from those 15 things He said): “When female singers and musical instruments become common” (Sunan Tirmizi).

5) Na’fi reports that once Abd Allah ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with them both) heard the sound of a Sheppard’s flute. He put his fingers in his ears, turned his mule away from the road and said: “O Nafi’! Can you hear? I (Nafi’) replied with the affirmative. He carried on walking (with his fingers in his ears) until I said: “the sound has ceased” He removed his fingers from his ears, came back on to the road and said: “I saw the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) doing the same when he heard the flute of the Sheppard” (Recorded by Imam Ahmad in his Musnad and Abu Dawud & Ibn Majah in their Sunans).

6) Abd Allah Ibn Umar (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Verily Allah has forbidden alcohol, gambling, drum and guitar, and every intoxicant is haram” (Musnad Ahmad & Sunan Abu Dawud).

7) Abu Umama (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give peace) said: “Allah Mighty and Majestic sent me as a guidance and mercy to believers and commanded me to do away with musical instruments, flutes, strings, crucifixes, and the affairs of the pre-Islamic period of ignorance” (Musnad Ahmad & Abu Dawud Tayalisi).

8) Abd Allah ibn Mas’ud (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Song makes hypocrisy grow in the heart as water does herbage” (Sunan al-Bayhaqi).

9) Anas (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give peace) said: “On the day of Resurrection, Allah will pour molten lead into the ears of whoever sits listening to a songstress” (Recorded by Ibn Asakir & Ibn al-Misri).

10)Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Bell is the flute of Shaytan” (Sahih Muslim & Sunan Abu Dawud).

There are many more narrations of the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give peace) in prohibition of musical instruments and unlawful singing. I have merely mentioned a few as an example.

The imam of the Shafi`i school, Imam Ibn Hajr al-Haytami gathered all these Ahadith which approximately total to forty in his excellent work ‘ Kaff al-Ra’a an Muharramat al-Lahw wa al-Sama’ , and then said: “All of this is explicit and compelling textual evidence that musical instruments of all types are unlawful” (2/270).

Statements of the Fuqaha

The great Hanafi jurist al-Kasani states:

“If a singer gathers people around him only to entertain them with his voice, then he will not be considered a upright person (a’dil), even though if he does not consume alcohol, as he will be considered the leader of sinners. If however, he only sings to himself in order to eradicate loneliness, then there is nothing wrong in doing so.

As far as the one who uses musical instruments is concerned, if the instruments themselves are not unlawful, such as the bamboo and tambourine, then there is nothing wrong with that and he will still be considered upright. However, if the instrument is unlawful, such as the lute and the like, then he will not be considered a upright person (to be a witness in the court. m), as these instruments can never be considered lawful” (Bada’i al-Sana’i, 6/269).

It is stated in Khulasat al-Fatawa:

“Listening to the sound of musical instruments is unlawful (haram), as the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) said: “Listening to songs is a sin” (4/345).

Ibn Humam, the great Hanafi Mujtahid makes a decisive statement in his famous Fath al-Qadir:

“Unlawful (haram) singing is when the theme of the song consists of unlawful things, such as the description of a particular living person’s beauty and features, the virtues of wine that provoke wine-drinking, the details and particulars of family affairs or those songs that mock and ridicule others.

However, songs that are free from such unlawful things and they consist of descriptions of the natural things, such as flowers and streams, etc… will be permissible. Yes, if they are accompanied by musical instruments, then it will be unlawful even if the song is full of advice and wisdom, not because of what the songs consist of, rather due to the musical instruments that are played with it.

And it is stated in the al-Mugni of Ibn Qudamah (Hanbali Madhhab) that musical instruments are of two types:

1) Unlawful, Such as those that are specially designed for entertainment and singing, like the flute and mandolin, etc…

2) Lawful, like the playing of the tambourine (daff) at weddings and other happy occasions” (Ibn Humam, Fath al-Qadir, 6/36).

The same has more or less been mentioned in the other Hanafi works also, such as al-Ikhtiyar, al-Bahr al-Ra’iq, al-Fatawa al-Hindiyya and others.

Imam an-Nawawi, the great Hadith and Shafi’i scholar states:

“It is unlawful to use or listen to musical instruments, such as, those which the drinkers are known for, like the mandolin, lute, cymbals, and flute. It is permissible to play the tambourine (daf) at weddings, circumcisions and other times, even if it has bells on its sides. Beating the Kuba, a long drum with a narrow middle, is also unlawful” (Mugni al-muhtaj, 4/429, & Reliance of the traveller, 775).

There are many other statements of the Fuqaha and scholars such al-Qurtubi, and each of the four Madhhabs, but due to the length of the article, I will suffice with the above.

As for those who hold music to be lawful usually present the Hadith of Sahih al-Bukhari in which two girls were singing in the presence of the Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace) and Sayyida A’isha (Allah be pleased with her).

However, the permissibility of music can not be justified with this Hadith. The Hadith expert, Ibn Hajr al-Asqalani has refuted this claim in length in his Fath al-Bari, 2/345).

Firstly, theses young girls were singing without any unlawful musical instruments and secondly, the content of the song was regarding war, thus perfectly lawful. Also, they were not professional singers as the words of the Hadith clearly indicate.

Some try to justify music with the Hadith in which the permissibility of playing the tambourine (daf) is mentioned.

However, as stated in the works of the Fuqaha, to play the tambourine is permissible at weddings, as it is not designed for sole entertainment and pleasure, rather for announcement, etc…

Conclusion

In the light of the above evidences from the Qur’an, sayings of our beloved Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give peace) and texts of the various Fuqaha, the following is the decisive ruling with regards to music:

Musical instruments that are solely designed for entertainment are unlawful, with or without singing. However, to play the tambourine (daf) at weddings (and other occasions according to some fuqaha) will be permissible.

As far as the songs are concerned, if they consist of anything that is unlawful or they prevent one from the obligatory duties, then they will be unlawful. However, if they are free from the abovementioned things (and they are not accompanied by instruments), then it will be permissible to sing them.

And Allah knows best

Mufti Muhammad ibn Adam
Darul Iftaa
Leicester , UK

Source:http://www.central-mosque.com/fiqh/music1.htm

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http://www.central-mosque.com/fiqh/musharijma.htm


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bewildred
01-16-2010, 05:18 PM
Whenever one posts after bro Hamza, he feels ignorant!!! You always say it all!!! Bravo. However, I just wanted to add my personal touch :p

There was not a more addicted person to music than I was. My ipod never left my ears. I had tons of CDs. But when I learnt in here that it was sinful, it became naturally insignificant to me. I said to my mom that I was fed up with all that but she said it was eeman. I felt really good at hearing that,lol.
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zakirs
01-16-2010, 05:18 PM
about a semester 3-4 months
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IbnAbdulHakim
01-16-2010, 05:29 PM
abdullah ibn masud said the love for music and the love for Quran can never unite in one heart.


so my advice is struggle to Love Quran, and music will automatically disappear from your heart :)
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Hamza Asadullah
01-16-2010, 05:45 PM
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

What is meant is that forbidden songs are the “recitation” of the Shaytaan, because when the enemy of Allaah wanted to bring together these wrongdoers, he resorted to making music and musical instruments attractive to them, and if it comes from a beautiful woman or a handsome boy, that is more likely to make his “recitation” attractive to them, and to replace the joy of the Glorious Qur’aan with the joy of listening to music.

Ighaathat al-Lahfaan (1/254)
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Life_Is_Short
01-16-2010, 05:57 PM
:sl:

You can try listening to nasheeds instead and read Quran as much as you can. Prayer also keeps you from doing bad things.

You know what you can do and this really works. Take a calender and cross of the day(s) (you didn't listen to music) one by one with big (red) croses. Then you'll build up a chain of days and everytime you look at that chain you would feel proud and would refrain from breaking it. Write the Hadeeth about listening to music on top of the calender.

This also works for smoking, (not that i smoke) but yeah it's very effective.

Alternately, you can through away your deck, computer, ipod etc and you wouldn't have anything left to listen to music on.
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Cabdullahi
01-16-2010, 06:10 PM
Never listen to the pied piper chimes because you'll get swayed to do things you've never done before
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'Abd Al-Maajid
01-16-2010, 07:30 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Wa7abiScientist
walaikum assalam,
what kind of music you listen to? Bollywood? Bro, I have been addicted to music but it was not bollywood, it was some next doom metal stuff .... it is very hard to get rid of music addiction but its possible. Start slowly. if you listen to music for 5 hours, try reducing it to 4 hours.... Continue doing so and inshAllah hopefully one day you will start hating music ...


I know why music is haram ... its a leisure activity. It diverted my brain into iconoclastic thinking, nihilism, depression, pessimism and rebellion .... i know why it can leech to one's soul ....

may Allah help you on the quest.
:sl:
Thank you for your reply bro,
Ewww who listens to Bollywood +o(!! I listen to some Alternative or Rock. I mainly listen to Green Day and Linkin Park....and some good sountracks of Alternative genre.
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'Abd Al-Maajid
01-16-2010, 07:50 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by zakirs
about a semester 3-4 months
:sl:
You from Hyderabad? You know Peace Propagation Center (PPC) if you are form hyd?
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M..x
01-16-2010, 10:27 PM
From an ex-musik addikt =P perspectivee.. I thinks you should find alternatives.. Well thats what I tried & Alhamdilullah it wurked. Like tha musik industry just sends out all these false messages and subconciously it really has a massiv impact on tha way you think. Once you stop listening to it, you kinda realise, you're not even missing out on much. They just fill your ears up wif a whole load of crap abouh their lives, like who cares? Personally, I kinda liked Linken Park myself, some of their tracks anyway. Buh there's better stuff to listen to apart from them. Try devoting your time to listening to nasheeds or Quran? You have to take baby steps though... Try replacing Linken Park wif some of No Beets Neccasary tracks and some of Zain Bikhas & Dawud Wharsnbys oldskool tracks.. Their melidous, majorly w/o instruments and moreover MEANINGFUL. I also liked Outlandish's + Sami Yusuf I've seen and Any given time. Although that contains musik, so I guess you gotta try to refrain from it. And Quran is like AMAZING. Some of these recitors have tha most awesome voices and they read tha Wurds of Allah, whats most beuatiful than that... E.g include Tawfeeq as-Sayegh/Nasir Qitami/Shuraim/Sudais/Bdeir/Saad al-Ghamdi... Beautiful in their own tone... Buh I meean, you cant quit at once.. First listen to nasheeds if thas easier and progress to Quran...? Good luck nonthaless. Peace
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Ğħαrєєвαħ
01-17-2010, 12:10 AM
Aslaamu alaaykum..
Well i can understand your situation bro..ive been in the same boots lol ..its really hard.
Alhamdulilah i dont listen to music..but i do tend to watch tv sometimes and it has some music on there.so yeah
You should make your self realise how important not listening to music is for an Individual, and think about Why Allaah forbids it for you, and that he doesnt forbid things but only for the best of oneself. In other words it can be called "Jihad" to do it for the sake of Allaah and noone else, for he is the one who created you, should he not be thankful for each and every blessing he bestowed on you?
Think about it in a way that your doing it for the pleasure of Allaah,to stay away from it, for it surely does take you away from concentration in your deen..like you may not want to Gain for Knowledge from Islaam but instead you wanna just listen to some Rnb tunes etc. or another way you can put it is, you wont want to listen to Q`uraan but instead you just want to listen to music.

Listen to the Quraan and how pure the words are,keep doing it till your heart lusts for Quraan and not music. Keep struggling for the sake of Allaah, that you want please Allaah and not displease him. Once you get use to the Quraan music will be the past , lost and gone forever like it never existed for you, untill you hate it. InshaAllaah
Forgive me if i have said anything bad :(, and i hope i helped Insha`Allaah
Wa alaaykum salaam.. :)
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Somaiyah
01-21-2010, 09:59 PM
Assalamu alaykum,

I stopped listening to music pretty recently. I had read a lot about why music is haram and the only times when I listen to music is if it appears on tv when I'm watching something else, out in city or in nasheed, but I'm trying to only listen to nasheed without music or the Quran.

First step is to find beautiful nasheeds. Listen to the nasheeds, even if they contain music, and step by step you can start listen more to the ones without music. And realize you can still find the beauty in the songs. After time you might even start listen to only the Quran inshaAllah.

I was addicted to music before too, I even always said when someone asked what my interests are "Islam and music". Which today for me sounds really stupid and contradictive. I loved RnB and I tried to excuse myself for listening by saying that the message in the songs are okej, even if sometimes they weren't really. But after time I just said now it has to be an end so I started step by step to listen more and more to nasheed and only to a certain song which is not nasheed when I really felt that I wanted to. Then about two weeks ago I deleted all music in my mp3 and on my computer except from the nasheeds with music in them, but I'm never listening to these anyway.

May Allah swt give you the strength to quit listening to music soon, ameen.
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Ali_uk
01-21-2010, 10:17 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Muslim World 12
Listen to the Quraan and how pure the words are,keep doing it till your heart lusts for Quraan and not music. Keep struggling for the sake of Allaah, that you want please Allaah and not displease him. Once you get use to the Quraan music will be the past , lost and gone forever like it never existed for you, untill you hate it. InshaAllaah
Forgive me if i have said anything bad :(, and i hope i helped Insha`Allaah
Wa alaaykum salaam.. :)
This is good advice brother
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'Abdul Rahmaan
01-22-2010, 01:40 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by abdulmajid
:sl:
I listen to music when I'm stressed and I feel relieved when I listen to music.
Please help your fellow Muslim brother.imsad
Thank you.
Get yourself addicted to listening Qur'an.
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Esther462
01-22-2010, 03:58 PM
I love music too but I lisonen to muslim music or the Quran. The Quran is best.
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Salahudeen
01-22-2010, 04:01 PM
A bit of Sudais, abu bakr shatry and mahir al muqaliy and Mishary al Afsy is all I need to keep away from music ;D sometimes we turn to music cos the lyrics describe exactly how we are feeling. :hmm:
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mish mash
01-22-2010, 08:40 PM
i luv music 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:O
is it not good or sumfin?
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Hayaa
01-23-2010, 07:58 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Abdullahii
Never listen to the pied piper chimes because you'll get swayed to do things you've never done before
Exactly. It brings this hadith to mind:
It is also reported that the Prophet sallAllahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said:

“Music grows hypocrisy in the heart just as water causes the crops to grow.” [Bayhaqi]
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