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huan
That's the whole problem I am having with Islam atm, I just see it as a set of laws which are hammered into children's head at a very young age and made to believe such things without proper questioning. I was born into a Muslim household and was a practicing Muslim (well not proper strict) until recently, now I just seem to have problems comprehending certain things. Even though I don't have a problem with people wearing the veil if they want to, but neither do I agree with the reasons why women are commanded to wear it in the first place.
I understand what you mean, there was lots of stuff in Islam I didn't agree with and couldn't see the wisdom in but then I thought to myself why am I making the criterion for accepting a command of god my own intellect and reasoning, who am I to use my own nut sized brain ;D and limited knowledge/skills to decide upon if something god lesgislates is good or bad.
Then I started thinking, reasoning differs from person to person, you may not be able to see the wisdom or reasoning in why god legsilates something but the person next to you might be able to see the wisdom in it.
that's why it's dangerous to judge the commands of God with your own logic/reasoning because god in all his wisdom knows what's best for us, where as me and you do not even know if we'll be alive tomorrow.
Then I started thinking, "do I know better than God?" obviously not, so if God legislates something who am I to say "well sorry God I don't agree with this you got it wrong here so I'm not gonna follow it"
what people agree upon differs from person to person that's why you can't use what we agree upon. If people only followed the bits of Islam they could see the wisdom in then every 1 would be doing their own thing, you'd have some people praying, some people not praying, you'd have some people eating pork and some people not eating pork.
all because they decided to follow what they agreed with and what suited their desires.
you have to remember your mentality and your thinking is a product of the society and time you were raised in so using your own reasoning/intellect when judging the commands of god is faulty because if you lived a 1000 years ago your reasoning would have been different according to that time and society.
whether we agree or not with the divine commands is irrelavant, we believe the Qur'an to be from God and in it he commands us to do certain actions sure sometimes we can't see the reasoning behind those actions or the wisdom behind them but that doesn't mean we disregard the whole religion.
we follow everything because by following the religion we make our creator pleased with us, he has legislated how he wants us to live our lifes you can either accept or refuse there's no compulsion in religion.
if you refuse and think you know better as did the shaytaan well we know what happened to him when he didn't agree with the reasoning behind god commanding him to bow to Adam.
shaytaan isn't shaytaan cos he was disobediant, we are all disobediant at some stage in our life, shaytaan was shaytaan because he thought he knew better than God, he thought his own logic/reasoning was the criterion for judging if something is correct or not and that is why he is called arrogant cos he believed his own reasoning and wisdom to be greater than Gods therefore he refused to bow.
make dua to Allah to guide you every night and ask him to help you understand his religion and feel peaceful and content with it.