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AnonymousGender
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I've been betrayed. The girl I loved the most in my lifetime betrayed me. She kept saying all the time that she loved me too but apparently I don't think that's true. She keeps hurting me. I've never felt this lonely in my life. I'm broken. I'm going through torture. I'm in extreme pain.imsad And I can't even do anything about it, I feel so helpless. I feel like I'll never be happy again. What should I do to get myself out of this grief. Please tell me. :cry::cry::cry:imsadimsadimsadimsad
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can you ship yourself to me by post so i can slap the daylights out of you?
seriously, how old are you? do you think that you even have a clue what love might even be?
lonely? well, get your arse over to the Masjid! pray as many of your Fard prayers there as you can. you will meet, In Sha'a Allah, many, many delightful brothers you can teach you your Din and when you are ready, perhaps introduce you to a sister.
pain, pain? you only think that it is pain. your embarrassment level is probably higher than your "pain" level. go slam your hand in the car door, i'm sure THAT will hurt!
I feel so helpless. I feel like I'll never be happy again
now you REALLY sound like a girl! SubhanAllah! go repent to Allah for being in a haram relationship. He WILL forgive you, be happy about THAT!
What should I do to get myself out of this grief
1) become a practicing Muslim
2) grow up
3) act like a man
you know, years and years from now you will look back and think:
a) Alhumdulillah that i never married that girl
and
b) wow, i was never that much of a p*ssy, was i?
seriously bro, i'm not saying that it is not possible for a woman to break your heart. i'm saying that if they do, then SO WHAT! because:
1) Allah decreed it
and
2) there is ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS someone better out there. you just won't go find them unless you first lose the 1st one.
so Allah Subhannahu wa Ta' Aala has done you an immense favor.
REJOICE!
and say Alhumdulillah!
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