Originally Posted by MMohammed
I'm not sure as I'm not a man, but from what I understand the higher your testosterone levels the stronger your desire to have relations with the opposite gender.
the things that fuel those desires is food also, fasting is a great way to learn restraint.
of course in the west it is becoming harder and harder for men to not become perveted cos the society promotes sexual promiscuities and lewdness from a young age.
for example little school girls wearing mini skirts and dressed like how an adult escort would address. or a lady who works the streets at night.
so it's quite evident that lewdness is increasing which makes it harder for the men no doubt but you have to get married as soon as possbile and I know that is easy to say and hard to do cos of financial reasons many people can't get married.
but jus be patient till you can get married, continue to fast every other day, find a way to channel the energy in a more positive way.
stay away from watching TV as you will definitely see something that catches your interest. remember allah is watching you.