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@ hamza: thank you for that reply. I realize how unappreciative I have become. The litany of questions will probably be never answered till judgment day ... the best we can do is submit :embarrass
:sl: whatever Allah has told us in the Qur'an and the Prophet (Pbuh) in the hadith then that is all we are meant to know. Everything else will be revealed to us on the day of judgement. There is no point thinking of things that are beyond our thinking. Allah created our minds with certain limits. We are only meant to see, hear, touch and feel what he has ordained us to see, hear, touch and feel. It is shaythan who is trying to confuse your mind by making you think of things that you will never get answers to. Therefore we should only concentrate on what really matters to us and that is making the best use of every second we have because ANY second our life could be over.
We are all so unnappreciative and we don't realise how much Allah has given us. If only we knew the favours he has given us we would fall to prostration 24 hours a day.
"Therefore remember Me, I will remember you, And be thankful to Me, and do not be ungrateful to Me."
[Qur'an 2:152]
"And He gives you all that you ask for. But if you count the favors of Allah, never will you be able to number them. Verily, man is given up to injustice and ingratitude."
[Qur'an 14:34]
But what we don't realise is that Allah will give more to the unnappreciative.
-Allah gives more benefits and blessings to those who are thankful
[14:7]
How easy is it to thank Allah? It is so light on the tongue yet SO heavy on the scales!
Therefore let us thank Allah abundantley for the favours he has given us for we will NEVER be able to even comprehend any of the favours that Allah has given us. So thank Allah day and night and know that he gives more to those who are thankful!
In regards to your parents treat them the best as we only have one set of parents in our lives and they are the means of such great reward for us if we treat them the best and if we treat them the worst then we will be the losers in this life and the next and our children will treat us the same way we treat our children. Therefore treat your parents how you would want your children to treat you.
Explain to your parents in a loving and gentle manner that Rasulallah (Pbuh) has told us to take medicine and get treatment and then make dua. We have to "tie the camel" and at the same time make prayer to Allah. Inform them the best way you can and be there for them and support them always. Look after them and do as much as you can for them and your children will also do the same for you inshallah.
This is the beginning of a new start for you. Thank Allah he has helped you through this ordeal and given you the right perspective to have in life. Go towwards Allah now and waste not a second more for time is too precious to waste and your enemy Satan has wasted enough of your time so let him not a waste a second more.
Please use the links i sent you and hope you benefit from them. Please make dua for us as well and if you have anything else you want to ask for then never hesitate to ask.
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