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anonymous
no biting my head off please and no debates or "apologetic" views please.
can a sister (who doesnt get married in this dunya) marry a shaheed in the hereafter? is that possible, or is it kinda "part of the deal" that do the shuhada only marry women of jannah.
and even if yes, can he only be married to her solely, or is it "part of the deal" that he marries 72 women?
generally speaking, what if the shaheed doesnt want to marry all those ladies, again is it "part of the deal" that he
i know these questions seem completely strange, but these have been floating through my mind.
some other strange questions :D
is it correct that a wife is to marry the husband she married in this world, in jannah also :? if yes, what if she doesnt want to :? like what if she didn't love him in this world, or he was bad to her? or what if she just genuinely doesn't want to marry anyone/or be around anyone in the hereafter. does it still apply :?
people of jannah, what do they look like? do we stay our orginal appreace or do we change. like do women turn into the women of jannah (not just simply becoming more attractive then her) and do men change to...well what do men change to :?
Asalaamu Alaikum Wr Wb, firstly sister we must concentrate on getting to Jannah in the first place because many of us think because we are Muslim that we will definatley go to Jannah or at least go to Jannah someday but this is incorrect as we may die with or without imaan(faith). Therefore we must make effort on our imaan and fulfill all of our obligations to Allah as much as we can and spend our life pleasing him and going as close to him as we can.
In this short life we have the opportunity to get into the highest ranks of Jannah rather than the low ranks but for this we need to make much effort and make the best use of every second we have been given in this world but of course we are not aware of when our time in this world will end and therefore we must do what we can to ensure we are making the optimum use of every second that we have been given in remembering Allah and pleasing him.
In regards to marriage in Jannah then every women will be married to a man from this world in Jannah. If the man she was married to in this life was pious and also made it to Jannah then he and his wife will remain married in Jannah but if he was not pious and did not make it to Jannah then the women may get married to a pious man from this life which Allah knows best who it will be.
Depending on the status of the man in Jannah that is how many Hoors(Maidens) he will be married to and it martyrs are normally given 72 Hoors although Allah knows best.
The pious women of this earth will be the Queens of Jannah and the most beautiful of all women in Jannah.
We will still be human looking but much more beautiful in appearance that we can ever imagine and Allah knows best exactely how beautiful.
In Jannah, the height of every believer will be equivalent to the height of Prophet Adam (Alaihissalaam)(Prophet Adam's height was approximately ninety feet).
Beauty will be like that of Prophet Yusuf (Alaihissalaam).
Age of youth will be like that of Prophet Isa (Alaihissalaam) (30-33 years of age).
Sweetness of voice will be like that of Prophet Dawud (Alaihissalaam).
Tolerance will be like that of Prophet Yaqub (Alaihissalaam).
Paitence will be like that of Prophet Ayoub (Alaihissalaam).
And last but not least, habits will be like that of our beloved Prophet Sayyaduna Muhammad (SAW).
Now let us concentrate on making it to Jannah in the first place, Try not to think of things that we cannot imagine because our brains and minds are limited and Allah has given us mere glimpses into the hereafter but not detailed insights. Let us do the best we can in this world and then we can benefited from the fruits of our efforts in Jannah FOREVER!
Here are some very beneficial articles for you to help you on your journey to Jannah and to make best use of every second of your life in this world:
10 Steps to Increasing our Iman(Faith)
http://www.islamicboard.com/showthre...our-Iman(Faith)
30 ways the youth should spend everyday of their lives!
http://www.islamicboard.com/showthre...of-their-lives!
Easy Dhikr which is light on the tongue but heavy on the scales!
http://www.islamicboard.com/showthre...-on-the-scales!
My Daily Ibadah (worship) check!
http://www.islamicboard.com/showthre...worship)-check!
10 steps to getting closer to Allah
http://www.islamicboard.com/showthre...loser-to-Allah
Forty Very Easy, Quick & Rewarding Good Deeds for all of us to do Everyday!
http://www.islamicboard.com/showthre...to-do-Everyday!
Not praying Salaah 5 times a day? Here's the solution!
http://www.islamicboard.com/showthre...s-the-solution!
VERY Rewarding Nafl Salaahs we can Pray Everyday!
http://www.islamicboard.com/showthre...-Pray-Everyday!
Please listen these very beneficial talks on death and the hereafter:
Angel of Death!!! - Sheikh Ahmed Ali
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUzRJXlB2uA
Imam Anwar al-Awlaki - Death (The Destroyer of Pleasures) [part 1/4]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ieX7ZQtHl0s
Imam Anwar al-Awlaki - Death (The Destroyer of Pleasures) [part 2/4]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KK_2sVGMW08
Imam Anwar al-Awlaki - Death (The Destroyer of Pleasures) [part 3/4]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bpmzA2hk1Bo
Imam Anwar al-Awlaki - Death (The Destroyer of Pleasures) [part 4/4]
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=km39GfL62TQ
Imam Anwar al-Awlaki - The Journey of the Soul
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wAwHEXE3-n0
HARD HITTING Lecture on HELLFIRE & the Day of JUDGEMENT! يوم القيامة والجحيم
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O6L_fBk7VM
Sheikh Ahmad Ali - Hellfire Talk Part 1/3
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DWTehIeCOUU
Sheikh Ahmad Ali - Hellfire Talk Part 2/3
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXTtk7rWx_U
Sheikh Ahmad Ali - Hellfire Talk Part 3/3
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmiD86w9fBc
Islam - Punishment of the Grave by Sheikh Riyadh ul Haq
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWb-hYIm2WE
Death and the Grave by Murtaza Khan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7r2nzJVecqo
How can we not appreciate what we have after watching this?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkEBUC0APMg