im sure we can all figure out the reason i have opened a thread specifically to reply to this one. http://www.islamicboard.com/general/...acking-me.html
hmm uktee, i dont know if this was a thread inspired by what on between us 2 in another thread, but lest it is, im going to explain myself. the reason why i got my wits out was because when all other methods of trying to get a certain point a cross to you went down hill, i resorted to what i usually do and that is try to implement another method.
I personally believe there are certain ways to get through to people and if a particular way i maybe implementing ISNT getting through to that person, i will change my "tactic" and implement another means i believe may get through to them better-in this case being more direct and not implementing kindness im all honesty i tried being nice, i tired to get my point across by being nice, but then it was basically implied that it was pointless, so i changed.
i don't do this in attempt to get peoples ideas and view to conform to mine but rather inshallah it is an effort of trying to correct people none-the-less.
usually i believe correcting people/giving dawah is meant to be done with kindness and if that isnt working, then perhaps its time to try something else.