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Ummu Sufyaan
09-09-2010, 04:56 AM
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I want to discuss ideas on how to remain steadfast after Ramadan. We had a thread like this during Ramadan and how to make the most out of it, but what about after Ramadan? i think there was a fatwa somewhere, but i want your personal opinions.

What should one do to remain steadfast?

My thoughts: I think it has something to do with patience. If you think about it, during Ramadan your whole mindset was that you only have 30 days...30 days of praying x amount of taraweeh (taraweeh is prayed at a time when our bodies are slowly shutting down and readying to sleep, so we are sort of tired)...and 30 days of reading Quran (most people were probably aiming for a Juzzu per day?)...so all these types of Ibaadah we tried to accomplish, needed some strong effort and determination, especially in the last ten days.

all that Ibaadah was done with patience and now we are out of Ramadan we have no "security barrier" (i.e the mentality that we only have 30 days). but we have to continue, right? despite the fact that we have nothing to motivate us and this is where the importance of patience comes in...we just have to strive with patience.

that's quite a benefit of Ramadan to make you realize what your priority should be when you worship: like the limited days of Ramadan you also only have a limited time on this earth and you don't know when your time is up so you mustn't rely on/trust/be confident by limiting your ibadah/striving only at certain times and places.

Think about it to yourself for a minuet, could you really have done of that salaah/qiyan and siyam without patience. could this be the key to being steadfast after Ramadan.


that's just my 2 cents, your ideas are needed as well.
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Ummu Sufyaan
09-16-2010, 10:08 AM
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'Abd-al Latif
09-16-2010, 10:36 AM
Remaining steadfast after Ramadaan

By Salih al Fawzan



Sufyaan Ibn 'Abdillaah said: "O Messenger of Allah, tell me something about Islam of which I will not ask anyone else besides you (after that)." He said: "Say: 'I believe in Allah' and then be steadfast (upon that)." 1


This hadeeth is proof that the servant is obligated, after having Eemaan in Allah, to persevere and be steadfast upon obeying Him by performing the obligatory acts and avoiding the prohibited ones. This is achieved by following the Straight Path, which is the firm Religion, without drifting away from it to the right or to the left.

If a Muslim lived through Ramadaan and spent its days in fasting and its nights in prayer, and in that month he accustomed himself to doing acts of good, then he must continue to remain upon this obedience to Allah at all times (after that). This is the true state of the servant (‘abd), for indeed, the Lord of the months is One and He is ever watchful and witnessing His servants at all times.

Indeed, steadfastness after Ramadaan and the rectification of one's statements and actions are the greatest signs that one has gained benefit from the month of Ramadaan and that he struggled in obedience. They are tokens of acceptance and signs of success.

Furthermore, the deeds of a servant do not come to an end with the end of a month and the beginning of another. Rather they continue and extend until one reaches death, for Allah says:

“And worship your Lord until the certainty (i.e. death) comes to you.” 2

If the fasting of Ramadaan comes to an end, then indeed the voluntary fasting is still prescribed throughout the entire year, and all praise is due to Allah. If standing in prayer at night during Ramadaan comes to an end, then indeed, the entire year is a time for performing the night prayer. And if the Zakaat-ul-Fitr comes to an end, then there is still the Zakaah that is obligatory as well as the voluntary charity that lasts the whole year. This goes the same for reciting the Qur'an and pondering over its meaning as well as every other righteous deed that is desirable, for they can be done at all times. From the many bounties that Allah has bestowed upon His servants is that He has placed for them many different types of acts of worship and He provided many means for doing good deeds. Therefore, the enthusiasm and the zeal of the Muslim must be constant and he must continue to remain in the service of his Master.

It is unfortunate to find some people performing worship by doing different types of righteous acts during Ramadaan – they guard strictly their five daily prayers in the masjid, they recite the Qur'an abundantly and they give in charity from their money. But when Ramadaan comes to an end, they grow lazy in their worship. Rather, sometimes they even abandon the obligations, both generally, such as praying in congregation, and specifically, such as praying the Fajr prayer!

And they (even) commit forbidden acts such as sleeping over the time of prayers, indulging in places of foolishness and entertainment, and mingling in parks, especially on the day of 'Eed! Staying away from these evils is only through the Grace of Allah. Thus, they demolish what they have constructed and they destroy what they have established. This is an indication of deprivation and a sign of perdition. We ask Allah for His safeguarding and protection!

Indeed, these types of people take the example of turning in repentance and ceasing from committing evil deeds as something specific and restricted to (only) the month of Ramadaan. So they stop doing these (good) acts when the month stops. Thus, it is as if they have abandoned sinning for the sake of Ramadaan, and not out of fear for Allah! How evil are these people who do not know Allah except in Ramadaan!

Truly, the success that Allah grants His servant lies in the fasting of Ramadaan. And Allah’s assisting him to do that is a great blessing. Thus this calls for the servant to be grateful to his Lord. And this understanding can be found in Allah’s saying, after having completed the favor of the month of fasting:

“(He wants that you) must compete the same number of days, and that you must magnify Allah (by saying Allahu Akbar) for having guided you, so that you may be grateful to Him." 3

So the one who is grateful for having fasted, he will remain upon that condition and continue to perform righteous deeds.

Indeed, the true manner of a Muslim is that of one who praises and thanks his Lord for having been bestowed the ability to fast and make qiyaam (night prayer). His condition after Ramadaan is better than it was before Ramadaan. He is more ready to obey, desiring to do good deeds and quick to implement the obligatory acts. This is since he has acquired benefit from this prominent institute of learning. It is that of one who fears for having his fast not accepted, for indeed Allah only accepts from those who have Taqwaa.

The righteous predecessors would struggle to complete and perfect their deeds, hoping afterwards, that it would be accepted and fearing that it would be rejected. From the reports of 'Alee is that he said: "Be more concerned with having your deeds accepted than with the deed itself. Did you not hear Allah say:

'Verily Allah, only accepts from those who have Taqwaa?' 4" 5

'Aa'ishah said: "I asked the Messenger of Allah concerning the ayah: 'And those who give away that which they give (i.e. charity and other good deeds), while their hearts tremble with fear.' Are they the ones who drink alcohol and steal?" He said: "No, O daughter of As-Siddeeq. But rather, they are the ones who fast and pray and give in charity, yet fear that it won't be accepted from them. They are the ones who rush to do good deeds and they are the first to do them." 6

So be warned and again be warned – of turning backward after having attained guidance, of going astray after persevering! And ask Allah to provide you with endurance in doing righteous deeds and continuity in performing good acts. And ask Allah that He grant you a good end, in order that He may accept our Ramadaan from us.

References:

1. Saheeh Muslim (no. 38)

2. The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 15, Verse 99

3. The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 2, Verse 185

4. The Holy Qur'an, Chapter 5, Verse 27

5. Lataa'if-ul-Ma'aarif (pg. 246)

6. Reported by At-Tirmidhee and authenticated by Al-Albaanee in his Saheeh checking of it: (3/79-80)
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Misz_Muslimah
09-16-2010, 02:46 PM
^ Jazaakalahu khayr for sharing this beneficial article..
May Allah reward you..ameen
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Masriya
09-17-2010, 06:07 PM
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The general atmosphere of Ramadan has a Barakah .. you can perform many things in a short time unlike the rest of the year.. you have greater potential for doing things and greater energy.. after Ramadan it changes and all these feelings are not so strong as during it.

I think we should try keeping up our Ramadan routine, if not everyday, then as much as we can. We can fast (sunnah e.g six days of Shawal, every Mon and Thurs, etc), have a daily amount of Quran to read, try and pray at night even if two rakaat. Also try and keep to the manners of fasting, i.e. if someone wanted to argue with and insulted you don't argue back, (the hadith said to tell them "I'm fasting, I'm fasting") I think we can still do that even if we're not fasting.

Putting a plan is easy, but sticking to it is difficult, but we don't have to plan to do many things or we'll get bored easily; there's a saying I'm not sure where I heard it but it says: "A constant little is better than a great amount that's not constant"
So for example it's better if you pray two extra rakaat (qiyam) every night than praying many rakaat for one night then feeling tired and not praying sunnah for many other nights.

Different types of ibadah (worship) also come together so when someone's going to fast they get up before fajr for suhoor this gives them a chance to pray qiyam before fajr and read quran.

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