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anonymous
I just need to know something; if Allah wills it will we marry!?or should I just give up hope now ?
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If Allah wills it, there is nothing anyone can do to change it. Problem is how do we know if it is Allah's will. First and foremost, whatever Allah intends to be the best for us cannot be in conflict with the teachings of Islam. That's the basic guideline.
I suggest that the first thing to do is to get back on the true path of Islam. Pronto! Go down on your knees and cry out to Allah - I mean really cry complete with falling tears - to forgive you for all your sins. Then beg Allah to give you the strength to stay strong and steady on the true path of Islam.
After you have straightened out your relationship with Allah, then you can work on straightening out your relationship with other human beings. I beg Allah to inspire some sisters who are near to where you are irl to help you in this time of need. Myself, from this far away, I can only dua for you.
Whatever you do, do not ever ever consider running away from Islam. Islam is the only solution. Anything else are just nebulous shadows of the truth. WaLLahu aklam.