As'Salaam Alaaykum sis
It seems someone either needs an 'emaan booster, or to have the fear of Allaah instilled into him..
The fact that there is a hadeeth regarding one who isnt considered muslim when he/she lies, but it seems he's lied in the name of Allaah, he needs to be made aware of this as its not some minor issue.
Before marriage, im assuming he wasnt 'practising' right? due to what you've mentioned, watching unsuitable stuff and not seen him pray once.
Whenever the tv is off, try to play Qur'aan in the house or put a good lecture on i.e. importance of salaah, right's of the wife according to islam, etc , so that he may listen to when he passes by, continue to do this untill he notices insha'Allaah.. at the same time turn to Allaah to grant him hidayah and trust in him also.
Also, have you tried asking/encouraged him to get a job, what was his reaction?
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Hani789
is there a point to this marriage?
It is about whether this may affect the life of your children which should be taken into consideration.
I hope that the brothers and sisters can post up better advice insha'Allaah
Also agree with sis Yanoorah, try to also get an imaam involved.