Originally Posted by Salahudeen
Lol. That would be too mean for me to do. But if I was a guy, I would :P It does seem like the only way I can get my point across though, because its happened more than once and I have told her to ask her siblings to pick her up sometimes.
Originally Posted by Alpha Dude
Yeh I get what you are saying but I know she has a lot more than me, all 3 of her older siblings work, and she worked most of her independant life.
With the second point, I dont, its her that usually brings her family up. I'll give you 2 examples:
A few times we have been shopping together. Sometimes she likes something yeh, and takes a long time deciding whether she wants to actually get it. Then tried it on and if it fits, she decides to buy it right? But then she says 'oh I think im going to call my sister and ask her if I should get it'. Then she calls her sister to ask whether she should buy it. Once she realllly loved this piece of clothing in a shop, and she tried it on and everything, it was perfect and I told her to get it. Then she called her sister and her sister told her not to, even though she hadnt seen it!
Another example is sometimes when I try and arrange to meet her, she'd be like 'oh my sister wants me to do this/that whatever', and sometimes 'oh I cant cos of my family'. Which is a bit annoying especially since she sees her sisters all the time.
It sounds like they control her because shes the youngest. They are also a few years older than her so they dont give her the independance that she needs, shes in her early twenties too.
Originally Posted by King of Nines
It is best to avoid company that will have a bad influence on you. It can be hard though, especially if its people you've spent most youre life with.