/* */

PDA

View Full Version : Problems with western schools and system



islamica
12-17-2011, 05:42 PM
Student and Parent Kissing Prank goes Viral
Minneapolis, MN-US


Blindfolded athletes were tricked into kissing their own parents at a pep rally prank, and now the Minnesota high school’s principal is saying sorry.

Responding to several complaints after a video of the ‘incest prank’ video went viral on YouTube, Rosemount High School Principal John Wollersheim released a statement:

“This activity was intended to be fun, but some found it offensive,” he wrote. “We apologize to anyone who was offended by this activity.

During the pep rally, several captains of the school’s sport teams were lined up against a wall in the gymnasium, wearing blindfolds.

They were told they would be kissed by a “special someone,” ABC News reported, not knowing that person would be their parent.

The video shows one woman, presumed to be the mother of the blindfolded boy with whom she’s locking lips, grabbing her son’s hand and placing it in the back pocket of her jeans.

Another student, after an unknowing makeout session with his mother, was asked if he knew who his kissing partner was. All he knew, he said, is that she had “luscious lips.”

While flooded without outside complaints, Wollersheim told the Associated Press that he had received no objections from the school’s athletes or parents.

In fact, he’s gotten some positive feedback, he said.

“I think people need to have more of a sense of humor! Kudos to you for all that you do – as I do not feel as a parent there was anything offensive about the video,” wrote one person in an email, which Wollersheim shared with the news service.

Still, Wollersheim understands the gravity of the concern sparked by the video.

“As principal, I’m responsible for everything that happens in this school,” he said. “This event offended people, and pep fests should have nothing that offends people.”

The principal also pointed out that the viral videos only show a tiny part of what was a thirty-minute event.

“If I was just watching that clip, I wouldn’t like what I was seeing either,” he said.

http://rivals.yahoo.com/highschool/b...school-wp10052
Reply

Login/Register to hide ads. Scroll down for more posts
Beardo
12-17-2011, 07:35 PM
That's not a mature prank at all.
Reply

GuestFellow
12-17-2011, 07:42 PM
Ah eww...
Reply

syed1
12-17-2011, 07:51 PM
that is the most disgusting and vile thing I have ever seen. this west is a F***** place to be. How can a school school condone these kinds of acts, yet alone promote it? How can the parents of these kids willingly agree to participate in such a thing, its outright horrendous and disturbing.. WTF, I am honestly disturbed. Especially at the sight of seeing the parent and the child on the floor of the gym getting at it ... truly scarring, please refrain from posting such stories ever again
Reply

Welcome, Guest!
Hey there! Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.

When you create an account, you can participate in the discussions and share your thoughts. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and make new friends.
Sign Up
islamica
12-17-2011, 08:02 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by syed1
truly scarring, please refrain from posting such stories ever again
Why? Muslims need to see the type of western education they love to give their kids by putting them in these school systems.
Reply

Salahudeen
12-17-2011, 08:03 PM
This is exactly what happens when people make their desires the basis for what's wrong and right. All sense of right and wrong eventually becomes corrupted.
Reply

GuestFellow
12-17-2011, 08:15 PM
Salaam,

format_quote Originally Posted by syed1
that is the most disgusting and vile thing I have ever seen. this west is a F***** place to be. How can a school school condone these kinds of acts, yet alone promote it? How can the parents of these kids willingly agree to participate in such a thing, its outright horrendous and disturbing.. WTF, I am honestly disturbed. Especially at the sight of seeing the parent and the child on the floor of the gym getting at it ... truly scarring, please refrain from posting such stories ever again
First, there is no need to swear. Second, this prank does not represent the entire western world. Third, disturbing acts occur throughout the world.

format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
Why? Muslims need to see the type of western education they love to give their kids by putting them in these school systems.
Your generalising. This type of behaviour does not occur in every western school.

We need to avoid generalising.
Reply

islamica
12-17-2011, 08:59 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Tragic Typos
Salaam,


Your generalising. This type of behaviour does not occur in every western school.

We need to avoid generalising.
immoral behavior occurs in every school, doesn't have to be exact same thing. do you want me to start posting each individual incidents for you to get the picture?
Reply

GuestFellow
12-18-2011, 12:23 AM
c
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
immoral behavior occurs in every school, doesn't have to be exact same thing.
Salaam,

Every school? I assume your saying that it does not matter what school a Muslim goes to, since immoral behaviour occurs in all schools...right? : O

do you want me to start posting each individual incidents for you to get the picture?
Go ahead.
Reply

Muezzin
12-18-2011, 01:06 AM
Yeah, I went to a school that wasn't run by weirdos like this one, and so disgusting things like this didn't tend to happen. That stuff is just wrong.
Reply

Abz2000
12-18-2011, 01:22 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Muezzin
Yeah, I went to a school that wasn't run by weirdos like this one, and so disgusting things like this didn't tend to happen. That stuff is just wrong.
^ that was a while back and lady gaga didn't exist
Reply

islamica
12-18-2011, 02:04 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Tragic Typos
c

Salaam,

Every school? I assume your saying that it does not matter what school a Muslim goes to, since immoral behaviour occurs in all schools...right? : O

Go ahead.
wa'salaams

you must be the product of these western schools that is why you don't see any thing wrong in them. On example should be enough to know what kind of stuff goes and can go on in there, is that the influence and atmosphere Muslims want to put their kids in?
Reply

Ramadhan
12-18-2011, 02:55 AM
This is disgusting.

But what do I know?

50 years ago the west found homosexuality disgusting, but now they are promoting it everywhere in the world.

Maybe 50 years from now the west will implement incestuous marriage/sex rights.
Reply

Salahudeen
12-18-2011, 03:38 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Ramadhan
This is disgusting.

But what do I know?

50 years ago the west found homosexuality disgusting, but now they are promoting it everywhere in the world.

Maybe 50 years from now the west will implement incestuous marriage/sex rights.
Anything is possible in a society where people have no criterion for good and bad, only what their desires dictate to them. Look at the society of prophet Lut (saw), I think that's the one where they were all gay, and the whole society thought it was good and nothing wrong with it. That's what happens eventually when people have no guidance except for the guidance of shaytaan, degradation of society.
Reply

syed1
12-18-2011, 04:18 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
you must be the product of these western schools that is why you don't see any thing wrong in them. On example should be enough to know what kind of stuff goes and can go on in there, is that the influence and atmosphere Muslims want to put their kids in?
lets not forget that these actions were not appreciated by everyone there who was present. the whole article is actually about how some of the attendance there were "felt offended by the sketch" and that the principal had stated he would not do anything of this sort again.

so I am not here to take sides but just want to point out that although you might find a few bad apples in the western society you should not generalize and attribute such acts to the rest of the population.
Reply

IslamicRevival
12-18-2011, 04:46 AM
Sicko's
Reply

islamica
12-18-2011, 05:07 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by syed1
lets not forget that these actions were not appreciated by everyone there who was present. the whole article is actually about how some of the attendance there were "felt offended by the sketch" and that the principal had stated he would not do anything of this sort again.

so I am not here to take sides but just want to point out that although you might find a few bad apples in the western society you should not generalize and attribute such acts to the rest of the population.
Despite some being offended, the fact remains that such a thing has happened and if you read carefully, this isn't the first time either they done it. You are missing the point, that being such immoral things take place in western public schools and it is an unisalmic environment Muslims put their kids in. If you can't understand that point then i guess we are done here.
Reply

GuestFellow
12-18-2011, 03:37 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
wa'salaams

you must be the product of these western schools that is why you don't see any thing wrong in them.
:sl:

Yes, I was educated in Britain. That does not mean I am incapable of not identifying immoral acts. In all schools, there are some that students misbehave and are rude. So I'm certain we all can agree that immoral behaviour occurs in all schools, not just in schools in the west.

Now please address my post.

format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
Muslims need to see the type of western education they love to give their kids by putting them in these school systems.
Here you were implying that one particular behaviour in that video can be generalised throughout all western schools. You were generalising.

This was your next response:

mmoral behavior occurs in every school, doesn't have to be exact same thing
So I will say it again. According to your statement above, you are implying that it does not matter what school an individual goes to, since immoral behaviour occurs in every school and it does not have to be the exact same thing. Right?

On example should be enough to know what kind of stuff goes and can go on in there, is that the influence and atmosphere Muslims want to put their kids in?
You just need one example (in this case a video) to enable you to make an informed decision? So I guess this video below is all you need to have a thorough understanding of Islamic schools in the UK?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5OW3TxxN2fk

do you want me to start posting each individual incidents for you to get the picture?]
Post away. I'm still waiting.
Reply

GuestFellow
12-18-2011, 03:40 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
Despite some being offended, the fact remains that such a thing has happened and if you read carefully, this isn't the first time either they done it. You are missing the point, that being such immoral things take place in western public schools and it is an unisalmic environment Muslims put their kids in. If you can't understand that point then i guess we are done here.
Salaam,

The problem is you cannot prove this sort of prank occurs in all western public schools. You have no evidence to support this. If you have, I suggest you post it, so we can end this discussion.
Reply

GuestFellow
12-18-2011, 03:43 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by syed1
lets not forget that these actions were not appreciated by everyone there who was present. the whole article is actually about how some of the attendance there were "felt offended by the sketch" and that the principal had stated he would not do anything of this sort again.

so I am not here to take sides but just want to point out that although you might find a few bad apples in the western society you should not generalize and attribute such acts to the rest of the population.
Salaam,

Very well put! :)
Reply

Dagless
12-18-2011, 04:12 PM
It might be sick but it's definitely an exception to rule. I don't imagine this to reflect life in Western schools!
Reply

syed1
12-18-2011, 05:42 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
missing the point, that being such immoral things take place in western public schools and it is an unisalmic environment Muslims put their kids in. If you can't understand that point then i guess we are done here.
No, I get your point that yes it is not the best "environment" for your kids to grow up but you have to weight the benefits over the costs. Look, if you are a muslim parent then you ultimately have the duty to instil values/morals to your children so that irrespective of the place they are put in they always act according to what they were taught growing up and hence, should be able to differentiate right from wrong. So if muslims parents can instil the right values they should have no worry about the type of school they might be placing their children, after all they are doing so so that they might get a decent education have have opportunities in the future.
Reply

Arsalen
12-18-2011, 05:44 PM
Very disturbing. But not surprising , given that these kuffar often don't know their limits. Shameless people.
Reply

islamica
12-18-2011, 06:17 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Tragic Typos
:sl:



Post away. I'm still waiting.
would the mods please change the thread title to "problems with western schools"
Reply

islamica
12-18-2011, 06:20 PM
Teacher charged with sex crimes against pupils
20 Nov 09

A male high school teacher in Skövde, western Sweden, has been arrested and charged with a string of sexual offences including child rape.

The 41-year-old was led by police out of Helena school on Tuesday and was remanded in custody on Friday by Skaraborg district court.

He has been suspended from the school without pay and a tribunal will begin next week which is expected to result in his dismissal.

While admitting that he has engaged in sexual activities with a student, he denies the other charges of which he is accused.

According to a TV4 report, the teacher began having sexual liaisons with a female pupil at the beginning of the year.

When the allegations recently came to light, it was suspected this was not the first time he had forged a sexual relationship with a student.

Last week, Anna Sundström, school chief for Skövde municipality took action and reported the teacher to the police.

“I fail to see any extenuating circumstances,” she told TV4. “Unfortunately, this seems to be a case that has repeated itself. It was only last week when the real seriousness of what has happened was revealed.”

The school is now working with teachers and students and three counsellors have been put in place to offer one-on-one discussions.

“This is a very unusual situation,” Bertil Lönn, headmaster of Helena school, told TV4. “Naturally we have to discuss the issue but we have not yet confirmed where we go from here.”

http://www.thelocal.se/23390/20091120/

This could've been a Muslim kid, but hey it's ok because it's just one incident. right?
wait...what about this? just another isolated incident?
Pre-teen girl reports rape at Swedish school

2 Oct 09

Three boys aged 12-13-years-old are suspected of having raped a 10-year-old girl at a school in Linköping in central Sweden.

The alleged assault occurred while the children were on their lunch break in an area of woodland near the school.

The school reported the incident to the council and to the police on Wednesday after the visibly shaken girl told teachers of her ordeal.

"I don't know if the boys have confessed. The police are investigating the matter now, but we consider this to be a very serious incident," Thomas Brandin at Linköping council said at press conference held on Tuesday, local newspaper Corren.se reports.

Linköping police have confirmed that the boys have not yet been interviewed and that they have classified the case as rape.

The school has however talked to the boys and confirms that they have admitted the offence, according to a report in the Dagens Nyheter newspaper.

As the boys are under the age of criminal responsibility there will not be a legal consequences as a result of the alleged rape.

http://www.thelocal.se/22430/20091002/

If it was Muslim kids in the above two, their lives have been ruined. But hey it's ok because they are just two incidents....
Reply

إحسان
12-18-2011, 06:22 PM
This is absolute vulgar. +o(
Reply

Huzzy_786
12-18-2011, 06:33 PM
Now thats crazy! Oh my god... I can not believe it -..-
Reply

Crystal
12-18-2011, 06:43 PM
I am so shocked at how most of you are talking as if this happens in every western school and that people in the west are all like this - Only about 2 people on the whole thread are able to open their eyes and not generalise - bad things happen everywhere stop acting like it is confined to the west!
I think most people in the west would speak out against these issues and if you think otherwise its clearly because you have no experience in western society - dont judge what you don't know!
Reply

islamica
12-18-2011, 06:49 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Crystal
I think most people in the west would speak out against these issues and if you think otherwise its clearly because you have no experience in western society - dont judge what you don't know!
Honey i grew up here. Keep reading the thread as I educate you and those two "reasonable" people on the what goes on in your western school systems and why even conservative christians are homeschooling more and more every year.
Reply

Crystal
12-18-2011, 06:54 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
Honey i grew up here. Keep reading the thread as I educate you and those two "reasonable" people on the what goes on in your western school systems and why even conservative christians are homeschooling more and more every year.
I am not honey.

And yes there are bad things that happen in schools but it doesn't happen in every school - its wrong of you to generalise. I never lived in America but I live in Ireland and stuff like this people would be outraged - the majority of schools here are single sex - I can't speak for America but don't generalise the whole west for being like this.
Reply

GuestFellow
12-18-2011, 07:26 PM
Salaam,

format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
Keep reading the thread as I educate you and those two "reasonable" people on the what goes on in your western school systems and why even conservative christians are homeschooling more and more every year.
Whilst your "educating" me, you do well to address my remaining posts.
Reply

islamica
12-18-2011, 07:27 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Tragic Typos
Salaam,



Whilst your "educating" me, you do well to address my remaining posts.
wasalaams,

keep reading the the posts and you'll have your answer.
Reply

GuestFellow
12-18-2011, 07:28 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
wasalaams,

keep reading the the posts and you'll have your answer.
:sl:

Okay. I'm waiting. :p:
Reply

Galaxy
12-18-2011, 09:01 PM
Sister you do go to school but not to all of schools around the world. This is a very sickening prank and most principal's would agree. Parents should put their kids in a Islamic environment in order to prevent fitnah but it's easy to prevent it at school by simply attending you classes and avoiding the wrong crowd.
Reply

islamica
12-20-2011, 08:45 PM
Bus Driver Child Porn Bust

06/04/09

Anniston, AL - The man responsible for transporting a bus full of children to and from school faces a very serious charge.

68-year old Phillip Bernard Williamson of Anniston has been arrested for allegedly having pornographic images of underage children on his home computer. He's been driving with the Calhoun County School System for years. Although he has not been convicted this allegation is enough for parents to have a tough talk with their children about safety.

For Tanya Harris-Brown, it's a breach of trust. Her daughter rides the bus to elementary school. Although Williamson is not her child's driver, she's upset that he allegedly saved photos on his home computer of undressed children under the age of seventeen. Harris-Brown says, "That makes you not even want to put your kids on the bus. That makes me not want to put my kids on the bus."

According to a police report Williamson has been arrested before, however the Calhoun County Board of Education says he passed all background checks required to be a school bus driver. Anniston Police say Williamson turned his computer over to a repair shop. They noticed the photos and reported them to police. After obtaining a search warrant a forensics team based in Hoover verified the underage images The District Attorney issued an arrest warrant.

For parents it's a reminder to talk to your children about boundaries, not only with strangers but also with people they know and quite possibly trust.

Harris-Brown says, "That's what I tell my kids every day as they leave the house if somebody touches you or says something to you in a way that's very uncomfortable I want to know as soon as you get in the house because I want to take care of it."

As for that previous arrest listed on the police report, Lt. Rocky Stemen says he doesn't know Williamson's criminal history, but he believes if the charges were related he's sure that would have surfaced.

Superintendent Judy Stiefel says no arrests appeared on his background check. Also, the School Board hopes he'll go to court before school starts this fall. His employment depends on a guilty or not guilty verdict.

http://www.abc3340.com/news/stories/0609/629194.html
__________________________________________________ _______


Massachusetts School Bus Driver Allegedly Asked Cheerleaders to Lift Up Shirts for Money

November 25, 2008



A longtime school bus driver could be fired after several members of a cheerleading squad in Lynnfield, Mass., said he offered them $40 to lift up their shirts.

Driver Bill Diamond, 56, was suspended without pay after the allegations surfaced, MyFOXBoston.com reported. Diamond has been at the job for 23 years.

"This clearly goes well beyond any bounds of acceptable behavior," said town administrator William Gustus.

Police said Diamond approached the girls with his request after a cheerleading competition in Lowell. The high school students found another ride home and went to authorities, who in turn questioned the bus driver, according to MyFOXBoston.com.

The driver allegedly didn't deny that the accusations were true.

Diamond has no record and was described by co-workers and his supervisor as a quiet man who keeps to himself.

He faces termination for the alleged incident.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,457304,00.html

This is the type of environment Muslim kids are exposed to.
Reply

islamica
12-21-2011, 05:17 PM
No clean slate for teachers; chalk it up to lust


Four Albanian teachers have been censured for drunken and lewd behavior in a remote village school after they had sexual intercourse behind a classroom blackboard, local reports said Friday.

The Education Ministry sacked two male teachers, replaced the headmaster and put a female teacher on probation after incensed parents in Xhyre, near the Macedonia border, locked the schoolhouse to stop the drinking and fornication in class.

"I saw them acting shamefully through the window and I told my friends and parents," fourth-grader Elton Cuka told the Shqip daily. "They saw me and threatened to expel me from school."

Xhevahir Hohxa, father of another pupil, was indignant.

"Would you call someone a teacher who drinks raki at ten in the morning and gets drunk and chases the schoolgirls?" he demanded on Albanian television.


http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSL2357620220070324

___________________________________


Former Pines elementary employee charged with sending lewd messages to kids

By JOEL MARINO and KATHY BUSHOUSE - March 06, 2009

PEMBROKE PINES — Police arrested a former elementary school employee Thursday after they say he sent lewd MySpace and phone text messages to three children and paid one of them $80 in exchange for naked pictures.

George Edilberto Francis, 21, of Pembroke Pines, was taken into custody Thursday afternoon and charged with several counts of transmission of harmful material to a minor and one count of sexual performance by a child.
The three children - one girl and two boys - are 12 and met Francis when he worked as a part-time, after-care worker at Pines Lakes Elementary, according to police records.

A school district spokesman said Francis was fired from that post, but he didn't know when that happened or why he was fired.

Police say a parent of one of the children told police on Feb. 4 that Francis sent sexually explicit messages to the child through the popular social networking Web site.

An investigation revealed Francis sent similar messages on MySpace and through cellphone text messages to the other children, according to Pembroke Pines police.

He also sent naked pictures of himself to one of the boys, and then paid that child to send him nude pictures in return, police said.

Officers who combed his computer and text messages found he asked the girl to meet him on a weekend and asked another boy to engage in sexual activities with him in a car, according to police records.

Police and school district officials say the children never met with Francis.
Patricia D. Yackel, the school's principal, sent a letter on Thursday to parents letting them know what happened.

"Please use this opportunity to remind your children about the importance of immediately reporting any inappropriate communications or other activities," Yackel wrote.

http://www.palmbeachpost.com/state/content/state/epaper/2009/03/06/0306lewdstory.html?cxntlid=inform_sr
Reply

Reflections
12-21-2011, 05:26 PM
One word:

Ew.
Reply

islamica
12-22-2011, 05:26 PM
Mom attacks sex offender at courthouse

May 19th, 2009

The mother of one of the molester’s victims grabbed the sex offender by his shirt and yelled at him in a courthouse hallway.

Pascual Gonzalez, of Roxbury, NJ, was awaiting sentencing on Monday for sexually abusing the woman’s 14-year-old daughter when the mother attacked him. She was eventually restrained by deputies, the Daily Record reported. The woman told authorities that she heard Gonzalez comment that her daughter was “good.” Gonzalez denied that he made the remark and told officers that he planned to press charges against the woman.
This isn’t the first time the mom has attacked Gonzalez. On Aug. 2, after she found out that her daughter had been sexually abused, she allegedly attacked Gonzalez with a baseball bat. She is not being publicly named in order to protect her daughter’s identity.

Gonzalez, a 39-year-old father of four, had pleaded guilty in January to sexually assaulting the woman’s daughter over a three-month period. He also inappropriately touched her friend, a 15-year-old girl. On Monday, Gonzalez — a volunteer baseball and basketball coach — was sentenced to five years in prison.

http://www.minortroubles.com/2009/05...at-courthouse/

____________________________________


Parents sue in school sex case

By Jason M. Rodriguez

BOLIVIA, N.C. -- The parents of a former West Brunswick High School student say school officials ignored reports that their daughter and her math teacher were sharing massages and spending time in his locked classroom with the lights off, according to a lawsuit.

The Supply, N.C., couple filed a civil lawsuit Tuesday in Brunswick County Superior Court against the Brunswick County Board of Education and 16-year advanced math teacher and coach David Hamilton Arrowood, now 50.

The lawsuit claims their daughter and Arrowood eventually shared a sexual relationship on and off school grounds between October 2005 and April 2006, and the school system - despite having dated and signed witness reports - did nothing to prevent it.

The suit also claims the school system tried to withhold those reports and Arrowood's personnel file from police, stating it conducted its own interviews and found no wrongdoing.

Arrowood has since been dismissed.

A lawyer for the school system said Brunswick County Schools Superintendent Katie McGee never intended to impede a criminal investigation.

This is the second time in three months the Brunswick County Board of Education has been sued by parents who claim the board did nothing to prevent their daughters from having inappropriate relationships with teachers at two high schools.

In the other case, the 16-year-old student married her former track coach, 40-year-old Brenton Wuchae.

McGee released the following statement Wednesday:

"We acknowledge that a lawsuit has been filed against the Board of Education, and former employee David Arrowood by [the parents of the student]. Mr. Arrowood was suspended by school officials from his professional duties on April 12, 2006 and ordered not to be on any school property thereafter. The Board of Education took official action on June 20, 2006 and dismissed David Arrowood. A defense to the lawsuit will be provided by the North Carolina School Board's Trust."

She said the same law firm representing the board in a similar case - Raleigh-based Tharrington Smith LLP - was assigned by the board's trust in this case.

McGee said late Wednesday she had yet to consult with attorneys in order to respond to questions about the lawsuit.

Reached late Wednesday, Kathleen Tanner, a lawyer for the firm, said, "The school system will be filing a response to the lawsuit within six to eight weeks. The school system will look forward to having the lawsuit heard and resolved in court."

The lawsuit asks for more than $20,000 in compensatory and punitive damages based on four claims of relief: intentional infliction of emotional distress; negligent infliction of emotional distress; negligent supervision and retention; and assault and battery.

Arrowood was convicted in February of seven counts each of each of sex offense with a student by school personnel and of indecent liberties with a student by school personnel. He was sentenced to a prison term of between 10 and 12 months in the N.C. Department of Corrections. He pleaded guilty to the charges in July 2006.

The suit outlines the details of the relationship Arrowood had with the then-17-year-old Supply, N.C., girl.

The Sun News does not print the names of sex offense victims and is not printing the names of her parents to protect her identity.

Arrowood had worked at West Brunswick since 1990, where he taught advanced-placement math and was an assistant football coach at the school. He and the girl's relationship dates back to October 2005 when, the suit alleges, he inappropriately touched the girl. In November, she went to Arrowood's house and "engaged in a sexual act" with him.

Those acts continued on and off campus through April 2006. During that time, the two e-mailed and wrote letters to each other. He gave her lingerie, clothing, money and books, according to the suit. The suit claims he proposed to her and planned to marry her after she finished two years of college and he divorced his wife.

The parents say a number of teachers, who gave signed and dated statements to school officials, saw him touch and brush her hair and saw her massage his shoulders, according to the lawsuit. Witnesses also watched as the two locked his classroom door and turned out the lights, the suit said.

On April 12, 2006, two assistant principals found Arrowood's classroom doors locked and his lights off, the suit states. The principals said they found Arrowood and the student "engaging in a sexual act," according to the suit.

Later that night, the school resource officer notified the Brunswick County Sheriff's Office that an incident between a teacher and a student occurred.

By 6:30 p.m., the resource officer called the sheriff's office to tell them the investigation would be handled internally and that police did not have to respond, according to the suit.

School officials, not specified in the suit, "advised the police that they had already conducted interviews of [the student] and Arrowood and that nothing inappropriate had occurred," according to the lawsuit.

A detective, not named in the suit, persisted with the investigation despite the school's request to keep the matter internal, according to the suit. Then-Principal James Jordan reportedly was told to withhold witness statements and the personnel file of Arrowood by McGee, according to the suit. The threat of an arrest for interfering with a criminal investigation prompted Jordan to hand over the records, the suit said.

Raleigh attorney Robert Tatum is representing the parents in the case.



Reply

crimsontide06
12-24-2011, 02:54 AM
The vid scares me lol.... The thing that scares me the most is the mom who was on the floor with her kid....really??
Reply

islamica
12-27-2011, 08:34 PM
AP: Sexual misconduct plagues US schools

By MARTHA IRVINE and ROBERT TANNER - Oct 20, 2007

The young teacher hung his head, avoiding eye contact. Yes, he had touched a fifth-grader's breast during recess. "I guess it was just lust of the flesh," he told his boss.

That got Gary C. Lindsey fired from his first teaching job in Oelwein, Iowa. But it didn't end his career. He taught for decades in Illinois and Iowa, fending off at least a half-dozen more abuse accusations.

When he finally surrendered his teaching license in 2004 — 40 years after that first little girl came forward — it wasn't a principal or a state agency that ended his career. It was one persistent victim and her parents.

Lindsey's case is just a small example of a widespread problem in American schools: sexual misconduct by the very teachers who are supposed to be nurturing the nation's children.

Students in America's schools are groped. They're raped. They're pursued, seduced and think they're in love.

An Associated Press investigation found more than 2,500 cases over five years in which educators were punished for actions from bizarre to sadistic.

There are 3 million public school teachers nationwide, most devoted to their work. Yet the number of abusive educators — nearly three for every school day — speaks to a much larger problem in a system that is stacked against victims.

Most of the abuse never gets reported. Those cases reported often end with no action. Cases investigated sometimes can't be proven, and many abusers have several victims.

And no one — not the schools, not the courts, not the state or federal governments — has found a surefire way to keep molesting teachers out of classrooms.

Those are the findings of an AP investigation in which reporters sought disciplinary records in all 50 states and the District of Columbia. The result is an unprecedented national look at the scope of sex offenses by educators — the very definition of breach of trust.

The seven-month investigation found 2,570 educators whose teaching credentials were revoked, denied, surrendered or sanctioned from 2001 through 2005 following allegations of sexual misconduct.

Young people were the victims in at least 1,801 of the cases, and more than 80 percent of those were students. At least half the educators who were punished by their states also were convicted of crimes related to their misconduct.

The findings draw obvious comparisons to sex abuse scandals in other institutions, among them the Roman Catholic Church. A review by America's Catholic bishops found that about 4,400 of 110,000 priests were accused of molesting minors from 1950 through 2002.


graphic shows findings of AP investigation on school teacher abuses, includes a map of abuses, statistics on victims and perpetrators

Clergy abuse is part of the national consciousness after a string of highly publicized cases. But until now, there's been little sense of the extent of educator abuse.

Beyond the horror of individual crimes, the larger shame is that the institutions that govern education have only sporadically addressed a problem that's been apparent for years.

"From my own experience — this could get me in trouble — I think every single school district in the nation has at least one perpetrator. At least one," says Mary Jo McGrath, a California lawyer who has spent 30 years investigating abuse and misconduct in schools. "It doesn't matter if it's urban or rural or suburban."

One report mandated by Congress estimated that as many as 4.5 million students, out of roughly 50 million in American schools, are subject to sexual misconduct by an employee of a school sometime between kindergarten and 12th grade. That figure includes verbal harassment that's sexual in nature.

Jennah Bramow, one of Lindsey's accusers in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, wonders why there isn't more outrage.

"You're supposed to be able to send your kids to school knowing that they're going to be safe," says Bramow, now 20. While other victims accepted settlement deals and signed confidentiality agreements, she sued her city's schools for failing to protect her and others from Lindsey — and won. Only then was Lindsey's teaching license finally revoked.


graphic shows findings of AP investigation on school teacher abuses, includes a map of abuses, statistics on victims and perpetrators

As an 8-year-old elementary-school student, Bramow told how Lindsey forced her hand on what she called his "pee-pee."

"How did you know it was his pee-pee?" an interviewer at St. Luke's Child Protection Center in Cedar Rapids asked Jennah in a videotape, taken in 1995.

"'Cause I felt something?" said Jennah, then a fidgety girl with long, dark hair.

"How did it feel?" the investigator asked.

"Bumpy," Jennah replied. She drew a picture that showed how Lindsey made her touch him on the zipper area of his pants.

Lindsey, now 68, refused multiple requests for an interview. "It never occurs to you people that some people don't want their past opened back up," he said when an AP reporter approached him at his home outside Cedar Rapids and asked questions.

That past, according to evidence presented in the Bramow's civil case, included accusations from students and parents along with reprimands from principals that were filed away, explained away and ultimately ignored until 1995, when accusations from Bramow and two other girls forced his early retirement. Even then, he kept his teaching license until the Bramows took the case public and filed a complaint with the state.

Like Lindsey, the perpetrators that the AP found are everyday educators — teachers, school psychologists, principals and superintendents among them. They're often popular and recognized for excellence and, in nearly nine out of 10 cases, they're male. While some abused students in school, others were cited for sexual misconduct after hours that didn't necessarily involve a kid from their classes, such as viewing or distributing child pornography.

They include:

• Joseph E. Hayes, a former principal in East St. Louis, Ill. DNA evidence in a civil case determined that he impregnated a 14-year-old student. Never charged criminally, his license was suspended in 2003. He has ignored an order to surrender it permanently.

• Donald M. Landrum, a high school teacher in Polk County, N.C. His bosses warned him not to meet with female students behind closed doors. They put a glass window in his office door, but Landrum papered over it. Police later found pornography and condoms in his office and alleged that he was about to have sex with a female student. His license was revoked in 2005.

• Rebecca A. Boicelli, a former teacher in Redwood City, Calif. She conceived a child with a 16-year-old former student then went on maternity leave in 2004 while police investigated. She was hired to teach in a nearby school district; board members said police hadn't told them about the investigation.

The overwhelming majority of cases the AP examined involved teachers in public schools. Private school teachers rarely turn up because many are not required to have a teaching license and, even when they have one, disciplinary actions are typically handled within the school.

Two of the nation's major teachers unions, the American Federation of Teachers and the National Education Association, each denounced sex abuse while emphasizing that educators' rights also must be taken into account.

"Students must be protected from sexual predators and abuse, and teachers must be protected from false accusations," said NEA President Reg Weaver, who refused to be interviewed and instead released a two-paragraph statement.

Kathy Buzad of the AFT said that "if there's one incident of sexual misconduct between a teacher and a student that's one too many."

The United States has grown more sympathetic to victims of sex abuse over recent decades, particularly when it comes to young people. Laws that protect children from abusers bear the names of young victims. Police have made pursuing Internet predators a priority. People convicted of abuse typically face tough sentences and registry as sex offenders.

Even so, sexually abusive teachers continue to take advantage, and there are several reasons why.

For one, many Americans deny the problem, and even treat the abuse with misplaced fascination. Popular media reports trumpet relationships between attractive female teachers and male students.

"It's dealt with in a salacious manner with late-night comedians saying 'What 14-year-old boy wouldn't want to have sex with his teacher?' It trivializes the whole issue," says Robert Shoop, a professor of educational administration at Kansas State University who has written a book aimed at helping school districts identify and deal with sexual misconduct.

"In other cases, it's reported as if this is some deviant who crawled into the school district — 'and now that they're gone, everything's OK.' But it's much more prevalent than people would think."

The AP investigation found efforts to stop individual offenders but, overall, a deeply entrenched resistance toward recognizing and fighting abuse. It starts in school hallways, where fellow teachers look away or feel powerless to help. School administrators make behind-the-scenes deals to avoid lawsuits and other trouble. And in state capitals and Congress, lawmakers shy from tough state punishments or any cohesive national policy for fear of disparaging a vital profession.

That only enables rogue teachers, and puts kids who aren't likely to be believed in a tough spot.

In case after case the AP examined, accusations of inappropriate behavior were dismissed. One girl in Mansfield, Ohio, complained about a sexual assault by teacher Donald Coots and got expelled. It was only when a second girl, years later, brought a similar complaint against the same teacher that he was punished.

And that second girl also was ostracized by the school community and ultimately left town.

Unless there's a videotape of a teacher involved with a child, everyone wants to believe the authority figure, says Wayne Promisel, a retired Virginia detective who has investigated many sex abuse cases.

He and others who track the problem reiterated one point repeatedly during the AP investigation: Very few abusers get caught.

They point to several academic studies estimating that only about one in 10 victimized children report sexual abuse of any kind to someone who can do something about it.

Teachers, administrators and even parents frequently don't, or won't, recognize the signs that a crime is taking place.

"They can't see what's in front of their face. Not unlike a kid in an alcoholic family, who'll say 'My family is great,'" says McGrath, the California lawyer and investigator who now trains entire school systems how to recognize what she calls the unmistakable "red flags" of misconduct.

In Hamburg, Pa., in 2002, those "red flags" should have been clear. A student skipped classes every day to spend time with one teacher. He gave her gifts and rides in his car. She sat on his lap. The bond ran so deep that the student got chastised repeatedly — even suspended once for being late and absent so often. But there were no questions for the teacher.

Heather Kline was 12, a girl with a broad smile and blond hair pulled back tight. Teacher Troy Mansfield had cultivated her since she was in his third-grade class.

"Kids, like, idolized me because they thought I was, like, cool because he paid more attention to me," says Kline, now 18, sitting at her mother's kitchen table, sorting through a file of old poems and cards from Mansfield. "I was just like really comfortable. I could tell him anything."

He never pushed her, just raised the stakes, bit by bit — a comment about how good she looked, a gift, a hug.

She was sure she was in love.

By winter of seventh grade, he was sneaking her off in his car for an hour of sex, dropping in on her weekly baby-sitting duties, e-mailing about what clothes she should wear, about his sexual fantasies, about marriage and children.

Mansfield finally got caught by the girl's mother, and his own words convicted him. At his criminal trial in 2004, Heather read his e-mails and instant messages aloud, from declarations of true love to explicit references to past sex. He's serving up to 31 years in state prison.

The growing use of e-mails and text messages is leaving a trail that investigators and prosecutors can use to prove an intimate relationship when other evidence is hard to find.

Even then, many in the community find it difficult to accept that a predator is in their midst. When these cases break, defendants often portray the students as seducers or false accusers. However, every investigator questioned said that is largely a misconception.

"I've been involved in several hundred investigations," says Martin Bates, an assistant superintendent in a Salt Lake City school district. "I think I've seen that just a couple of times ... where a teacher is being pursued by a student."

Too often, problem teachers are allowed to leave quietly. That can mean future abuse for another student and another school district.

"They might deal with it internally, suspending the person or having the person move on. So their license is never investigated," says Charol Shakeshaft, a leading expert in teacher sex abuse who heads the educational leadership department at Virginia Commonwealth University.

It's a dynamic so common it has its own nicknames — "passing the trash" or the "mobile molester."

Laws in several states require that even an allegation of sexual misconduct be reported to the state departments that oversee teacher licenses. But there's no consistent enforcement, so such laws are easy to ignore.

School officials fear public embarrassment as much as the perpetrators do, Shakeshaft says. They want to avoid the fallout from going up against a popular teacher. They also don't want to get sued by teachers or victims, and they don't want to face a challenge from a strong union.

In the Iowa case, Lindsey agreed to leave without fighting when his bosses kept the reason for his departure confidential. The decades' worth of allegations against him would have stayed secret, if not for Bramow.

Across the country, such deals and lack of information-sharing allow abusive teachers to jump state lines, even when one school does put a stop to the abuse.

While some schools and states have been aggressive about investigating problem teachers and publicizing it when they're found, others were hesitant to share details of cases with the AP — Alabama and Mississippi among the more resistant. Maine, the only state that gave the AP no disciplinary information, has a law that keeps offending teachers' cases secret.

Meanwhile, the reasons given for punishing hundreds of educators, including many in California, were so vague there was no way to tell why they'd been punished, until further investigation by AP reporters revealed it was sexual misconduct.

And in Hawaii, no educators were disciplined by the state in the five years the AP examined, even though some teachers there were serving sentences for various sex crimes during that time. They technically remained teachers, even behind bars.

Elsewhere, there have been fitful steps toward catching errant teachers that may be having some effect. The AP found the number of state actions against sexually abusive teachers rose steadily, to a high of 649 in 2005.

More states now require background checks on teachers, fingerprinting and mandatory reporting of abuse, though there are still loopholes and a lack of coordination among districts and states.

U.S. Supreme Court rulings in the last 20 years on civil rights and sex discrimination have opened schools up to potentially huge financial punishments for abuses, which has driven some schools to act.

And the National Association of State Directors of Teacher Education and Certification keeps a list of educators who've been punished for any reason, but only shares the names among state agencies.

The uncoordinated system that's developed means some teachers still fall through the cracks. Aaron M. Brevik is a case in point.

Brevik was a teacher at an elementary school in Warren, Mich., until he was accused of using a camera hidden in a gym bag to secretly film boys in locker rooms and showers. He also faced charges that he recorded himself molesting a boy while the child slept.

Found guilty of criminal sexual conduct, Brevik is now serving a five- to 20-year prison sentence and lost his Michigan license in 2005.

What Michigan officials apparently didn't know when they hired him was that Brevik's teaching license in Minnesota had been permanently suspended in 2001 after he allegedly invited two male minors to stay with him in a hotel room. He was principal of an elementary school in southeastern Minnesota at the time.

"I tell you what, they never go away. They just blend a little better," says Steve Janosko, a prosecutor in Ocean County, N.J., who handled the case of a former high school teacher and football coach, Nicholas J. Arminio.

Arminio surrendered his New Jersey teaching license in 1994 after two female students separately accused him of inappropriate touching. The state of Maryland didn't know that when he applied for teaching credentials and took a job at a high school in Baltimore County. He eventually resigned and lost that license, too.

Even so, until this month, he was coaching football at another Baltimore County high school in a job that does not require a teaching license. After the AP started asking questions, he was fired.

Victims also face consequences when teachers are punished.

In Pennsylvania, after news of teacher Troy Mansfield's arrest hit, girls called Kline, his 12-year-old victim, a "****" to her face. A teacher called her a "vixen." Friends stopped talking to her. Kids no longer sat with her at lunch.

Her abuser, meanwhile, had been a popular teacher and football coach.

So, between rumors that she was pregnant or doing drugs and her own panic attacks and depression, Kline bounced between schools. At 16, she ran away to Nashville.

"I didn't have my childhood," says Kline, who's back home now, working at a grocery cash register and hoping to get her GED so she can go to nursing school. "He had me so matured at so young.

"I remember going from little baby dolls to just being an adult."

The courts dealt her a final insult. A federal judge dismissed her civil suit against the school, saying administrators had no obligation to protect her from a predatory teacher since officials were unaware of the abuse, despite what the court called widespread "unsubstantiated rumors" in the school. The family is appealing.

In Iowa, the state Supreme Court made the opposite ruling in the Bramow case, deciding she and her parents could sue the Cedar Rapids schools for failing to stop Lindsey.

Bramow, now a young mother who waits tables for a living, won a $20,000 judgment. But Lindsey was never criminally charged due to what the former county prosecutor deemed insufficient evidence.

Arthur Sensor, the former superintendent in Oelwein, Iowa, who vividly recalls pressuring Lindsey to quit on Feb. 18, 1964, regrets that he didn't do more to stop him back then.

Now, he says, he'd call the police.

"He promised me he wouldn't do it again — that he had learned. And he was a young man, a beginning teacher, had a young wife, a young child," Sensor, now 86 years old, said during testimony at the Bramows' civil trial.

"I wanted to believe him, and I did."

http://www.newsvine.com/_news/2007/1...ues-us-schools



This was written in 2007. It has gotten even worse now. Are these the schools the Muslims in USA or west are ok to send their kids to despite having Islamic schools?
Reply

samin62
12-27-2011, 11:31 PM
another day at hillbilly town
Reply

islamica
12-29-2011, 02:56 AM
Sexual abuse increasingly an issue in U.S. schools

By Lisa W. Foderaro

TEANECK, New Jersey: The accusation could not have been lodged against a more respected or popular educator: James Darden, an eighth-grade English teacher who was honored with a school assembly last year after winning a prestigious teaching award.

Yet this month, Darden was charged with aggravated sexual assault after a woman, now 21, told prosecutors that from the ages of 13 to 15 she and Darden, who is now 36, had sex in his house, his car, his classroom and the men's bathroom at Thomas Jefferson Middle School in Teaneck. He has pleaded not guilty.

Days earlier, two 28-year-old female teachers at a therapeutic school for emotionally disturbed and neglected boys in New Windsor, New York, were charged with having sexual relations with two 16-year-old students.

These cases and scores of others reflect a growing public consciousness of improper sexual relations between teachers and students.

And although government statistics show that reported sex crimes aimed at young people in general - whether at the hands of middle school teachers, parish priests or relatives - have fallen in the United States since the early 1990s, New York State has reported a marked increase in a broader but similar category, what are called moral-fitness cases, involving certified teachers and administrators.

A recent state Education Department study said that the number of those cases has almost tripled in New York in recent years and that the clear majority of complaints were sex-related.

Education experts and law enforcement officials speculate that since hundreds of instances of sexual abuse by Catholic priests have come to light in the past several years, resulting in millions of dollars in lawsuit settlements and judgments, victims are more willing to report unwanted encounters.

In addition, they say, schools have clearer guidelines about informing law enforcement authorities, and an influx of women into the ranks of prosecutors may have led to stepped-up enforcement.

"Most of what we are seeing is a greater level of sensitization, awareness and willingness to report and prosecute," said David Finkelhor, director of the Crimes Against Children Research Center at the University of New Hampshire. "There has also been a feminization of law enforcement. One of the consequences of that was to challenge a longstanding reluctance to prosecute crimes that involve adult women and what look like willing teenage boys."

The dearth of national data on reports of student abuse at the hands of educators is the result of its wide-ranging nature: a spectrum of misdeeds, from lewd remarks to actual sex, and a range of overlapping responses.

There are school disciplinary proceedings, state hearings to revoke certification and criminal prosecution.

And many cases simply quietly disappear.

"There's no official accounting or record-keeping of this," said Nan Stein, senior research scientist at the Centers for Women at Wellesley College in Massachusetts, who has often testified as an expert in cases involving sex-assault charges against teachers. "When cases are settled out of court, it's very hard to find information."

One 2000 study, by the American Association of University Women, a nonprofit membership group, and the market research firm Harris Interactive, asked a national sample of 2,064 boys and girls in the 8th through 11th grades if they had ever experienced "unwanted and unwelcome sexual conduct," either verbal or physical, from teachers or other school employees. A previous study in 1993 included an identically worded question. The response was consistent in both surveys, with about 10 percent of both boys and girls saying that they had.

In New York State, the Department of Education receives hundreds of complaints a year that challenge a teacher's or administrator's moral character, but only a small fraction are passed on to a professional standards and practices board.

In the school year that started in 2000, the department handled 36 such cases; in the 2005-06 school year, it considered 104. The board decides whether the moral character of the person is sound enough to retain a teacher or administrator certificate.

The types of behavior that would call into question a teacher's moral character are varied: arson, drug possession, and test fraud, to name a few.

But the state report analyzed the kinds of incidents and crimes that led to the moral fitness cases over those six years. It found that among the teachers and administrators whose certificates were challenged, more than two-thirds of the cases involved sex-related issues, including possession of child pornography, lewdness, inappropriate relationships with students, and sex crimes.

Some law enforcement officials said that closer working relationships with schools in recent years had underscored the issue.

In New Jersey, for instance, school officials sign an annual agreement pledging to report any "suspicions that a student is being assaulted by a teacher or other student," said John Molinelli, the prosecutor handling the Darden case.

Similarly, the New York State School Boards Association has held workshops on handling accusations of abuse.


Reply

ardianto
12-29-2011, 03:36 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Tragic Typos
In all schools, there are some that students misbehave and are rude. So I'm certain we all can agree that immoral behaviour occurs in all schools, not just in schools in the west.
We can also find misbehave and rude students in eastern schools, in Indonesia. Not only in the west.

By the way, I think the right title for this thread is "Problems in (some) western schools". This is not because the system of education itself, but because they violate the system.
Reply

islamica
12-29-2011, 07:03 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by ardianto
This is not because the system of education itself, but because they violate the system.
Regardless, it's a question of putting your kids in that "environment" that is detrimental to their deen and self, considering all the bullying and sexual assaults happening these days.
Reply

ardianto
12-29-2011, 09:17 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
Regardless, it's a question of putting your kids in that "environment" that is detrimental to their deen and self, considering all the bullying and sexual assaults happening these days.
I would not let my kids study in schools which theacher let students bully other students, but I would choose other schools that follow the system, which the teachers always watch and guard their students from bullying and sexual assault.

Like I have said, the problem is not in the education system itself. If teachers and students in those schools really follow the system, those cases would not be happened. Those cases happened because teachers and students violated the system.
Reply

islamica
12-29-2011, 06:10 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by ardianto
We can also find misbehave and rude students in eastern schools, in Indonesia. Not only in the west.

By the way, I think the right title for this thread is "Problems in (some) western schools". This is not because the system of education itself, but because they violate the system.
You still fail to understand the bigger picture. Even in your "perfect" school with "perfect" teachers, the environment is inherently bad and thus your "perfect" teachers may very well be the assaulters...

The accusation could not have been lodged against a more respected or popular educator: James Darden, an eighth-grade English teacher who was honored with a school assembly last year after winning a prestigious teaching award.


Yet this month, Darden was charged with aggravated sexual assault after a woman, now 21, told prosecutors that from the ages of 13 to 15 she and Darden, who is now 36, had sex in his house, his car, his classroom and the men's bathroom at Thomas Jefferson Middle School in Teaneck. He has pleaded not guilty.
I would not let my kids study in schools which theacher let students bully other students, but I would choose other schools that follow the system, which the teachers always watch and guard their students from bullying and sexual assault.
No one would, but how do you know your school is bully free or safe in any other way. Your top performing teacher could be sexually assaulting your 13yr old and you won't know until she speaks up aboutit.
Reply

Dagless
12-29-2011, 06:23 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
You still fail to understand the bigger picture. Even in your "perfect" school with "perfect" teachers, the environment is inherently bad and thus your "perfect" teachers may very well be the assaulters...
These incidents also happen in non-Western schools though. Bad people are not restricted to the West.
Reply

islamica
12-29-2011, 06:40 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Dagless
These incidents also happen in non-Western schools though. Bad people are not restricted to the West.
Yes, it can happen any where. But the fact is, majority of it is happening in the west. More and more practicing Christians are taking their kids out and home schooling them so why are the Muslims making excuses, thinking it's only a small example and not a plague, that their little neck of the wood is safe?

Students in America's schools are groped. They're raped. They're pursued, seduced and think they're in love.

Most of the abuse never gets reported. Those who do, Too often, problem teachers are allowed to leave quietly.

Every single school district in the nation has at least one perpetrator.
Reply

islamica
12-29-2011, 06:41 PM
Schoolgirl Forced to Breastfeed Classmates

Jul 9, 2009

A schoolgirl who became pregnant was forced into breastfeeding her classmate to keep matters quiet, but he soon started selling her breasts, milk and all, to the school.

The girl was in the third year of a Shanghai area middle school. After having unprotected sex with her boyfriend, she became pregnant, though only noticed this five months into her pregnancy. She resolved to keep the child and delivered a baby boy.

She split up with her boyfriend and returned to school after giving birth; her schoolmates were none the wiser as to her motherhood.

However, another pupil at the school apparently noticed her clothes were damp from the milk she was expressing.

Seeing both an opportunity for free food and a commercial venture in the making, he threatened to expose her pregnancy unless she breastfed him. Soon he gathered three friends and ordered her to feed them too.

His plan developed, and soon he was taking money from other students in return for letting them take advantage of his human dairy.

With the scheme getting out of hand, it soon came to the attention of the school, who moved to put a stop to it, vowing severe punishment for the boy responsible, though it seems he will not face criminal charges.

______________________________________________


Two boys, 10, are arrested on suspicion of raping girl, eight

By Rebecca Camber - 30th October 2009

Two 10-year-old boys have been arrested on suspicion of raping an eight-year-old girl in a playground.

The schoolgirl had been playing with the boys, believed to be her friends, when the alleged attack happened during half-term school holidays.

She went with the boys to College Park in Hayes, West London to play on the climbing frame and swings close to Hayes Community Campus, which is part of Uxbridge College.


The attack on the youngster was witnessed by her six-year-old sister, neighbours claimed last night.

The children were not being supervised by any adults at the time, detectives said.

The boys were seen meeting up with the the girl and her younger sister at about 11am on Tuesday.

The young girl, who cannot be named for legal reasons, said she was taken to bushes at the edge of the park where she was sexually assaulted in broad daylight on Tuesday at around 2pm.

The two boys are alleged to have taken turns raping her.

Afterwards, the young girl ran home to tell her parents who live close by.

Horrified, they alerted police and the two boys, who live close to the victim, were arrested hours later.

The youngsters, who are said to be best friends, were quizzed about the incident before being bailed to return to a West London police station next month.

The attack is being investigated by the Metropolitan Police's recently re-organised Sapphire Unit in the Specialist Crime Directorate.

Detectives specially trained in child sex offences have since interviewed the young girl.

Yesterday the playground and adjourning playing fields were sealed off while forensic officers combed the scene for evidence.

The attack has stunned local residents living in the estate beside the park.

Yesterday deputy mayor of Hillingdon Council, Councillor David Yarrow said: 'I have never heard of two ten-year-olds being accused of raping an eight-year-old girl. It's just totally shocking.

'It's like the James Bulger case, you can't believe children of that age would be capable of something like that.'

Police said the victim sustained no physical injuries in the attack.

A 49-year-old housewife who lives near one of the alleged perpetrators said: 'The boy is regularly left alone by his mum while she goes out for hours on end.

'The boy's mother is known for being aggressive and she has a criminal record. But her son is as polite as can be.'


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1223971/Two-boys-10-held-rape-year-old-girl.html

_________________________________________


Girl films rape of friend

May 30, 2009

A 14-YEAR-OLD girl acted as a “movie director” when she filmed her boyfriend raping her friend using a camera phone.

The Form Two student even gave words of encouragement to her boyfriend while “directing” him, according to Harian Metro.

Police sources said the sadistic incident took place recently when the victim was asked to join the couple at a quiet area in Bukit Ampang, Kuala Lumpur.

The victim was told to keep an eye on the surroundings while the girl had sex with her boyfriend.

“After they were done, the girl told the victim to have sex with her boyfriend. The victim declined. They later adjourned to another picnic area near Sungai Tekali, Hulu Langat,” said a source.

The victim was then raped while being watched by her schoolmate who appeared to enjoy the ordeal. The girl contacted two other male friends who proceeded to take turns raping the victim.

The victim lodged a police report at the Batu 14 police station in Hulu Langat with her mother.


http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2009/5/30/nation/4010589&sec=nation
Reply

~Zaria~
12-29-2011, 07:09 PM
Assalamu-alaikum all,

Brothers and sisters, clearly there are 2 opposing opinions here.

However, the FACT remains....and i will say that this is FACT - that what has been illustrated in the OP as well as the many other examples provided by sister Islamica is that our 'western' concept of schooling is becoming a disgrace, and whats worse - a hazard - to many vulnerable minds WORLD-WIDE.

I read similiar reports of these types of school incidents frequently in our local newspapers.
In fact, many of our public schools now have members of the defence force/ police to be part of 'law-enforcement' on our school-grounds.
This is how rife drugs and other criminal activities have become here.

There is not a school that i know of, where our kids are completely safe - from drugs/ alcohol/ porn/ sexual indiscretions between students/ physical/ sexual abuse by members of staff, etc.....
And while, these sorts of incidents are less frequent at 'islamic schools' - they too find their ways within the confines of what should be an 'islamic-rich' enviroment.

This is reality.

This is the reason, as mentioned, why more and more parents are considering home-schooling, including myself, should I ever be blessed with kids oneday, insha Allah.

The most we can do, if home-schooling is not feasible to you - is to try and find the best possible unisex, islamic school for your child, that is closest to you.

And INSTILL Al-Quraan and Sunnah into our kids from young.

And then leave the rest to your Rabb - make duaa, that Allah protects you and your family from the fitnahs that are lashing out at us every single day, at every turn that we take.


Its a jungle out there - for sure!

Salaam
Reply

Muezzin
12-29-2011, 07:14 PM
If that is the case, the best solution is to move to a more Islamic country if possible.

That's not some dismissive 'if you don't like it, get out' response, it's genuinely the best solution if people want to avoid corrupt, un-Islamic behaviour and society.
Reply

islamica
12-29-2011, 07:39 PM
But people won't move to an "islamic country", they don't run to the west only to go back. It's a one way ticket for majority. What's left then is to see how you can minimize harm from this environment. Islamic schools or better yet home school is the prime example and studies have shown those kids to be smarter and ahead of those in public schools. But then there is also the fact most Muslims are lazy and they rather have the tv and public schools do the raising for them. Islamic schools are also scarce and I think the muslim in uk are lazy in also in that regard, you have 70% of students in catholic schools being Muslims because the parents think public schools are bad. With 70% you can open your own islamic school, but why do the hard work? And when the teen muslims start dating, marrying kaffirs, and changing religion, the parents are running to the imam for help. here's news for you, too late!
Reply

Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн
12-29-2011, 07:51 PM
:sl:

That's disgusting...I felt sick reading halfway through the article. NASTY people
Reply

Dagless
12-29-2011, 08:00 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
But people won't move to an "islamic country", they don't run to the west only to go back. It's a one way ticket for majority. What's left then is to see how you can minimize harm from this environment. Islamic schools or better yet home school is the prime example and studies have shown those kids to be smarter and ahead of those in public schools. But then there is also the fact most Muslims are lazy and they rather have the tv and public schools do the raising for them. Islamic schools are also scarce and I think the muslim in uk are lazy in also in that regard, you have 70% of students in catholic schools being Muslims because the parents think public schools are bad. With 70% you can open your own islamic school, but why do the hard work? And when the teen muslims start dating, marrying kaffirs, and changing religion, the parents are running to the imam for help. here's news for you, too late!
It depends on the level of risk. You could say roads are dangerous so it's better that you don't allow your kids to ever cross roads. If you want a good education then it may be better to risk sending your kids to school. You can say home schooling is safer, but home schooled kids will probably be able to handle social interaction less well than those who went to school... not to mention missing out on a lot of the practical aspects.
You can't protect them forever, and they have to learn to deal with non-Muslims if they live in a non-Muslim country. It may even strengthen them.
Reply

Aprender
12-29-2011, 08:28 PM
At the high school I went to a few of the teachers went to jail for molesting students among other things...

Either way, I think that in the West at least we need to start getting some more Islamic schools up and running then. I only know of one here where I live and you wouldn't know it was an Islamic school by the name...

Especially when you consider these statistics. It's actually surprising that more Muslims in the U.S. aren't doing more to establish more Islamic schools...
In the U.S., 67 percent of the total U.S. population is over 40, 67 percent of the U.S. Muslim population is under 40.


67 percent of U.S. Muslims have a college degree, versus 44 percent of the general population.


The U.S. average income is $42,000; 66 percent of U.S. Muslims earn over $50,000, and 26 percent over $100,000

Source: Allied Media Corp
Reply

Muezzin
12-29-2011, 08:43 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
But people won't move to an "islamic country", they don't run to the west only to go back. It's a one way ticket for majority. What's left then is to see how you can minimize harm from this environment. Islamic schools or better yet home school is the prime example and studies have shown those kids to be smarter and ahead of those in public schools. But then there is also the fact most Muslims are lazy and they rather have the tv and public schools do the raising for them.
Alternatively, the parent(s) have full-time jobs which they need in order to put food on the table and consequently do not have enough time in the day to sufficiently homeschool their children.

Or the Islamic schools in the area (if any exist) are full with extremely long waiting lists.

Or the parents do not feel they are qualified to teach their children school subjects.

Or the parents have misgivings about homeschooling in general.

It's unfair, reductive and dishonest to characterise people who send their children to state schools as lazy.

Islamic schools are also scarce and I think the muslim in uk are lazy in also in that regard, you have 70% of students in catholic schools being Muslims because the parents think public schools are bad. With 70% you can open your own islamic school, but why do the hard work?
Just because there are relatively few Islamic schools in the UK at the time of writing, it doesn't mean people aren't trying to open more.

And when the teen muslims start dating, marrying kaffirs, and changing religion, the parents are running to the imam for help. here's news for you, too late!
Serious question: even if a child is homeschooled, who's to say they won't run away and do the above as soon as their schooling is over?

If you're arguing that Muslim parents should teach Islam and morality to their children, I agree with you wholeheartedly, especially if they're living in non-Muslim countries. But when the children become adults, it's ultimately up to them how they choose to behave, regardless of their background or upbringing.

format_quote Originally Posted by Dagless
You can't protect them forever, and they have to learn to deal with non-Muslims if they live in a non-Muslim country.
Precisely.
Reply

islamica
12-30-2011, 02:38 AM
Whatever the situation of the people may be. At beginning of the thread, someone had demanded i show more proof of how bad western public education systems are. So i'll continue posting to show what environment today's kids are being raised in and what's its leading to. Others can use the information to plan their family according or just turn blind eye to it and keep living as they are.
Reply

ardianto
12-30-2011, 04:18 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
You still fail to understand the bigger picture. Even in your "perfect" school with "perfect" teachers, the environment is inherently bad and thus your "perfect" teachers may very well be the assaulters...
Okay, maybe American education system has a rule like this, that's different than Indonesian education system. But basically the system is same, because both countries follow universal system which followed by many countries too.

No one would, but how do you know your school is bully free or safe in any other way. Your top performing teacher could be sexually assaulting your 13yr old and you won't know until she speaks up aboutit.
There are many students who became victims of sexual assault. But who did these sexual assault?. Many of them are the family members themselves, other are other people who know them, the rest are strangers. Cases which teacher sexually assaulting students is rare.

format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
Whatever the situation of the people may be. At beginning of the thread, someone had demanded i show more proof of how bad western public education systems are. So i'll continue posting to show what environment today's kids are being raised in and what's its leading to. Others can use the information to plan their family according or just turn blind eye to it and keep living as they are.
I think you want to remind us to choose homeschooling. Okay, I understand, but I and many other parents have our own reasons to educate our kids in public schools.

By the way, if you think that cases happened only in the west, why you show us cases from China and Malaysia?
Reply

islamica
12-30-2011, 05:28 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by ardianto
By the way, if you think that cases happened only in the west, why you show us cases from China and Malaysia?
You, yourself, have stated that such things happen in the east as well. I'm not here promoting the evilness of the west but rather just showing the evilness of things going on in the public system. West is dominating because most of the stuff is happening here, but that does not mean public schools in east are exempt, especially non-Muslim ones. Malaysia has large chinese population, among other races, so those cases may have been of the non-muslims.
Reply

ardianto
12-30-2011, 06:22 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by islamica
You, yourself, have stated that such things happen in the east as well. I'm not here promoting the evilness of the west but rather just showing the evilness of things going on in the public system. West is dominating because most of the stuff is happening here, but that does not mean public schools in east are exempt, especially non-Muslim ones. Malaysia has large chinese population, among other races, so those cases may have been of the non-muslims.
How about few Qur'an teachers in Indonesia who raped their students?.

Everything could be happen to our kids, but we cannot protect them with over protection. It would make them lose their ability to interact people and lose their courage to face the problems in the future.

What we have to do is always watch, guard and supervise our kids. I and my wife always watch our kids and we often come to their schools. If we find something wrong we will move them to other schools.

But if you have different opinion, I understand.

Maybe it's better if we make agreement to disagree in this matter, or we will be engaged in never ending debate.
:)
Reply

~Zaria~
12-30-2011, 06:58 AM
Assalamu-alaikum all,

I think some of us are missing the point here.

Firstly - yes, it would be generalising to say that those who chose not to home-school their kids, are being lazy.
As mentioned - theres many reasons that prevent this.

As Ive mentioned - probably your best bet would be to find a UNISEX, preferably Islamic school (if available in your vicinity).....if not, then a UNISEX non-muslim school.....these would be first prizes in this situation.

The reality is, that many fitnahs that occur behind school walls - occur as a result of free, unlimited intermingling between the sexes.
And considering that kids are maturing at a much younger age today (physically, psychologically, possessing detailed knowledge of sexual-related matters well before their teens in many cases) - this becomes important not just in high school, but also at the juniour levels.

Secondly - brothers and sisters, we need to realise that we are fast approaching the end of times.
Most of the minor sign have already occured - yes?

And so, there will be a time (and some may argue that we are already in this period) where we need to reflect on this hadith:

Bukhari :: Book 9 :: Volume 88 :: Hadith 210


Narrated Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri:
Allah's Apostle said, "There will come a time when the best property of a Muslim will be sheep which he will take to the tops of mountains and the places of rainfall so as to flee with his religion from the afflictions."


Are we not already at this period?
Thats for you to decide......

So, for those who are trying to withdraw step by step out of this society and way of life - there are good reasons behind this.

But, we do realise, the challenges that face us in achieving this.
We do realise that this world is not perfect, that we cant protect ourselves or our kids, completely from the fitnahs that are lashing at us everyday.

All we can do is try.....and place your trust in Allah (subhana wataála).

Salaam
Reply

Dagless
12-30-2011, 11:51 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by ~Zaria~
As Ive mentioned - probably your best bet would be to find a UNISEX, preferably Islamic school (if available in your vicinity).....if not, then a UNISEX non-muslim school.....these would be first prizes in this situation.

The reality is, that many fitnahs that occur behind school walls - occur as a result of free, unlimited intermingling between the sexes.
A unisex school is a mixed school though :S
Reply

islamica
12-30-2011, 11:36 PM
Queens girl Alexa Gonzalez hauled out of school in handcuffs after getting caught doodling on desk

BY Rachel Monahan - February 4th 2010

A 12-year-old Queens girl was hauled out of school in handcuffs for an artless offense - doodling her name on her desk in erasable marker, the Daily News has learned.

Alexa Gonzalez was scribbling a few words on her desk Monday while waiting for her Spanish teacher to pass out homework at Junior High School 190 in Forest Hills, she said.

"I love my friends Abby and Faith," the girl wrote, adding the phrases "Lex was here. 2/1/10" and a smiley face.

But instead of simply cleaning off the doodles after class, Alexa landed in some adult-sized trouble for using her lime-green magic marker.

She was led out of school in cuffs and walked to the precinct across the street, where she was detained for several hours, she and her mother said.

"I started crying, like, a lot," said Alexa. "I made two little doodles. ... It could be easily erased. To put handcuffs on me is unnecessary." Alexa, who had a stellar attendance record, hasn't been back to school since, adding, "I just thought I'd get a detention. I thought maybe I would have to clean [the desk]."

"She's been throwing up," said her mom, Moraima Camacho, 49, an accountant, who lives with her daughter in Kew Gardens. "The whole situation has been a nightmare."

City officials acknowledged Alexa's arrest was a mistake.

"We're looking at the facts," said City Education Department spokesmanDavid Cantor. "Based on what we've seen so far, this shouldn't have happened."

"Even when we're asked to make an arrest, common sense should prevail, and discretion used in deciding whether an arrest or handcuffs are really necessary," said police spokesman Paul Browne.

Alexa is the latest in a string of city students who have been cuffed for minor infractions. In 2007, 13-year-old Chelsea Fraser was placed under arrest for writing "okay" on her desk at Intermediate School 201. And in 2008, 5-year-old Dennis Rivera was cuffed and sent to a psych ward after throwing a fit in his kindergarten.

A class action lawsuit was filed by the New York Civil Liberties Union last month against the city for using "excessive force" in middle school and high schools. A 12-year-old sixth-grader, identified in the lawsuit as M.M., was arrested in March 2009 for doodling on her desk at the Hunts Point School.

Alexa is still suspended from her school, her mother said. She and her mom went to family court on Tuesday, where Alexa was assigned eight hours of community service, a book report and an essay on what she learned from the experience.

"I definitely learned not to ever draw on a desk," said Alexa. "They told me with a pencil this could still happen."


Reply

islamica
12-30-2011, 11:38 PM
“What’s Wrong With Having Sex With Your Teacher?”

Sex in school and with teachers is a fact of life, say schoolgirls, who happily share the details of their intimate encounters as though they were recalling what happened in class.

An experienced 14-year-old girl, beguilingly conservative looking with undyed hair and a low hem, is blunt in conversation with an Asahi Weekly reporter:

“What’s wrong with loving your teacher? At the moment, I’m dating mine.”
She speaks proudly of her precocious conquest of a teacher in his thirties, who she describes as “cool”:

“I finally did it with my teacher a while back. On Valentine’s, we met at night, and I told him ‘take me instead of the chocolate’ – we had sex in the car then and there. He was actually my second but I told him he was my first.”

She describes how teachers and students often exchange mails, and that this actually led to her own relationship:

“That evening I got a reply – ‘is it ok to start a relationship we can never tell anyone about?’ Of course I immediately replied ‘OK.’

It seems he had other pupils, but he stopped it with them. He said ‘I liked you from first glance.’ Delightful. Having this secret together really gets my heart racing.”

Daring encounters in school itself were not uncommon; she recalls proudly how after class the couple would kiss in school, and even touch in class itself at times.

“I was breathless and my chest was tight in those wonderful moments.”
One middle-school teacher speaks candidly of his trials in the face of the budding womanhood of his charges:

“Middle school girls these days are really mature. Of course it varies with the individual, but when I was a schoolboy there were 1-2 sexy girls in the whole year. Now there are 10 ‘womanly’ girls in each class. They’ll innocently ask ‘when did sir first do it?’ and ‘when was your first kiss?’ Honestly, it’s hard to maintain control.”

Another girl, 15, speaks of her activities with fellow students, again coordinated by mail:

“My boyfriend asks me so we do it every day at school. Usually in the morning. Last night I had a mail asking ‘shall we do it tomorrow morning?’ I said sure, we went to school early and did it on the classroom veranda. Sometimes I get mails asking to do it after school when I’m still in class.”
She says of all this that:

“H is proof of how much you love each other. He likes me too, so he wants to do it all the time too.”

Such love is common – she estimates a quarter of her classmates are sexually active.

Yet another girl, 14, explains how she is happy to help out her boyfriend:
“He’s in the same school as me. When the chime goes off he seems to get hard, so when he can’t stand it we go off to the toilets at break and I get him off.”

Far from having to put up with this, she happily takes the lead and actively invites to the toilets, she says.

Tales of schoolgirl sex are usually presented as “a sign of the times,” with the insinuation that youthful sex is in some way unnatural or undesirable, but in fact statistics seem to show the proportion of sexually active schoolgirls has been stable for some time.

One official with a sex education foundation does however explain that high rates of mobile phone ownership amongst such schoolgirls are thought to be making it easier for girls to maintain intimate (or indeed, commercial) relationships, due to the ease and privacy of such communication.

Similarly, though middle and elementary schools teach about pregnancy but not sex, where schools are silent the Internet speaks volumes.

Indeed, under such circumstances it is perhaps more surprising that sexual activity amongst the youth of Japan has remained so stable.

-----------------------------------------------

American Teacher rapes over 40 schoolgirls


An American teaching English in Japan has been arrested for sexually assaulting at least 40 schoolgirls, videotaping himself abusing them in over 600 tapes. He admits to raping one elementary school girl because she “pestered” him, and explains his indecent filming as “creating a record of their transition to adulthood for them.”

The 69-year-old English teacher, an American long term resident of Fukuoka prefecture, was reportedly initially arrested in January on suspicion of indecently assaulting an elementary schooler whom he had been teaching in a classroom he operated at his home.

Police launched an investigation in response, soon uncovering evidence that he had assaulted another pupil some years ago, charges he admitted, saying “she was pestering me so I did her.”

Police searched his residence, finding over 600 videotapes. Analysing the contents of the confiscated tapes, they found evidence that the teacher had assaulted at least 40 schoolgirls over a 10 year period, most of whom appeared to be in elementary school.

He explained to police that he was “creating a record of their transition from childhood to adulthood to show to them later.”

His modus operandi was to call the girls to his home on some pretext, such as holding a “study session,” and then contrive to film them there. He secured their silence by telling them “Keep this a secret or your parents and teacher will be arrested.”

Police found no evidence he had been selling the tapes, suggesting they were for personal use.

He faces charges of rape, indecent assault and manufacturing child pornography. Police investigations continue.

English teachers in Japan, generally unqualified and completely unregulated, have a reputation for being scurrilous womanisers who substitute the colour of their skin for actual teaching qualifications, although cases of them actually molesting schoolgirls are rare, especially compared to the blighted state of the Japanese teaching profession.

Their already dubious reputation seems unlikely to improve in light of this incident, however.



Old is age is no excuse to believe a man is not dangerous. And you see the "white" skin color being given privilege over qualification by the inferiority complexed races! Modern eastern schools are crawling with westerners, especially whites. Go online and look at any arab schol in middle east, all the teachers are white. Sadly, even in the west the so called "isalmic" schools are crawling with whites and very few minority teachers, hardly any blacks at that!

Reply

islamica
01-11-2012, 06:17 PM
Prostitution rampant in Japanese Schools, Prices Below $35

Jul 5, 2009

Prostitution is said to be rampant in Japanese schools, with schoolgirls of ever younger ages selling their bodies for extra spending money, both to adults and amongst themselves.

Prices for girls in elementary school are said to have dropped below $35, leading some to wonder what has and will become of the nation’s public morals…

In many cases the prostitution is conducted through “deai-kei” sites, often relationship focused BBSes designed for use with mobile phones.

In one illustrative case, a middle school boy pimped out a thirteen-year-old girl for over $670 in total using such a site, whilst other schoolgirls used the site to sell their bodies themselves.

With these sites facilitating enjo kousai (“compensated dating”) to an unprecedented degree, a whole culture (or industry) of schoolgirl prostitution has sprung up, with girls being called “JC” in the slang of the sites, and with the large amounts of money involved encouraging involvement in the trade.

In a similar case to the above, a boy in middle school is said to have advertised “Recruiting JC in Kanagawa. You can make a lot so anyone looking for dates come to me,” and to have pimped out a 16-year-old girl for about $450.

Such prices are said to be the exception rather than the rule, and prices drop even further when pupils engage in prostitution amongst themselves, or when they are younger, with high school students selling themselves to one another for a paltry $35, and middle school pupils charging even less.

These sites have been subjected to increased police scrutiny amidst a major police crackdown, but it appears that many sites have no difficulty in operating discretely without police supervision posing a problem.

Nationwide filtering of children’s access to the Internet is touted as a solution, and is now in effect, but it seems this rather underestimates the ingenuity of such children, particularly when large amounts of money are at stake.

The girls selling their bodies in this way have apparently been getting younger and younger, with elementary schoolers now increasingly turning to prostitution as an easy way of accumulating pocket money; an account of which is provided by the clinic:

“The age at which kids are getting into sex is getting lower. Even girls in middle school are becoming very sexually active. A high school boy came in recently with a second year middle school girl recently, and the pair had been sexually active. The boy asked me to tell his friend about STDs, although at least she was with a good boy.”

However, promotion of condoms has apparently kept pregnancies to a minimum. Even so, some girls are blasé about the matter, and are happy to be pregnant. Even teachers are said to turn a blind eye to pregnancies rather than have to get involved.

Additionally, sexually transmitted diseases appear to be making an impact. Disturbing reports from healthcare professionals indicate that in some clinics, up to 30% of patients were in their teens.

One case is described in lurid detail:
“There was a girl in the fifth year of elementary school who was doing enjo kousai (casual prostitution), she was a groupie for talents. Her pantsu (panties) were always soiled [with blood], and she kept coming in with Chlamydia.”

The clinic staff warned her to stop having sex, but she persisted, and kept returning. Eventually she stopped visiting the clinic entirely.

------

Amongst university students the practice of such informal prostitution is said to be even more common; Japan’s womanhood has at some point apparently became a mass commodity, and it is difficult to see any reasons why this should be the case, at least ones more helpful than “because they are harlots”.

It does however seem the traditional approach of only blaming the men (and boys) involved, and then subjecting them to criminal sanction, has only created a culture where schoolgirls boldly hawk themselves with impunity.

Possibly it may be time to consider why it is these girls are so ready to sell themselves for additional pocket money, and whether it is indeed appropriate to absolve them of all responsibility for their actions…

__________________________________________

13-Year-Old Prostitutes herself for $30

A man (38) who engaged in indecent acts with a 13-year-old middle-schooler in a department store toilet, for the price of $30, has been arrested.

He is said to have promised the girl the $30, though we do not hear just what level of service he received; whatever it was, it was enough to get him arrested on child prostitution charges.

__________________________________________

Virgins Rare in Japan’s Lusty Schools


Otaku are struggling to come to terms with their enforced celibacy after recent surveys revealed that half of all third year high schoolers were no longer virgins, marking them as even more abnormal than they thought.
The surveys conducted by Japan’s Family Planning Association revealed that 47.3% of boys and 46.5% of girls had some experience of sex by their third year of high school, which coupled with results from other age groups shows a general trend towards sex at earlier ages.

However, observers were puzzled by the 40% decrease in sexual aspirations amongst younger children since the last time the survey was conducted in 1999; now it seems 31% of boys and 14% of girls in their third year of middle school “would like to try” sex, which could either mean their sexual ambitions have decreased, or possibly that they have already tried…
In spite of all this, a disturbing 15% of boys and 18% of girls agreed with the propositions that “it’s best not to have sex” (which bodes ill for the Japanese race) and “sex is best left until marriage” (which in Japan will usually mean waiting until their thirties).

Online reactions range from “I won’t accept it!” to “It seems healthy that there is no great gap between the sexes here”, and of course the blustering “We should be proud that we made it this far as virgins!”

__________________________________________

Pedophile videotapes himself having sex with a 9 year old

A man (21), arrested for his amorous antics with a twelve-year-old girl, had an interesting defense for his actions – he thought she was nine.

Police investigations revealed the man to have been introduced to the girl, in her first year of middle school, by a male acquaintance who knew her.
They met at a hotel, and there the man filmed himself having sex with girl, and saved the movie to his computer.

Police received an anonymous tipoff that the girl student had been involved in this, and on conducting searches of the contents of her phone, found it contained incriminating images, at which point they arrested their man.

As a result of all this, he was charged with both obscene acts and making child pornography. His admission was enlightening: “I thought the girl was a 9-year-old.”

__________________________________________

Pedophile arrested in $50 3-way teen Car Sex

A man who paid two 14-year-old schoolgirls to have a threesome with him in his car for $55 has been arrested.

The 22-year-old unemployed man, a resident of Fukuoka prefecture, apparently got in touch with the two middle schoolers after they began looking to hawk their bodies on a mobile phone dating site.

With the girls apparently seeking some easy money through enjo kousai (casual prostitution), and he looking for underage sex, he offered them a ride, and the trio later had sex together, with the main paying $55 for both girls.

However, the father of one of the girls began to suspect she was engaged in prostitution and approached police, who investigated and soon pressed charges against the man for violating anti-child prostitution laws.

Japanese schoolgirls are increasingly selling their virtue as a way of easily making extra cash, but rarely does one of their suitors secure them so cheaply, with $28 each being a great bargain compared to some, and one of the cheapest prices yet seen for a youthful Yamato maiden.


__________________________________________

University Defends Gang Rapists, Ignores Victim

Jun 4, 2009

A university has attracted almost universal criticism for defending at least six men who gang raped a fellow student, refusing to report them to police on the grounds that “they might commit suicide”.

The crime in question was perpetrated by six students of a Kyoto university, in their early to mid twenties, all of whom have been identified as sports specialists (including football).


The men took turns raping a highly inebriated 19-year-old girl at a drinking party, who had apparently passed out after drinking a large amount of beer. Reportedly, they held the door to the room into which they took the girl shut when a staff member attempted entry, and this aroused suspicions.

The victim reported the rape to the university, which investigated and suspended the perpetrators. It did not bother informing police though.

Police later acted to arrest the six, and all but one denied the crimes, claiming “she wasn’t drunk” and “she consented”. One however admits to the rape and confirms the details established by police.

In addition to the six, several other students are thought to have been present who might have intervened, but did nothing, and police are investigating this.

Whilst the crime itself has been given much coverage by the media, the astonishingly lenient response of the university has attracted equal attention, virtually all condemnatory.

The university first conducted an internal investigation, which concluded that “indecent acts” had indeed taken place. However, they did not report the matter to police, instead opting to merely suspend the rapists.

The university head explained that, had the case been made public, “the perpetrators might be in danger of committing suicide,” and due to these “educational considerations” they were not even expelled, and excused itself further by saying that it was not sure whether a rape had actually taken place, although it did not reveal details of its “investigations”.

He later defended his leniency further to students: “It was a heinous act which trampled on her rights. I wish to raise awareness of human rights, and for you all to reflect on this case. Maybe I’ll be called soft, but we also have a duty to allow these offenders to reform and go out into society at large,” referring to their suspension rather than expulsion.

It seems their victim will be expected to continue attending the same university as her rapists, assuming any of them manage to return to university in timely fashion after serving any ensuing sentences.
The reaction to the case, in particular the handling of the rapists by the university, has been one of outrage, with most observers concerned that the university is more concerned about protecting the perpetrators than it is about what appears to be a very clear example of a crime.


__________________________________________________

University Let Gang Rapist Teach at School

Jun 5, 2009
The controversy over the recent mishandling of a case of gang rape amongst its students by a Kyoto university has intensified with the news that one of the rapists had just started working as a middle school teacher, and the university apparently deliberately refrained from reporting that they investigated him (which they did not report to police) so he could continue working as a teacher.

The university, the Kyoto University of Education, trains teachers, and amongst those arrested recently for gang raping a fellow student at the university recently was a fresh graduate who had just started working at a local middle school.

He had apparently just started working as an assistant teacher at the school after receiving his licence, but after the details of his participation in the crime emerged the university not only did not report him to police, it did not even inform the local educational board about him.

Considering the remarks of the university head, it seems likely this was done to protect his career, and most likely also the reputation of the university. Whether the university took this into account in refraining from bringing in police at all is an open question.

With the media storm which ensued, the university finally decided to report that he had been suspended (although it seems he managed to graduate and start work despite being suspended months ago all the same) to the educational board. The teacher then immediately resigned, “for personal reasons.”

It seems the number one target for reducing sex crimes in Japan should be the teaching profession, as it looks to be packed with rapists, voyeurs and pedophiles…


__________________________________________________

Professor Groped Thousands of Breasts Using Logic

Jan 14, 2009

A university professor (62), who taught logic, over a twenty year period called over a thousand of his female students to his office, where he would beguile them with logic into allowing him to fondle their breasts.

He used the same argument each time, and only recently did a student manage to see through it, resulting in his arrest.

His technique was bizarre, but highly logical:
First the professor would call his chosen students to his office, for a lesson in logic:

“I can touch you without laying so much as a finger on you” he would say.
The perplexed students would naturally tend to respond “Impossible.”
If they did, he would follow through with “If I can’t do it, I’ll give you ¥1,000. (US $11)”

If the student agreed to the “wager”, he would immediately pull out his wallet, hand them a ¥1,000 note, and then begin brazenly fondling their breasts.

Those students who complained of sexual harassment or worse, he would silence with the following line of argument: “As you in fact gave verbal assent to the contract and accepted the ¥1,000 fee, the contract is complete. It’s meaningless to try to take this to court.”

He continued this same tactic for some 20 years without issue, and his victims are thought to number over a thousand. None it seems could overcome his logical arguments, or possessed knowledge of the fact that illegal contracts are unenforceable.

Only recently it seems did a student actually bring this to the attention of the proper authorities; he was soon arrested on charges of indecent assault.

Police are scathing, and are look at adding as many charges as they possibly can: “He abused his knowledge of logic to undertake this dastardly scheme.”
----
This unfortunate career of minor infamy certainly place the professor’s reputation in the gutter, but we must also wonder at either the intelligence, or the virtues of his student victims.

Buying his line says little about their wits, whilst settling for a bargain basement groper’s fee of 1,000 also says even less about them…
Reply

islamica
01-11-2012, 06:19 PM
Sex of any kind can harm teens emotionally

By Amy Norton

Teenagers often suffer emotional consequences from having sex, even when it's "only" oral sex, a study published Monday suggests.

Researchers at the University of California San Francisco found that up to one-half of the sexually active teenagers in their study said they'd ever felt "used," guilty or regretful after having sex.

Though such feelings were less common among teens who'd only had oral sex, about one-third reported some type of negative consequence.

Dr. Sonya S. Brady and Bonnie L. Halpern-Felsher report the findings in the journal Pediatrics.

The study, according to the researchers, suggests that parents should be sure to talk with their kids about the potential negative effects of having oral sex, not only intercourse.

"When parents and teens talk about the consequences of having 'sex,' they may not take the time to define what sex is," Brady and Halpern-Felsher noted in comments to Reuters Health.

"It is important for parents to help teens understand that having oral sex may result in social, emotional and physical health consequences -- just as having vaginal sex may result in these consequences."

In particular, the study found, girls were twice as likely as boys to say they'd ever "felt bad about themselves" after having sex, and three times more likely to say they'd felt used.

Though the study could not look at the reasons for this difference, other studies have noted that there's pressure on girls to at once be sexually attractive yet resist having sex.

"In contrast, boys' sexuality and sexual behavior is generally accepted," Brady and Halpern-Felsher pointed out. "Parents can play an important role in helping to eliminate this double standard by encouraging respect for women and discouraging the use of derogatory sexual terms."

The findings are based on a series of surveys given to 618 students at two public high schools, beginning in ninth grade when they were 14 years old. Of these, 275 reported having oral sex, vaginal sex or both by the spring of tenth grade.

Among the sexually active teens, those who said they'd had only oral sex were generally less likely to report negative consequences, whether physical -- pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections -- or emotional.

SOURCE: Pediatrics, February 2007.
Reply

Hey there! Looks like you're enjoying the discussion, but you're not signed up for an account.

When you create an account, you can participate in the discussions and share your thoughts. You also get notifications, here and via email, whenever new posts are made. And you can like posts and make new friends.
Sign Up
British Wholesales - Certified Wholesale Linen & Towels | Holiday in the Maldives

IslamicBoard

Experience a richer experience on our mobile app!