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Muslim Woman
01-05-2012, 03:02 PM
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Husband, Love Your Wife !!!

Love her … when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her… when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her… when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her… when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.


Love her… when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.

Love her… when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.

Love her… when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her… when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her… when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both

Love her… when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love her… she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!

The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessing of Allaah be upon him) advised concerning the woman:

• Treat the women well.
• The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives.

full post here :


http://blog.iloveallaah.com
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esperanza
01-05-2012, 07:26 PM
thank you for this sister.. ihope more men take this advice
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sis muslimah
01-05-2012, 07:41 PM
jazakallahu khair sis :)
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'Abd-al Latif
01-05-2012, 07:42 PM
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Is there one for 'Wife,love your husband!"?
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'Abd-al Latif
01-05-2012, 07:45 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Muslim Woman
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Love her… when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
That is annoying if anyone does it. Nobody likes a back seat driver lol.
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Eric H
01-05-2012, 08:29 PM
Greetings and peace be with you Muslim Woman,

format_quote Originally Posted by Muslim Woman
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Husband, Love Your Wife !!!

Love her … when she sips on your coffee or tea. She only wants to make sure it tastes just right for you.

Love her… when she has annoying little habits that drives you nuts. You have them too.

Love her… when her cooking is bad. She tries.

Love her… when she asks you to play with the kids. She did not "make" them on her own.


Love her… when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.

Love her… when she has developed a bad habit. You have many more and with wisdom and politeness you have all the time to help her change.

Love her… when she suffers from PMS. Buy chocolate, rub her feet and back and just chat to her (trust me this works!)

Love her… when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.

Love her… when she argues. She only wants to make things right for both

Love her… when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).

Love her… she is yours. You don't need any other special reason!!!!

The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessing of Allaah be upon him) advised concerning the woman:

• Treat the women well.
• The best of you are those who are the best in the treatment of their wives.

full post here :


http://blog.iloveallaah.com
My wife is wonderful, and like you, she does not want much from marraige ;D;D;D

In the spirit of praying for a good marraige

Eric
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Predator
01-05-2012, 08:42 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
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Is there one for 'Wife,love your husband!"?

Yes there is but thats more of warning of not to be ungrateful to husbands

It was narrated that ‘Abd-Allaah ibn ‘Abbaas said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allaah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (.” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allaah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 1052)
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Marina-Aisha
01-05-2012, 11:32 PM
i look at the site its very helpful thanx
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Muslim Woman
01-05-2012, 11:50 PM
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format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
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Is there one for 'Wife,love your husband!"?

have not seen yet ; brothers should try to find one . Best of luck.
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Muslim Woman
01-05-2012, 11:52 PM
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format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
Nobody likes a back seat driver lol.

Still Love her… when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe.
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'Abd-al Latif
01-06-2012, 12:12 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Muslim Woman
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have not seen yet ; brothers should try to find one . Best of luck.

Talk about gender discrimination :heated:!
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syilla
01-06-2012, 01:34 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
That is annoying if anyone does it. Nobody likes a back seat driver lol.
but it is very annoying too when you need to step on the brake at the back seat.
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'Abd-al Latif
01-06-2012, 01:40 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by syilla
but it is very annoying too when you need to step on the brake at the back seat.
Yeah but we're better drives, what's there to worry about? :shade:
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syilla
01-06-2012, 02:03 AM
don't say it too soon. better safe than never. anyways i'm always winning daytona when i'm with my hubby.
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Banu_Hashim
01-06-2012, 02:21 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
Yeah but we're better drives, what's there to worry about? :shade:
:exhausted Anyone else hear a can of worms being opened?
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Tilmeez
01-06-2012, 06:16 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Muslim Woman
Love her… when she "pushes" you to pray. She wants to be with you in Jannah (Paradise).
Love this! And I thought she is in competition with me. She almost everyday asks me about my salats.:exhausted

I was just wondering what if the husband does not want to be with her in Jannah? I mean he has already spent a whole life with her :p
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syilla
01-06-2012, 09:14 AM
^^^ you should be grateful akhi...the punishment of leaving salah is much worst compared to drinking alcohol or zina. the smallest thing we thought it doesn't matter but it does matter. Just imagine if we are the type who leaves salah but at the same time condemn people who are making zina :hmm:
naudhubillah.
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~ Sabr ~
01-06-2012, 09:18 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
Yeah but we're better drives, what's there to worry about? :shade:
I don't think so, stop kidding yourselves!
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'Abd-al Latif
01-06-2012, 10:26 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Umm Ahlaam
I don't think so, stop kidding yourselves!
Shall we have a parking competition to decide? ;D
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~ Sabr ~
01-06-2012, 10:36 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
Shall we have a parking competition to decide? ;D
Go for it! I drive like a guy anyway!
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'Abd-al Latif
01-06-2012, 11:08 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Umm Ahlaam
Go for it! I drive like a guy anyway!
That settles it.
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~ Sabr ~
01-06-2012, 11:10 AM
^ Meh!
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Samiun
01-06-2012, 11:27 AM
:sl: I have no wife but I don't understand some things like...

Love her… when her cooking is bad. She tries.
Love her… when she buys you gifts you don't like. Smile and tell her it's what you've always wanted.
Does this mean lying?

I am confused :heated:
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~ Sabr ~
01-06-2012, 11:29 AM
^ Just make her feel good! God why on this forum are people so overrated!!! CHILL!!!
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syilla
01-06-2012, 11:30 AM
^^^in islam its ok to lie if it to make your wife happy. probably someone can help me on hadith
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'Abd-al Latif
01-06-2012, 11:35 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by syilla
^^^in islam its ok to lie if it to make your wife happy. probably someone can help me on hadith
One should note that lying to the wife does not mean every lie on the face of this earth. These are small, harmless white lies that are applicable only in some situations.

It was narrated from Umm Kulthoom bint ‘Uqbah that she heard the Messenger of Allah (:saws1:) say: “He is not a liar who brings about reconciliation among people, conveys good words and says good things.”
Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 2546; Muslim, 2605

It was narrated that Asma’ bint Yazeed said: The Messenger of Allah (:saws1:) said: “Lies are not appropriate except in three cases: when a man speaks to his wife to please her, telling lies at times of war, and lying in order to bring about reconciliation between people.”

Shaykh al-Albaani said: it is hasan.
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ardianto
01-06-2012, 01:32 PM
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format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
Is there one for 'Wife,love your husband!"?
The only way to make our wives love us is love them.

:)
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Rhubarb Tart
01-06-2012, 02:29 PM
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Forget about lying, in Islamic guideline is say that men and women are not meant to be joking as demonstrated in this thread! Are you all bunch of hypocrites or what?
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syilla
01-06-2012, 02:36 PM
^^^i think they are actually husband and wife ;D

subhanallah lots of members are married..:statisfie
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ardianto
01-06-2012, 02:44 PM
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format_quote Originally Posted by sweet106
Forget about lying, in Islamic guideline is say that men and women are not meant to be joking as demonstrated in this thread! Are you all bunch of hypocrites or what?
Sister, if you visit my place and present in Islamic lecture about marriage, you can find jokes about men and women. The lectures tell these jokes to make men know about women, and women know about men. I am not kidding about it.
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jameelash
01-06-2012, 04:01 PM
salam,that,s great .come with more such posts
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Muslim Woman
01-06-2012, 04:24 PM
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format_quote Originally Posted by Tilmeez
I was just wondering what if the husband does not want to be with her in Jannah? I mean he has already spent a whole life with her :p
I guess , there is no choice . It's a reward for the Muslimah that she will be the queen in her husband's life there despite the fact that there will be many hoors.:statisfie
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Riana17
01-06-2012, 04:32 PM
Love this entry, reminds me of myself, totally opposite lol
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Muslim Woman
01-06-2012, 04:40 PM
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format_quote Originally Posted by Samiun



Does this mean lying?

I am confused :heated:

just don't be rude and don't say that I dont' like it . Some people tell everyone how his/ her spouse bought a cheap , horrible gift ; thus embarass the partner . That should be avoided .
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Muslim Woman
01-06-2012, 04:54 PM
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format_quote Originally Posted by 'Abd-al Latif
That settles it.
but the situation remains same - the good niyat of the wife :statisfie

… when she tells you how to drive. She only wants you to be safe. So , love her .
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Reflections
01-06-2012, 05:12 PM
JazakAllahukheir for sharing

*prints it off* lol

Would be interesting seeing an article for the wife loving her husband.
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Rhubarb Tart
01-06-2012, 05:24 PM
http://www.islamicboard.com/family-s...ife-islam.html

http://www.islamicboard.com/miscella...eous-wife.html
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Who Am I?
01-06-2012, 08:25 PM
This is why the war between the sexes will never be won. There is too much association with the enemy. ;D
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ardianto
11-01-2013, 03:42 AM
Love your wife with sincerity that come from your heart ........ then everyone will love you.
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shayanjameel08
11-01-2013, 05:35 AM
Yes you are absolutely right ..i think more men can advice with that...!
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ardianto
11-07-2013, 04:27 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by shayanjameel08
Yes you are absolutely right ..i think more men can advice with that...!
I realize it when I accompanied my wife in battling against her disease until she returned to Allah. I felt everyone love me with their du'a and support.
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ardianto
11-08-2013, 12:45 AM
I still feel everyone love me, and I believe I will always feel their love if I always have a love for them. Alhamdulillah, I grew up with love, and it make me have a love in my heart.

I am very happy if I could love, and I am very grateful when I feel a love that given to me.

:)
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angelix
12-17-2013, 10:10 AM
jazek allah sister
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